Today I saw this very attractive blonde on my subway ride back home. Logistics were bad. She was wearing headphones and I was decently far away from her (so I couldn't approach without giving away my intentions- not such a good idea in that environment).
I therefore needed to wait and see if she would get off at my stop, which she did. Only way to go from there would be direct. I did make moves in that direction, but it's still a big leap for me to take at this stage in my game, especially if she's got headphones on.
Overall, I can certainly say my sexual desire was killing the anxiety for the most part and I felt it dissolving, but it just seemed like a bad situation for a beginner. She didn't really seem that open either.
Excuses yes, but overall I can't feel terrible about not making this approach. I do however want to learn from the experience.
So how would you more experienced guys have handled this? Or would you have assessed it the way I did and not approach?
Edit: Talked about it in greater depth on my personal blog if you're interested.
I therefore needed to wait and see if she would get off at my stop, which she did. Only way to go from there would be direct. I did make moves in that direction, but it's still a big leap for me to take at this stage in my game, especially if she's got headphones on.
Overall, I can certainly say my sexual desire was killing the anxiety for the most part and I felt it dissolving, but it just seemed like a bad situation for a beginner. She didn't really seem that open either.
Excuses yes, but overall I can't feel terrible about not making this approach. I do however want to learn from the experience.
So how would you more experienced guys have handled this? Or would you have assessed it the way I did and not approach?
Edit: Talked about it in greater depth on my personal blog if you're interested.