[Moma]

For the longest time, I've been trying to tap these two women. They are from a part of the world that I have not yet breached and I made it my agenda to tap them this summer. I went all out at an event that was swarming with them and procured several numbers (since women from this country WILL not phuk on the same night unless westernised).
I had been calling the two women and texting them on a regular basis (communication established on an average of once every two weeks) and went on a date with each of them at a later date but after that they have been stalling and bullshytting on a major level (communication continued to ensue at a crawl).

Example of the bullshyt would be: No response to a phone call and voicemail left for at least one and a half week and then a sudden text message out of the blue saying how are you doing?

Both of these women were exhibiting the same behaviour. I am fairly certain that they were in relationships and were hedging their bets. As long as I get to nutt, I don't harbour envy over their commitment to other men or their sidestepping in relationships. I've been in things like this before and I didn't care.

Finally, I didn't bother responding to texts (which I think is a cowardly form of communication) and I have let them be.

However, I believe they know where women of their background hang out and club. Their men are not very open in letting one know where the women stay, the men enjoy to phuck other women but like to keep their women on a monopoly (like most men).
For instance, I asked a guy from their country to lead me to where his women are at and he muttered definitely but his body language was quite obviously distant.

I want to send them a text and ask them where the women from their country go clubbing. I really don't care about phuking them any more (although I won't say no if they offer the pudding) but I'd rather not feed their egos any more by even letting them know that I am thinking of them (which I am not beyond wondering whether to just delete their numbers from my phone).

What would your advice be, guys? Send them a text and ask them what clubs do their country women frequent or just delete them from my phone?

I want to be tactical here, I don't want to destroy a good information source here and this isn't a snide move to open up communication again with them (although they may think that).

I hope I haven't been too long winded. Please advise.

Gracias.

[Sonsowey]

If they're being terribly flakey just forget them.

But also know that a good way to combat flakiness is to build rapport and/or attraction. If you're not seeing them, sometimes chatting with them a LITTLE will help get them to come out. So texting, while not ''manly'' is a way to make her feel like you're more a part of her life, and feel worse about flaking on you.

[Moma]

(12-04-2010 12:17 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:  

If they're being terribly flakey just forget them.

But also know that a good way to combat flakiness is to build rapport and/or attraction. If you're not seeing them, sometimes chatting with them a LITTLE will help get them to come out. So texting, while not ''manly'' is a way to make her feel like you're more a part of her life, and feel worse about flaking on you.

It seems you are right. I sent a text asking one about clubs/bars where women of her culture frequent (under the pretense that I was going to take my cousin there since he was out of town).
She responded promptly with some details and address of a good spot.
I did go there this Saturday evening for about an hour to scout the talent.

She sent me a text the other day asking me if I went there and if so, how it was.
I responded saying it was excellent and that the culture is beautiful.
She then sent a text requesting a second date.
I told her she should come over and 'chill' at my crib.
She agreed and will arrange sometime this week.
I know it's counting chickens before they are hatched.

I need to pimp out my spot a little so I can facilitate the act of getting my leg over. I need to buy one of those teddies that Mixx is rocking and maybe get a DVD player or something.
My place is very spartan which I like but is not conduicive to getting punnies soaking, unless she is really craven for bloated sausage.