[Guanyanyo]

I'm now 50, I'm not fit by any stretch of imagination and I live in a troublesome relation since over 11 years. I've started reading pickup material last July or so, what means I don't really have game. Still, I've connected to some women over the last months, most of them at a course in communications I attended:
- HB6, 22 y/o, thin, not my type but a very sweet toughie displaying her adultness. She'd approach me and start comm on whatever, just nice. She eventually left.
- HB7, 32 y/o, blonde, beautiful small tits, a bit on the wild side. Would invite me to go smoke ganja during breaks and we had some very interesting conversations. Blew me off with a shit-test which I didn't see coming. Still lots of fun.
- HB8, 33 y/o, thin dark hotness, one of the teachers. I did use some body language on her during lectures. She eventually started doing diversion gestures such a scratching her face in weird ways and her state worsened from there - she started not knowing where to put her arms, generally behaving awkward and having that constant drooling smile and eyes a bit convergent, like some women have after they cum. On the last day of her lecture she grabbed me by the arm and muttered something unintelligible in my direction while blushing and smiling stupidly. She left to finish her doctorate in something only women find interesting.
- HB6, 40 y/o petite Swedish hardbody. She started giving me smiles during class and then would often seek my company during breaks, telling me about her life. She had steely muscles from outdoors activity, was generally a shy sweet girl towards me. Damaged goods, in a relation.
- HB7, 35 y/o mother of 3, thin, hot smartypants. I approached her and she was receptive to my blah-blah and curious, but body language said she had no interest. Left the course early.
- B5, about 30 y/o. During an embassy reception to which I went with my SO. Me standing at a a table gorging on expensive food, looking around. She walked in my direction and cracked me a shy smile when she saw me, half looking away. I fixated her semi-curious. When she passed me she gave me one of those dirty little smiles only women can give, blushed and turned her face to the floor. She was probably the wife of somebody there.

Now, I didn't close on any of these, I currently don't have a venue to take anybody (that can change) and I'm just starting in this, and want it to stay fun, no pressure. The place where this course took place was thick with feminist turds and work-related.

My take-away is that more girls hit on me than I hit on - only 1 of these 6 contacts was initiated by me. My other take-away is that this kind of no-pressure approach, just taking what comes, can be a life saver in the sense of keeping your head over water rather than drowning in depression, even if you don't go any further. Just having the sexual tension with a stranger is enough to lift me out of depression for a week.

If I had known how to recognize the approaches of girls when I was younger, I think I'd have shagged them by the dozen - hehe. More seriously it should be seen as an indispensable part of good parenting to teach game to boys.

My surprise take-away is that obviously I remain attractive to even a young audience, and things can only go uphill from here the more I learn about handling women. Perhaps I'll even find one or two who'll grace me with a child :-)

BTW, the hotness points are according to my own strict criteria, they'd have 1-2 points more according to what passes as quality standards on this forum

[AneroidOcean]

Flying penguin is such an appropriate avatar.

I was thinking you'd fucked all these women. Definitely a long way to go, but definitely cool that you take your small success and really enjoy it. Now you've gotta get out there and see what else you can accomplish. Should be inspiring to some of the older guys on here (I swear, I see guys say they're 29 or 36 and they think the world is over when it comes to picking up women).

You should work on getting in shape and having a venue to take them. I imagine you're not talking about a place to have sex eventually right? At 50 you better have one of those!

[PrimeTime32]

Nice work man. Do work! Good luck! and report back with your results.

[Travesty]

(12-09-2013 07:28 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

I swear, I see guys say they're 29 or 36 and they think the world is over when it comes to picking up women).

This is because there is a subset on this forum that strongly love and have a taste for young pussy 18-23 including myself.

I myself see a gigantic difference in bodies and sex between the majority of 25-27yo vs. the 23 and under.

To get these girls with less work in America it gets tougher 30+ for most guys, not all if you age well and play your cards right. More approaches, and I am guessing more lying about age etc... still not difficult, just not looking forward to extra work

Also I am not looking forward to single moms and girls that are bottled up and ready for serious relationships and marriage and leave having a good time at the front door.

[4profit]

I like this idea. For me, being 20 years old and just starting out in the game, I used to get discouraged a lot because my friends were all doing better than me, but that was dumb because I should only be comparing myself to my previous self.

One year ago, I was a very different person. I still have a lot of work to do, but over the past year I managed to meet more women than ages 16-19 combined, get some kiss and phone number closes, and even lose my virginity.

Last year (and even now) I didn't even have the balls to go up to a woman and say something!

Keep doing what you're doing, Guanyanyo, and your list is gonna get bigger and more impressive over time.

[MrXY]

You've approached one woman in the last several months?

You should be approaching ten a week to start

[ikkyu]

little victories can be some of the best. oddly the actual bangs I've managed (granted i am pretty new and i wasn't a virgin or incel) affected me a lot less than the changes in women's reactions I can see everywhere and everyday while I look and dress the exact same. Easy eye contact, minimal awkwardness, unaffected by unprovoked bitchiness from random hbs, consistent IoIs from girls I used to see as hopelessly out of my league and in general feeling like the more powerful one when interacting with a woman.

just take it as proof you're on track and go approach whenever you can. So many chances to do it just going about your life. Its been way easier than I expected and it just improves with time. Ten a week is very reasonable.