[lush1]

The last three out of four girls I've pulled have all said they don't trust me and that they think I have a girlfriend.

This is girls in different countries and totally different environments. I am a nice bloke and quite open and honest when I meet girls, I am wondering if they find this honesty weird? Maybe come across as too good to be true?

I have a tendancey to flirt with other girls whilst I'm gaming the other girl, I also mention ex gf and female friends. I don't do this for any reason just am open about myself. This might be not helping.

I'm doing something wrong but not sure what, anyone else had this?

[VincentVinturi]

Don't kiss and tell. A woman can tell intuitively if you're a ladies man anyway. Women sense it.

Saying it aloud kills the mystery and can come off as bragadocious. Being open and honest is all well and good but it doesn't mean you have to divulge anything and everything about your life, past and present.

[Statsi]

Your game is so tight that you're consistently pulling girls from different countries, environments, and backgrounds but 3/4 girls that you have sex with suspect you have a girlfriend.

What's the problem? Genuinely I don't see an issue. You're not even seeking help, you only want to know if this has happened to any other guy? No. Never. At no point is time has any guy, anywhere, ever been accused of having a girlfriend.

Agree and amplify- 'I think you have I girlfriend' - 'oh snap. I forgot all about her, she'll be here by ten, best if you make yourself scarce'

Mystery- 'I think not have a girlfriend' - 'I can honestly assure you I'm not in a serious monogamous relationship'

Ignore it 'I think you have a girlfriend' - 'I think you should make me some stew'

What is the issue? If you're getting laid you've already won, sure girls are going to pretend they can shit test you after you've have sex, but no card a Girl has is stronger than penis in vagina, she leaves? You have sex with someone else, penis in vagina tops all.

[DaveR]

It's important to withhold information which can go against you, not only with women but in business and other areas of life. What you don't say is just as important as what you do. In other words, don't play all of your cards at once.

[Courage Reborn]

(11-17-2013 10:25 AM)Statsi Wrote:  

no card a Girl has is stronger than penis in vagina, she leaves? You have sex with someone else, penis in vagina tops all.

^

[lush1]

The issue is that I'm not really into SNLs, I'd rather just have a few girls on rotation for a few weeks or days or whatever.

I don't really have the desire to go out chasing new girls every weekend, would rather keep a few around.

One of the girls was brilliant in bed but wont see me again cos she thinks I have a gf, that's annoying.

[calwinston]

(11-18-2013 06:55 AM)lush1 Wrote:  

The issue is that I'm not really into SNLs, I'd rather just have a few girls on rotation for a few weeks or days or whatever.

I don't really have the desire to go out chasing new girls every weekend, would rather keep a few around.

One of the girls was brilliant in bed but wont see me again cos she thinks I have a gf, that's annoying.

You must have been going aloof for a couple of weeks then coming back to them. This happened to me when I first started having girls on rotation. Women need male affection on a consistent basis. They also can sense if the affection coming from you is fake. Unfortunately for it to keep going you need to treat each of them like girlfriends instead of just fuck buddies. Then the sense will drop. You will have to evaluate what you are doing wrong and change it.
All relationships have progression. If there is no progression there is somebody else. That is how women think.

[funkyzeit]

It's a compliment they give you when they are almost certain that they'll open their legs for you. Don't sweat it, just evade answer or tease and you'll seal the deal.