[Kickb]

Ok so as some of you know, i have a chick that i have high hopes of banging. This would be my second new girl since i started studying game so this is fairly important to me.

Although she was enthusiastic about my invitation, i was worried about her flaking out since i set the date three/four days in advance for her to come over for some drinks. Anyways, tonight i get a text out of the blue from her saying

"I'm so stresssssed "
i say-"we can blow off some steam after finals"
she says "...ill be dead by then.."
I said "I would offer my stress relieving services now but i'm busy."( i was writing/studying for finals)
then for some reason i sent another text asking if she wrote the english paper yet. I dont know why i did that, i honestly dont care if she did or not..
since then she has wished me a happy belated birthday on facebook. I wasnt sure if i should reply to that or not. I think i will refrain from commenting

i guess my question to you vet's is are these signs of her being interested? and if you could be so kind to offer any relevant tips?

[Invictus]

First error: "this girl is important to me". Most girls have at least some qualities we can admire (like a pussy), but in general don't put them on a pedestal this early. Thinking this way burdens the interaction, which should be fun, flirty, light and mysterious with unnecessary emotion. So stop. More girls will come your way, never fear.

She was probably stressed, and either she was trying to get you to offer to change dates, or she wanted to bla bla bla with you.

Either way, I interpret it as a kinda subconcious shit-test, ie. she doesn't know she's doing it. I think you did OK, but asking about the paper was unnecessary. And THAT was because you care too much (ref. above).

[Kickb]

Alright thanks

[BaronStanley]

your interaction was ok. Her sending u a message for no reason is clearly an IOI. You are being way too much in your head about this. You don't need every fucking line you say to be comedic DHV push pull poetry of glory to get into a girl's pants. Most the time u spend interacting with a chic is pretty normal conversation.

I would've said some sort of joke as my natural response but that can come off as dickish but I'm a dick so... "When I get stressed, I go to youporn.com" But as I think about it more she is clearly looking for empathy. Saying something like. "yea, I know... be strong little buddy" might be best.