Quote: (12-27-2013 07:28 PM)atahualpa Wrote:
I have. Guy dating my ex, met him when picking up/dropping off the kids. When they first started dating I was blown away, he had her completely under control, had great game, great frame control. She was trying to play 'let's you and him fight" so we made 'friends' and ignored her.
Fast forward a month later he turned totally beta, the worst I've seen in a long time. Weepy phone calls literally crying "why do you like to hurt me" when she changed plans with him due to a kids obligation. I dropped the kids one night and stayed for a drink at ex's invitation, not more than an hour. I overheard him whinning, begging her to ask me to leave "I don't want him here". Surprised me because I wouldn't have stayed if we hadn't gotten along the first time I was there. He got needier and needier with her, until she had enough and dropped him. He then doubled down on the needy, machine gunning weepy texts to her about how much he loves her and what does she need him to do so that they can get back together, saying he will change, blowing up her phone, etc.
After it ended and he basically was stalking her I looked him up, turns out he was a minor celebrity on one of the old style PUA boards. I read some of his posts, he seemed to know his stuff with the innitial pickup, but not much else. Someone on the boards made fun or him for his "1997 Ross Jeffries" game. Seems like he was stuck in the 'fake it' stage.
Just goes to show what happens if you just play PUA and learn techniques without the internalization and inner game stuff.
I like your username. My grandfather boasts than we descended from Atahualpa. His offspring mixed with the Spanish and that's why we look the way we do. Maybe it's false but I like to think I have Incan royalty running through my veins.
On topic, it was the day before Mardi Gras (Lundy Gras?) and we were waiting for a taxi to pick us up where the street car stopped. I was still raw in PU but I witnessed some guy who looked a lot like Tyler Durden but shorter and buffer. He approached a chick from my uni and asked her what her name was. I will never forget the look in his eyes.
The Tyler-lookalike was traveling with two other dudes and they were flirting with the chick from my uni and her friend. I was sitting as close as possible to them (without looking out of place) to pick up tidbits of their convo. My friends traveling with me were mocking the guys. One of the dudes pulled away to smoke a cigarette and I approached him. We spoke for a bit and I brought up seduction:
Me- I don't mean to pry but do you guys study PUA?
Him- What? What's that?
Me- You know? Gunwitch, Mystery, RSD,
Him- I don't know what that is but all I know is I'm DOA (drunk on arrival).
The five of them found a taxi and left us. I saw the chick a few days later and she said she ditched them on Bourbon street. Although a chick I knew said she saw her with some "creepy guy" on campus. Did they fuck? I hope he put it in her ass because she was a cunt.
A few days later I found out there was a New Orleans lair and these guys were most likely apart of it. I wanted to join but I was "too busy." But I will never forget that guy's eyes. It was like looking into the eyes of a predator.
That shit inspired me. Whenever I feel my eyes focusing like his, upon chick, my night turns out great.