Two years ago when I got into Game and joined this site I was seeking the answers to three questions:
1.What did I do when I was younger that was so effective at getting the women I wanted? I didn’t know Game and I certainly didn’t use it. I actually did many things the Game manuals will tell you not to do. I would call girls whenever I wanted and say whatever I wanted. I never neged them. I wrote them love letters and poetry. I was a romantic.
2.Was there such a thing as a gaming shortcut or a universal game strategy. I have read a lot of books about game. Many of them have similar core principles e.g. be confident. But they also differ when it came to specific approaches and tactics. The overriding thing they all shared was a high level of complexity. There was no way I could remember all of this stuff. Plus you need different game for different places, different countries, different women – all very complicated. I hate complexity – my job in the real world is the reduction of it. I was going to bring my skills as an analyst to bear on this vexing problem.
3.Women are changing – another variable. What kind of game would work best with modern women.
As life would have it, the answer to the first question turned out to also be the answer to the other two. It took me long time to remember how I was and what I did when I was young. Primarily, because I never thought about it. But basically, all I did was express my desire for a girl in very confident and unapologetic manner. It’s the equivalent of walking up to a girl with her friends and telling her directly: “I want you.” It requires a level of confidence and machismo that very few men have today. But guess what, every guy I have met, (including a few from this forum) that get a lot of girls, have this ability to a high degree - certainly far above the average guy.
The SUM TOTAL of my GAME when I was younger was simply picking girls I was extremely attracted to and then pursuing them relentlessly. I didn’t try to hide my intentions or shade anything in any way. But that does not mean I ever lost control. I was always in control. At no point was I ever willing to sacrifice my dignity for any woman. I was also very sexual and I was comfortable in my sexuality. I didn’t get all of the girls I went after but I certainly got quite a few and these were all top-self girls. Even now, these girls set a standard that is difficult to match – especially given the low quality of girls here in the US. That’s was the sum total of my gaming skills. And guess what? This worked across all races, age groups, cultures, religion, you name it. In essence it was UNIVERSAL in its appeal. There wasn’t a woman anywhere in the world that did not respond to being desired in a forceful manner. BUT this is inherently different than a certain type of game I called shotgun game. It simply cannot be applied in mass numbers because you cannot desire a lot of girls to the degree that is required. If I find one girl I desire enough when I go out, on any given night, I consider myself lucky. Most of these girls were part of my social or work life. They were either in my school, they hung out in places I go to, or I worked with them in some capacity. In short, I had indirect access to them on a somewhat regular basis. Even if you don’t, it can still work, if you get good at communicating via email and/or phone. Back then and today, my chances of getting any given girls is directly related to how much I want her. The more I want her, the higher my chances are of getting her. Now, my biggest problem is not getting a girl, it’s actually wanting her. Here in the US, I find so few girls that I actually want.
And when it comes to SNL it has also been the same. Every SNL I have gotten was with a girl I really wanted and went after with deadly intentions. And every time I have failed it was because my desire just wasn’t strong enough. It’s a real struggle for me to find a girl I can really desire here in the US BUT when I do find one, I have a very high chance of bringing her down. My failure here in the US is more a failure of desire than of competence. For this approach to work, you have to desire the woman to a very high degree. So much so, that she becomes your focus and everything else ceases to exist. When you look at her, she will see this, and when a woman can feel this, there is nothing more seductive to her in the world.
A high desire + the confidence and will to express it, almost forcefully, is the key to what I consider to be my Universal Game. If I can do this, I can practically ignore ALL gaming advice, and my chances of success will still be very high. This is what works for me. I don’t know of any other way of getting a woman. Every time I use any of the gaming advice I have read, I fail and I fail miserably. Maybe it’s because I come across as insincere. Sincerity is a powerful thing and when you are really attracted to a woman, your behavior, your actions, everything will reek of sincerity. You won’t be able to be anything but sincere.
And now, we come to the modern woman and what she wants. Women intrinsically want to be dominated – it’s in their nature. But as women become more and more powerful the type of man capable of doing this becomes less and less available to them. The women today compared to the women of just 20 years ago is like a tiger to a pussy cat. Any man could dominate a pussy cat but it takes a whole different caliber of men to dominate a tiger. A woman wants to submit, we all want to submit to someone BUT we want to submit to someone we respect and admire. Men, especially here in the US, are no longer respected and certainly not admired. They are the laughing stock of TV shows and movies. Unfortunately, there is no shortcut here. The simple truth is: most men will never attain the level of confidence required to obtain the submission of most women today and all the game in the world is not going to change that. Even with Game, most men, are simply not willing to devote the time and energy necessary to become proficient at it. They would rather play golf, video games, poker, tennis, than play with women. This is the simple but brutal truth. So what kind of game works best with these powerful women? The exact same thing. If anything they are more susceptible to it than previous generations because it is something they experience so infrequently. When I apply this exact approach with these modern, corporate MBA, man killing types, the effect is even more powerful than on a regular girl – simply because very few men dare to ever use it on them.
I have tested this across continents, ages, races, cultures, languages, and various levels of beauty and it is the one thing that has always worked for me. It is the only thing I have found that has the power to cut across and through all of the factors when it comes to getting women. It is what worked for me years ago and it is what works for me now. For that matter, it is the only things that has ever worked for me. So, my journey of discovery is over. I don’t plan on reading any more game books or articles except for entertainment. My intention is simply to focus on one thing: become the man that expresses his desire for a woman without any shame, excuses, or games. If I can do this, history has proven to me, I will get the women I want - it's really that simple.
1.What did I do when I was younger that was so effective at getting the women I wanted? I didn’t know Game and I certainly didn’t use it. I actually did many things the Game manuals will tell you not to do. I would call girls whenever I wanted and say whatever I wanted. I never neged them. I wrote them love letters and poetry. I was a romantic.
2.Was there such a thing as a gaming shortcut or a universal game strategy. I have read a lot of books about game. Many of them have similar core principles e.g. be confident. But they also differ when it came to specific approaches and tactics. The overriding thing they all shared was a high level of complexity. There was no way I could remember all of this stuff. Plus you need different game for different places, different countries, different women – all very complicated. I hate complexity – my job in the real world is the reduction of it. I was going to bring my skills as an analyst to bear on this vexing problem.
3.Women are changing – another variable. What kind of game would work best with modern women.
As life would have it, the answer to the first question turned out to also be the answer to the other two. It took me long time to remember how I was and what I did when I was young. Primarily, because I never thought about it. But basically, all I did was express my desire for a girl in very confident and unapologetic manner. It’s the equivalent of walking up to a girl with her friends and telling her directly: “I want you.” It requires a level of confidence and machismo that very few men have today. But guess what, every guy I have met, (including a few from this forum) that get a lot of girls, have this ability to a high degree - certainly far above the average guy.
The SUM TOTAL of my GAME when I was younger was simply picking girls I was extremely attracted to and then pursuing them relentlessly. I didn’t try to hide my intentions or shade anything in any way. But that does not mean I ever lost control. I was always in control. At no point was I ever willing to sacrifice my dignity for any woman. I was also very sexual and I was comfortable in my sexuality. I didn’t get all of the girls I went after but I certainly got quite a few and these were all top-self girls. Even now, these girls set a standard that is difficult to match – especially given the low quality of girls here in the US. That’s was the sum total of my gaming skills. And guess what? This worked across all races, age groups, cultures, religion, you name it. In essence it was UNIVERSAL in its appeal. There wasn’t a woman anywhere in the world that did not respond to being desired in a forceful manner. BUT this is inherently different than a certain type of game I called shotgun game. It simply cannot be applied in mass numbers because you cannot desire a lot of girls to the degree that is required. If I find one girl I desire enough when I go out, on any given night, I consider myself lucky. Most of these girls were part of my social or work life. They were either in my school, they hung out in places I go to, or I worked with them in some capacity. In short, I had indirect access to them on a somewhat regular basis. Even if you don’t, it can still work, if you get good at communicating via email and/or phone. Back then and today, my chances of getting any given girls is directly related to how much I want her. The more I want her, the higher my chances are of getting her. Now, my biggest problem is not getting a girl, it’s actually wanting her. Here in the US, I find so few girls that I actually want.
And when it comes to SNL it has also been the same. Every SNL I have gotten was with a girl I really wanted and went after with deadly intentions. And every time I have failed it was because my desire just wasn’t strong enough. It’s a real struggle for me to find a girl I can really desire here in the US BUT when I do find one, I have a very high chance of bringing her down. My failure here in the US is more a failure of desire than of competence. For this approach to work, you have to desire the woman to a very high degree. So much so, that she becomes your focus and everything else ceases to exist. When you look at her, she will see this, and when a woman can feel this, there is nothing more seductive to her in the world.
A high desire + the confidence and will to express it, almost forcefully, is the key to what I consider to be my Universal Game. If I can do this, I can practically ignore ALL gaming advice, and my chances of success will still be very high. This is what works for me. I don’t know of any other way of getting a woman. Every time I use any of the gaming advice I have read, I fail and I fail miserably. Maybe it’s because I come across as insincere. Sincerity is a powerful thing and when you are really attracted to a woman, your behavior, your actions, everything will reek of sincerity. You won’t be able to be anything but sincere.
And now, we come to the modern woman and what she wants. Women intrinsically want to be dominated – it’s in their nature. But as women become more and more powerful the type of man capable of doing this becomes less and less available to them. The women today compared to the women of just 20 years ago is like a tiger to a pussy cat. Any man could dominate a pussy cat but it takes a whole different caliber of men to dominate a tiger. A woman wants to submit, we all want to submit to someone BUT we want to submit to someone we respect and admire. Men, especially here in the US, are no longer respected and certainly not admired. They are the laughing stock of TV shows and movies. Unfortunately, there is no shortcut here. The simple truth is: most men will never attain the level of confidence required to obtain the submission of most women today and all the game in the world is not going to change that. Even with Game, most men, are simply not willing to devote the time and energy necessary to become proficient at it. They would rather play golf, video games, poker, tennis, than play with women. This is the simple but brutal truth. So what kind of game works best with these powerful women? The exact same thing. If anything they are more susceptible to it than previous generations because it is something they experience so infrequently. When I apply this exact approach with these modern, corporate MBA, man killing types, the effect is even more powerful than on a regular girl – simply because very few men dare to ever use it on them.
I have tested this across continents, ages, races, cultures, languages, and various levels of beauty and it is the one thing that has always worked for me. It is the only thing I have found that has the power to cut across and through all of the factors when it comes to getting women. It is what worked for me years ago and it is what works for me now. For that matter, it is the only things that has ever worked for me. So, my journey of discovery is over. I don’t plan on reading any more game books or articles except for entertainment. My intention is simply to focus on one thing: become the man that expresses his desire for a woman without any shame, excuses, or games. If I can do this, history has proven to me, I will get the women I want - it's really that simple.