[assman]

I met and banged a 20yr old chick Friday night (I'm late 30s). Even before we fucked, she mentioned that her vag is pretty sensitive and bruises easily and that she hadn't had sex in 6 months, which would accentuate her vag's sensitivity. Sure enough, after one round that didn't even last that long (what can I say, it was a really tight pussy!), she was done. I was a bit disappointed as she had a tight body and I would have loved to plunder that pussy again. We talked for a while afterward about random stuff, and then she left; she did throw out the possibility of getting together again. As she was leaving, I asked her to text me when she got home (so that I know she got home safe), which she failed to do; I texted her asking if she got home safe; her response was a curt "Yes".

Normally, with chicks in their late 20s or 30s, they are very good about texting me when they get home - and nearly always mention something about having a great time, etc. Ditto with younger chicks who I know are really into me.

So I'm not really used to this level of aloofness, and if she didn't have the body she has (she worked as a stripper briefly), I would just write her off. But when you're 35+ and have the opportunity to repeatedly tap hot early 20's ass, you do not write it off so quickly.

I know from some earlier experiences with chicks in this age range, as well as posts on RVF, that attractive early 20s chicks can be very aloof, and no doubt have an endless stream of guys jockeying for their attention.

So how best to approach this? When we were chatting after sex, I mentioned the possibility of taking her out shooting, which she seemed interested in doing. Only worry is, I don't want to make this a platonic outing or build an expectation in her that she can now string me along for platonic activities without having sex. I could just invite her over for sex, but don't want to seem needy about it, and I'd guess there's a reasonably high risk of rejection given that she lives 30min away, and once she says no once, well, you know how that goes.

Drop some wisdom on me, RVF.

[Giovonny]

I deal with this all the time..

Sometimes they want to see you again, sometimes they don't.

Sometimes, there isn't a whole lot we can do about it. Young girls use us for dick. If they want it, they will call.

All you can do is ask her if she wants to hang out again. Hopefully, she says yes. If she says "no", don't panic, just play it cool and leave her alone for a week or so. She might call you when you least expect it.

Young, pretty girls have a lot going on in their social lives. They often don't like to make plans but rather wait until the last minutes to see all the offers they have.

Sometimes, they just want a one night stand with an older man. They don't want to make it a regular thing.

They are like a watermelon seed. They harder you squeeze them, the faster they will shoot away. You have to hold them with a loose grip and allow them to be kids, which they basically are at that age (18-20). EXPECT ALOOFNESS!

They will flake on you Friday night and then text you at 10pm on Saturday night. They are living the college life so it can be crazy sometimes!

Keep your texts light and playful. Refer back to jokes and funny moments that you had.

Don't put too much direct pressure on her. Just ask her to hang out again. If she agrees, you are good. If she plays games, post in this thread and maybe we can advise you.

Cute 20 year olds can be a tricky animal for older guy. Don't sweat it. Don't put her on a pedestal.

Play it cool and casually invite her to have more fun with you.

[assman]

Great points, Gio.

(10-13-2013 11:15 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Sometimes, there isn't a whole lot we can do about it. Young girls use us for dick. If they want it, they will call.

All you can do is ask her if she wants to hang out again. Hopefully, she says yes. If she says "no", don't panic, just play it cool and leave her alone for a week or so. She might call you when you least expect it.

Yep, been there. Got irritated at one young chick's flakiness and her last minute/late night texts and I chewed her out. Dumb dumb dumb.

Will play it cool with this one.