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Did I get LJBF'ed?
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Did I get LJBF'ed?

New details have come up regarding this old thread. I need outside assessment of this exchange. I know I'm breaking rules here, but I'm interested in my prospects of banging this girl again.

I haven't contacted her for 3 months (because I didn't think I had a chance), and then one day I get defriended on FB. I take this sign as positive.

A few days later, I send her a link to her email with an album I know she'd like. This was a few days after she defriended me on FB. I'm the only ex she ever defriended, so it was obvious she was mad.

She replied a few hours later:

"Thanks [Image: smile.gif] How you doing?"

"Doing fine. Been up to bla bla bla (I talked about I'm learning Spanish). Good to hear from you."

"Sounds like you've been busy! How is going with the Spanish? You could just have said so - then you could've gotten your own private teacher [Image: wink.gif] I hope you make it to Argentina. That would be great! Take care, beautiful (in Spanish)"

I replied, but heard nothing.

Two weeks later, I found out it's because her email is been down.

I contacted her again, and I wrote:

"Did you see my mail"

According to a mutual friend, this caused her to "totally get butterflies in her stomach"!

She replied, explaining what happened, and asked what I wrote. I told her I had asked how it was going, and she told me. Then she said if I wanted, we could meet up for coffee some time, and told me she thought I never wanted to talk to her again.

I replied a few days later, and we met up the following day. I can't wrap my head around whether it went good or bad, I was actually really nervous, but I think it was OK, because at the end she wanted to hug me goodbye. But I didn't hear from her for two weeks.

So, after two weeks, I contacted her, and told her to drop by a party I was at. She wasn't in the mood for the long queue (the queue is like 6 hours), she asked "There's probably a really long line. I don't think I am up for that. Is it cool?"

I was wasted, so I waited till the next day to reply. At our meeting she asked if I knew any good tea/coffee stores around. I found one last week.

So I wrote:

"Yeah, it was great fun. I can feel that today, as well, ouch. Old King's Road 56, check it out. Really good to see you and I'm glad you're doing well."

"Yes, likewise. It was a little crazy it took so long... it was actually my intention, to be there yesterday, but it didn't fit with Kis's schedule, so I did something else fun! What's happening on Old King's Road?"

"Something I think you might like. Where do the kids go out these days?"

She didn't respond. Instead, I got a text the next evening.

"Thanks for the tip [Image: smile.gif] now I have to if they have any nice tea that I could drink! Otherwise I'll just have to live off your speciality all winter! Hug"

I reckon I've been LJBF'ed.

I am not going to do anything with this, but I gather this girl had the hots for me, and I failed to do good game at our meet-up. Or am I missing any hints?
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