[G Q]

I had a first date with this girl in my condo, got her drunk, and eventually got the lay. After banging a couple more times, she was drunkenly telling me that she liked me a lot and wants me to be her boyfriend. She seemed to be super interested in me but the whole time I was still playing it cool. She cries a couple times during the night because she apparently isn't the type of girl to be banging on the first date. She just came out of a 3 year relationship a few months ago and I was the 2nd guy she's ever fucked. She also cried because stupid me got cocky and told her I had logistically planned the whole night to have sex with her. I comforted her and she went back to laughing again.

The following morning we bang again and she pays for our breakfast then leaves. We text a little later the same day and right when I text her "maybe next weekend we'll go out again" she never texts back. I've already sent her 2 additional small talk texts and a phone call over a 7 day period and I'm getting radio silence from her.

I really want to get this girl on repeat because she has a smoking body and is a really good fuck, but now she's just giving me radio silence. This behavior is especially weird because she seemed to be a clinger when we were together. There could be a million reasons why she's doing this but have any of you guys experienced this? Did I just get pumped and dumped for the first time? How do I handle this to get her on repeat?

This girl is 18, a model, and claims to be a relationship girl(these may be factors as to why she's ignoring me now).

Any input is great. Thanks guys..

[Therapsid]

(10-05-2013 07:13 AM)G Q Wrote:  

I had a first date with this girl in my condo, got her drunk, and eventually got the lay. After banging a couple more times, she was drunkenly telling me that she liked me a lot and wants me to be her boyfriend. She seemed to be super interested in me but the whole time I was still playing it cool. She cries a couple times during the night because she apparently isn't the type of girl to be banging on the first date. She just came out of a 3 year relationship a few months ago and I was the 2nd guy she's ever fucked. She also cried because stupid me got cocky and told her I had logistically planned the whole night to have sex with her. I comforted her and she went back to laughing again.

The following morning we bang again and she pays for our breakfast then leaves. We text a little later the same day and right when I text her "maybe next weekend we'll go out again" she never texts back. I've already sent her 2 additional small talk texts and a phone call over a 7 day period and I'm getting radio silence from her.

I really want to get this girl on repeat because she has a smoking body and is a really good fuck, but now she's just giving me radio silence. This behavior is especially weird because she seemed to be a clinger when we were together. There could be a million reasons why she's doing this but have any of you guys experienced this? Did I just get pumped and dumped for the first time? How do I handle this to get her on repeat?

This girl is 18, a model, and claims to be a relationship girl(these may be factors as to why she's ignoring me now).

Any input is great. Thanks guys..

Don't beat yourself up about it. And don't ever say that you as a man got pumped and dumped. You got the notch on a first date, anything else is gravy. It happens all the time. The whole crying after sex routine is pretty typical for a girl just out of a LTR.

I'd text her again and try to get her to come out to something concrete. She probably doesn't want to feel like a fuckbuddy, even if that's what you make her. The whole "maybe next week we'll go out again" may not have conveyed enough intent on your part. After you bang a girl, it's ok to show some desire for her, you're not a beta orbiter anymore.

It could be if you had switched it to even something as subtly different as: "If you're free this week, we should grab a drink sometime," she would have responded. Then just have that drink at your place.

[teh_skeeze]

Never tell a girl that you planned everything out to get into her pants. It ruins the whole idea of "it just happened" that girls love. You fucked her, then made her feel like a whore for doing so. I wouldn't say that it's a done deal because you live in the vicinity, but it's time to move on to the next one. Girls that are fresh out of a relationship require careful handling as they are emotionally fragile. If you are going to try to get her again you will need to run beta game. I don't think it's a good idea though.

[Virtus]

(10-05-2013 10:12 AM)teh_skeeze Wrote:  

Never tell a girl that you planned everything out to get into her pants. It ruins the whole idea of "it just happened" that girls love.

Its pretty much like a girl telling you that she faked every orgasm so you would keep taking her to dinner

[Remington]

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Don't beat yourself up about it. And don't ever say that you as a man got pumped and dumped. You got the notch on a first date, anything else is gravy. It happens all the time. The whole crying after sex routine is pretty typical for a girl just out of a LTR.
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Sounds like she had a whore-gasm.

[WestIndianArchie]

More text battles. ugh.

At least you figured out what your mistake was.

Rookies love to talk about game with their prospects and conquests.
Same with the red pill.

It's like Born Again Christians, people who just finished Atlas Shrugged or the Communist Manifesto - when you have a big hammer everything looks like a nail.

Since you know so much about game, you know that the right course of action is to keep the lines of communication open, and not get one-itis over an 18 year old with a good body.

WIA

[CJ]

You've already tried contacting her 4 times, and got no response; take a hint dude, and forget about this one.

This may shock you, but there's plenty of other girls with good bodies that are fun to fuck.