I've been analyzing my approach to meeting and seducing women over the last few years and I've noticed that i typically try to escalate with women very quickly and try to turn the interaction physical as soon as possible, within a few hours on the first date if possible. Not neccesarily leading to sex, but making out, petting, etc...
Lately I've been playing with the idea of trying more of a laid back, relaxed, slower approach to taking things physical with girls. I don't mean waiting weeks or months, but maybe letting things be a little ambiguos for the first couple togethers, to keep it fun and light and then move forward. In other words just slowing things down a bit, to keep her wondering and keep the tension building.
The idea came to meet because I recently met a girl on Facebook that I'm getting together with to "practice spanish" with where I am here in Nicaragua and we got together the other day at like 9 in the morning and have another morning get together tomorrow. I have no doubt this will go where I want it to, just a matter of time and logistics.
Any thoughts or experiences with "slow seduction" vs "Fast Seduction" pros, cons, etc...
Lately I've been playing with the idea of trying more of a laid back, relaxed, slower approach to taking things physical with girls. I don't mean waiting weeks or months, but maybe letting things be a little ambiguos for the first couple togethers, to keep it fun and light and then move forward. In other words just slowing things down a bit, to keep her wondering and keep the tension building.
The idea came to meet because I recently met a girl on Facebook that I'm getting together with to "practice spanish" with where I am here in Nicaragua and we got together the other day at like 9 in the morning and have another morning get together tomorrow. I have no doubt this will go where I want it to, just a matter of time and logistics.
Any thoughts or experiences with "slow seduction" vs "Fast Seduction" pros, cons, etc...