Yesterday I got kind of creative. I used this new opener I created myself. You basically walk up to a group of girls, preferable 3-4 and say "Hey, I think I fancy one of you girls".. They will ask "who?" and be kind of guessing and amuzed. Then you say "Guess.." and there will be a fun interaction. I'm still working on this opener. Maybe you guys can help me. What is a fun way to reveal the girl you fancy. Just say it?
My group opener
That's a good idea OP. I've had that happen to me, when the girls demanded to know which one was my target, especially with a direct approach. If both of them are cute, the choice is arbitrary. Committing to one usually backfires because she's taken and then the other one does not want to be a second choice. It's the whole "Beautiful mind" thing, except you can't assume all girls are available. I know-I know, if they are out - they want to meet guys. But I don't want to waste my time stroking some girl's ego.
The one thing that has worked for me was "well, you both are cute and I can't choose one just yet". However, I think it only works if both girls are into you, otherwise the one that doesn't will label you indecisive. It's a fantastic shit-test from the girl's point of view. If you guess wrong, you're out quickly. If you guess right, you're meant to be.
Before the bar gets loud on a week night, there are always pairs of classy girls standing alone. One of them is typically married/committed and the other one wants that for herself. So the single one drags the other one out for moral support. If the girl is married, that's easy to tell. But if she's not, how can you tell which one of the two girls is the single one? Sluttier outfit? Heels? Drink? Eyes?
The one thing that has worked for me was "well, you both are cute and I can't choose one just yet". However, I think it only works if both girls are into you, otherwise the one that doesn't will label you indecisive. It's a fantastic shit-test from the girl's point of view. If you guess wrong, you're out quickly. If you guess right, you're meant to be.
Before the bar gets loud on a week night, there are always pairs of classy girls standing alone. One of them is typically married/committed and the other one wants that for herself. So the single one drags the other one out for moral support. If the girl is married, that's easy to tell. But if she's not, how can you tell which one of the two girls is the single one? Sluttier outfit? Heels? Drink? Eyes?
This can work of you're a good looking guy or already have some status with the group. If you're an average looking guy an you roll up on a group of attractive women with this, there's a good chance umthat you're going to get blown out.
One way around that might be to game one of the group first, preferably the girl with the most clout. If one or two of the girls are into you, the rest may come around.
One way around that might be to game one of the group first, preferably the girl with the most clout. If one or two of the girls are into you, the rest may come around.
- hey, I think I fancy one of you girls
- who?
- guess..
- no tell us!
- well, when you combine [point at yourself] blue eyes and [look a the girl] blonde hair.. the babies will be so beautiful
- who?
- guess..
- no tell us!
- well, when you combine [point at yourself] blue eyes and [look a the girl] blonde hair.. the babies will be so beautiful
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