This past weekend I had a girl on lock. She came over and we pregamed with some friends and then went to another party. While at that party we are taking shots and chillin with I ( stupidly) do what Im used to doing and walk around the party looking for girls to talk to. I end up leaving this chick by her self for a good 10min, and when I come back another dude had swooped in. Towards the end of the night I suggest that she come home with me and she declined.
The morale of the story is to never pass up on the sure thing. I could have easily had the bang but I fucked it up by leaving her alone to long ( a rookie mistake). So fellas, learn from my mistake. If this ever happens to you, don't get to down on yourself, failure is there for us to succeed. I initially, beat myself up for losing the bang, but after taking some time to think about the situation I've come to the conclusion that I would rather fail now and learn from my mistake than to fail later or never at all. If your like me, thinking about all the time you've put into the interaction that is now lost makes you feel horrible about the loss. remember, you did it once, you can do it again. Through failure we succeed.
The morale of the story is to never pass up on the sure thing. I could have easily had the bang but I fucked it up by leaving her alone to long ( a rookie mistake). So fellas, learn from my mistake. If this ever happens to you, don't get to down on yourself, failure is there for us to succeed. I initially, beat myself up for losing the bang, but after taking some time to think about the situation I've come to the conclusion that I would rather fail now and learn from my mistake than to fail later or never at all. If your like me, thinking about all the time you've put into the interaction that is now lost makes you feel horrible about the loss. remember, you did it once, you can do it again. Through failure we succeed.