[urbrock]

OK this is messed up. Lately I've been pulling hotter and hotter chicks but it seems like the hotter the girl the worse my performance anxiety, which is non existent with 6s, 7s and 8s.... Recently I took home two what I would describe as perfect 10s.... The first one I simply couldn't maintain an erection for and didn't sleep with. The second one I got it up but barely the first time and then today I saw her again and couldn't perform at all. She seeemed cool about it but this is really messing with my head. It seems ironic to me that the hotter the girl the harder it is to perform, but alas, this seems to be the case for me. Obviously this is some sort of mental thing as with most girls I'm fine, but any tips or techniques on how to address this. I jokingly suggested to the girls today that she's too hot for me, but wtf?! I finally start pulling the girls of my dreams and this?? Anybody else have something like this?

[Virtus]

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[cocko]

don't be a fool. blame her for your performance issues, tell her to do a sexy dance, get you in the mood etc. you'll find wood once you take them off the pedestal

[Parlay44]

(09-03-2013 05:08 PM)cocko Wrote:  

don't be a fool. blame her for your performance issues, tell her to do a sexy dance, get you in the mood etc. you'll find wood once you take them off the pedestal

Man any hot girl I've been with has forgotten how to be sexy. They're all fucking whacked in the head. They're too used to little boys fawning all over them. I've actually turned down sex before cause she just wasn't doing it for me. The vibe just wasn't there. Sad.

[urbrock]

(09-03-2013 05:13 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(09-03-2013 05:08 PM)cocko Wrote:  

don't be a fool. blame her for your performance issues, tell her to do a sexy dance, get you in the mood etc. you'll find wood once you take them off the pedestal

Man any hot girl I've been with has forgotten how to be sexy. They're all fucking whacked in the head. They're too used to little boys fawning all over them. I've actually turned down sex before cause she just wasn't doing it for me. The vibe just wasn't there. Sad.

Yeah i think is part of the problem. I mean last night i was with a girl who is at most a 7, but the vibe just felt so much better. Everything worked perfectly, so i know my problem isn't physiological. Then today, this absolutely perfect looking girl and it just wasn't happening for some reason....

[Que enspastic]

It's ok, there is no reason to be afraid.

[Sonsowey]

Man some of the hotter girls have definitely been the worst in my experience. One jerked me off so fast and hard that she was basically hammer-punching my nuts.

Girls have no fucking clue.

[tiggaling]

I'd say it is not you, it is them. They have forgotten to put in an effort to connect or be present or be sensual or *anything* because all they need to do is to showup and validate mens egos. AND a lot of men are so happy with being validating about getting a 9 or 10, and are so nervous around them anyway, that they really don't know any better. And the girls may think the guys get too nervous around them to really perform, but a lot of the time, the girls are just not putting out any vibe at all, as their superficial looks is supposed to be enough.

Your dick however, does not have eyes, and knows that something is amiss, and doesn't respond favourably to the situation, so you may mistakenly believe it is YOU and not them. (a common female trick!)

I've come to see many 9's and 10's as hopeless cases, which actually is a good frame to attract them! BUT, you may find her 6.2 friend MUCH more authentically attractive and a better lay than the princess.

This is the thing, a 9 or 10 doesn't need to be authentically warm or even hot in the inside, she can just rest on her laurels and everything will happen for her. Yet real intimacy will often evade her. A lot of these girls have problems with bulimia/anorexia, because inside they do not really feel attractive, which is often the fact of the matter, and they see that lack of attraction as being represented as being FAT; but actually its an internal quotient. They just have no pulling power apart from their good looks...

[urbrock]

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It's ok, there is no reason to be afraid.
[/quote

haha thank you

[OGNorCal707]

(09-03-2013 04:34 PM)urbrock Wrote:  

OK this is messed up. Lately I've been pulling hotter and hotter chicks but it seems like the hotter the girl the worse my performance anxiety, which is non existent with 6s, 7s and 8s.... Recently I took home two what I would describe as perfect 10s.... The first one I simply couldn't maintain an erection for and didn't sleep with. The second one I got it up but barely the first time and then today I saw her again and couldn't perform at all. She seeemed cool about it but this is really messing with my head. It seems ironic to me that the hotter the girl the harder it is to perform, but alas, this seems to be the case for me. Obviously this is some sort of mental thing as with most girls I'm fine, but any tips or techniques on how to address this. I jokingly suggested to the girls today that she's too hot for me, but wtf?! I finally start pulling the girls of my dreams and this?? Anybody else have something like this?

Damn man, this post really hit home, I hate to admit it, because it's embarassing, but I've struggled with this issue too at times.

My last pull from the bars about 3 weeks ago was a hot ass 20 year old blonde girl that got into the bar with a fake ID. Banging body, fat round booty, big titties, pretty much gamed her perfectly. Got her back to my house, shaved pristine tight pussy, tongue ring, pierced nipples, I hit the jackpot, except for one big little problem. Performance anxiety.

For me it's some weird level of anxiety usually mixed with whiskey dick, I was going to make a post about "whiskey dick", but I fear that my body is pretty sensitive to alcohol, and I have had many issues with drinking too much and getting whiskey dick in the past. Couple that with the anxiety of "first time jitters" and it can be a real boner killer.

So to make a long story short, this blonde was hotter than the usual that I've been pulling this past year, you'd think my dick would be rock hard for her, but nope. In my defense she was a real "dead fish" though and wasn't touching my cock at all and refused to suck it, even though she looked like a major kinky freak with the tongue ring and pierced nips. I ended up fingering her, sucking her tits, and munching the puss, but couldn't get hard.

Strangely enough I've taken home girls that are sixes and much less attractive, and gotten instantly hard for them and fucked the shit out of them for an hour straight. It's got to be linked with anxiety. What's even more odd though is that in the moment I am mentally aroused and not feeling conciously nervous, but on some deeper subconcious level I must have anxiety and psyche myself out.

I guess they say "misery loves company" so I got to say I feel a little bit better reading another guys report about this. I am noticing a trend between the correlation of how hot a girl is and how much performance anxiety I get.

Really the solution is to pull more hot girls and get used to pulling hot girls, and get used to fucking the shit out of hot girls so you will be desensitized to them. Oh yeah I also hate to admit that I usually cum way quicker the hotter they are, but that's probably true of all guys.

[Lethal]

(09-04-2013 02:17 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(09-03-2013 04:34 PM)urbrock Wrote:  

OK this is messed up. Lately I've been pulling hotter and hotter chicks but it seems like the hotter the girl the worse my performance anxiety, which is non existent with 6s, 7s and 8s.... Recently I took home two what I would describe as perfect 10s.... The first one I simply couldn't maintain an erection for and didn't sleep with. The second one I got it up but barely the first time and then today I saw her again and couldn't perform at all. She seeemed cool about it but this is really messing with my head. It seems ironic to me that the hotter the girl the harder it is to perform, but alas, this seems to be the case for me. Obviously this is some sort of mental thing as with most girls I'm fine, but any tips or techniques on how to address this. I jokingly suggested to the girls today that she's too hot for me, but wtf?! I finally start pulling the girls of my dreams and this?? Anybody else have something like this?

Damn man, this post really hit home, I hate to admit it, because it's embarassing, but I've struggled with this issue too at times.

My last pull from the bars about 3 weeks ago was a hot ass 20 year old blonde girl that got into the bar with a fake ID. Banging body, fat round booty, big titties, pretty much gamed her perfectly. Got her back to my house, shaved pristine tight pussy, tongue ring, pierced nipples, I hit the jackpot, except for one big little problem. Performance anxiety.

For me it's some weird level of anxiety usually mixed with whiskey dick, I was going to make a post about "whiskey dick", but I fear that my body is pretty sensitive to alcohol, and I have had many issues with drinking too much and getting whiskey dick in the past. Couple that with the anxiety of "first time jitters" and it can be a real boner killer.

So to make a long story short, this blonde was hotter than the usual that I've been pulling this past year, you'd think my dick would be rock hard for her, but nope. In my defense she was a real "dead fish" though and wasn't touching my cock at all and refused to suck it, even though she looked like a major kinky freak with the tongue ring and pierced nips. I ended up fingering her, sucking her tits, and munching the puss, but couldn't get hard.

Strangely enough I've taken home girls that are sixes and much less attractive, and gotten instantly hard for them and fucked the shit out of them for an hour straight. It's got to be linked with anxiety. What's even more odd though is that in the moment I am mentally aroused and not feeling conciously nervous, but on some deeper subconcious level I must have anxiety and psyche myself out.

I guess they say "misery loves company" so I got to say I feel a little bit better reading another guys report about this. I am noticing a trend between the correlation of how hot a girl is and how much performance anxiety I get.

Really the solution is to pull more hot girls and get used to pulling hot girls, and get used to fucking the shit out of hot girls so you will be desensitized to them. Oh yeah I also hate to admit that I usually cum way quicker the hotter they are, but that's probably true of all guys.

Damn dude that sucks. It might not just be performance anxiety... could be a number of factors so avoid the alcohol if possible. Read up on factors about that. I think smoking may also affect this too if you smoke.

[Waffles]

I have a somewhat similar problem, it's not really performance anxiety, but it's the inability to cum while wearing rubbers. I'm already wearing the most comfortable rubbers there are, and the girls always seem to cum, but I just keep fucking for 1-2-3 hours and nothing. I noticed a correlation with the hotness of the girl but it also seems to be directly linked to condoms. What to do?

[urbrock]

(09-04-2013 02:17 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(09-03-2013 04:34 PM)urbrock Wrote:  

OK this is messed up. Lately I've been pulling hotter and hotter chicks but it seems like the hotter the girl the worse my performance anxiety, which is non existent with 6s, 7s and 8s.... Recently I took home two what I would describe as perfect 10s.... The first one I simply couldn't maintain an erection for and didn't sleep with. The second one I got it up but barely the first time and then today I saw her again and couldn't perform at all. She seeemed cool about it but this is really messing with my head. It seems ironic to me that the hotter the girl the harder it is to perform, but alas, this seems to be the case for me. Obviously this is some sort of mental thing as with most girls I'm fine, but any tips or techniques on how to address this. I jokingly suggested to the girls today that she's too hot for me, but wtf?! I finally start pulling the girls of my dreams and this?? Anybody else have something like this?

Damn man, this post really hit home, I hate to admit it, because it's embarassing, but I've struggled with this issue too at times.

My last pull from the bars about 3 weeks ago was a hot ass 20 year old blonde girl that got into the bar with a fake ID. Banging body, fat round booty, big titties, pretty much gamed her perfectly. Got her back to my house, shaved pristine tight pussy, tongue ring, pierced nipples, I hit the jackpot, except for one big little problem. Performance anxiety.

For me it's some weird level of anxiety usually mixed with whiskey dick, I was going to make a post about "whiskey dick", but I fear that my body is pretty sensitive to alcohol, and I have had many issues with drinking too much and getting whiskey dick in the past. Couple that with the anxiety of "first time jitters" and it can be a real boner killer.

So to make a long story short, this blonde was hotter than the usual that I've been pulling this past year, you'd think my dick would be rock hard for her, but nope. In my defense she was a real "dead fish" though and wasn't touching my cock at all and refused to suck it, even though she looked like a major kinky freak with the tongue ring and pierced nips. I ended up fingering her, sucking her tits, and munching the puss, but couldn't get hard.

Strangely enough I've taken home girls that are sixes and much less attractive, and gotten instantly hard for them and fucked the shit out of them for an hour straight. It's got to be linked with anxiety. What's even more odd though is that in the moment I am mentally aroused and not feeling conciously nervous, but on some deeper subconcious level I must have anxiety and psyche myself out.

I guess they say "misery loves company" so I got to say I feel a little bit better reading another guys report about this. I am noticing a trend between the correlation of how hot a girl is and how much performance anxiety I get.

Really the solution is to pull more hot girls and get used to pulling hot girls, and get used to fucking the shit out of hot girls so you will be desensitized to them. Oh yeah I also hate to admit that I usually cum way quicker the hotter they are, but that's probably true of all guys.

Yes, this is exactly what happens to me. I don't feel like I'm having performance anxiety, but something happens somewhere deep inside me that causes me to not perform as well with super hot girls.... and then when I notice this happening I start focusing on it and then I really do get anxious.... It's true that often times really hot girls aren't quite as fun in bed but i think it's more than that for me. I mean with most girls just them being naked and willing is enough for me!

I think I'm just going to keep a little levitra on hand for 9s and up and use that the first couple times.... this shit is not going to happen again!

[Spider]

Cialis until you have slept with her a few times. A simple pill that has extremely few side effects can really help you in this situation (until you're comfortable with her)

This link gives a decent breakdown of the drug: http://www.goodlookingloser.com/exercise...is/cialis/

[urbrock]

(09-04-2013 02:17 AM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(09-03-2013 04:34 PM)urbrock Wrote:  

OK this is messed up. Lately I've been pulling hotter and hotter chicks but it seems like the hotter the girl the worse my performance anxiety, which is non existent with 6s, 7s and 8s.... Recently I took home two what I would describe as perfect 10s.... The first one I simply couldn't maintain an erection for and didn't sleep with. The second one I got it up but barely the first time and then today I saw her again and couldn't perform at all. She seeemed cool about it but this is really messing with my head. It seems ironic to me that the hotter the girl the harder it is to perform, but alas, this seems to be the case for me. Obviously this is some sort of mental thing as with most girls I'm fine, but any tips or techniques on how to address this. I jokingly suggested to the girls today that she's too hot for me, but wtf?! I finally start pulling the girls of my dreams and this?? Anybody else have something like this?

Damn man, this post really hit home, I hate to admit it, because it's embarassing, but I've struggled with this issue too at times.

My last pull from the bars about 3 weeks ago was a hot ass 20 year old blonde girl that got into the bar with a fake ID. Banging body, fat round booty, big titties, pretty much gamed her perfectly. Got her back to my house, shaved pristine tight pussy, tongue ring, pierced nipples, I hit the jackpot, except for one big little problem. Performance anxiety.

For me it's some weird level of anxiety usually mixed with whiskey dick, I was going to make a post about "whiskey dick", but I fear that my body is pretty sensitive to alcohol, and I have had many issues with drinking too much and getting whiskey dick in the past. Couple that with the anxiety of "first time jitters" and it can be a real boner killer.

So to make a long story short, this blonde was hotter than the usual that I've been pulling this past year, you'd think my dick would be rock hard for her, but nope. In my defense she was a real "dead fish" though and wasn't touching my cock at all and refused to suck it, even though she looked like a major kinky freak with the tongue ring and pierced nips. I ended up fingering her, sucking her tits, and munching the puss, but couldn't get hard.

Strangely enough I've taken home girls that are sixes and much less attractive, and gotten instantly hard for them and fucked the shit out of them for an hour straight. It's got to be linked with anxiety. What's even more odd though is that in the moment I am mentally aroused and not feeling conciously nervous, but on some deeper subconcious level I must have anxiety and psyche myself out.

I guess they say "misery loves company" so I got to say I feel a little bit better reading another guys report about this. I am noticing a trend between the correlation of how hot a girl is and how much performance anxiety I get.

Really the solution is to pull more hot girls and get used to pulling hot girls, and get used to fucking the shit out of hot girls so you will be desensitized to them. Oh yeah I also hate to admit that I usually cum way quicker the hotter they are, but that's probably true of all guys.

Yes, this is exactly what happens to me. I don't feel like I'm having performance anxiety, but something happens somewhere deep inside me that causes me to not perform as well with super hot girls.... and then when I notice this happening I start focusing on it and then I really do get anxious.... It's true that often times really hot girls aren't quite as fun in bed but i think it's more than that for me. I mean with most girls just them being naked and willing is enough for me!

I think I'm just going to keep a little levitra on hand for 9s and up and use that the first couple times.... this shit is not going to happen again!

[reaper23]

for the all the 9's and up you're banging!

unless you have a physiological problem that occurs all the time, its likely them.

[Roosh]

Obvious troll