[Felix88]

I just realized recently I hate dating, whenever I'm on date with girls, I always feel like I'm wasting time because we can fuck like monkey or do something productive at home instead of talking about banal things. Any idea to make dating a more enjoyable experiences or way to reframe my mind, Japanese women are feminine but they are such a bore. Any input is appreciate.

[lskdfjldsf]

Do something that both you enjoy and she would find interesting/unusual at the same time. Going for a coffee or dinner are two of the worst choices in my opinion - you're only setting yourself up for boring conversations about nothing.

If your first date is exciting and fun, the girl will think you are exciting and fun.

Examples:
- Paintballing, kayaking, riding a hot air balloon (actually did this once, tons of fun), shooting guns, the zoo, etc.

[Felix88]

(09-02-2013 05:16 AM)Blick Mang Wrote:  

the zoo

Thanks, I forgot I live near the zoo. Have some funny story about how the crocodiles ate my friend's cigarettes too, never think about that place.*facepalm*

[emuelle1]

First dates are about as much fun as a job interview. Best bet is to do something that encourages getting to know each other. If you live near a beach or a park or somewhere with a walking trail, just go there. It doesn't cost anything, so you're not out money if you never see her again.

[thegmanifesto]

(09-02-2013 04:19 AM)Felix88 Wrote:  

I just realized recently I hate dating, whenever I'm on date with girls, I always feel like I'm wasting time because we can fuck like monkey or do something productive at home instead of talking about banal things. Any idea to make dating a more enjoyable experiences or way to reframe my mind, Japanese women are feminine but they are such a bore. Any input is appreciate.

Easy.

Do this:



Problem solved.

[Tuthmosis]

Quote:

I hate dating, what should I do?

Several options:

1. Get famous
2. Get very wealthy
3. Jerk off to porn at your house

[tylerdurden1993]

Unfortunately if you want a reasonable sex life (unless your amazing at getting ONS) going on dates is one of them things you're going to have to do, just go to a bar and try and have fun because if you go into a date with the attitude of the original post you're not going to be bringing your A game.

If you still hate dating that much and cant bring yourself to do it I suppose there'll always be hookers

[Parlay44]

Become a Porn star.

[Ensam]

Get a motorcycle. Take her for a ride. You don't have to talk and in my experience chicks who are down for a motorcycle ride are generally down to fuck too.

[Electro]

I kind of understand what you mean about them being time wasting, however, they're good for building connections with the girl. Just do something fun (some of the things already mentioned in this thread) if you find them boring.

[el mechanico]

Enjoy the time you get to spend with those Japanese cunts while you can and turn your dates into them helping you run errands like your groceries etc if they bore you.

Your complaint shows entitlement. I sentence you to ten years of dating american girls.

[soup]

You have to let women know from the first moment that you aren't a "dating guy" or "boyfriend" material.

The bad boy gets the ass fast.

Or, look up "first date bang recipe" here. That will you a framework to focus on. It's kind of like those kids movies that are also supposed to be funny for the accompanying adults. The date is for her (the kid), and the game is for you.

Nothing is banal on a date. There is so much info that you have to be monitoring in real time coming from the girl, and yourself as well. There are body language cues, conversation shifts, annoying bartenders.. there's a whole adventure on a date that is there if you open your eyes.

Are her legs crossed towards you or away from you? Are you drinking faster than she is (don't)? Is she about to check her iphone? etc.

[Soma]

[WesternCancer]

(09-02-2013 08:41 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Enjoy the time you get to spend with those Japanese cunts while you can and turn your dates into them helping you run errands like your groceries etc if they bore you.

Your complaint shows entitlement. I sentence you to ten years of dating american girls.

This. Some of my most successful dates have come from going to the grocery store.

The supermarket has everything, all the visual cues you can relate old stories to. You can learn a lot from a girl by the way she shops and what food she buys or wants to get.

I should do some in depth analysis of "supermarket date game"

[Skotch]

(09-02-2013 04:19 AM)Felix88 Wrote:  

I just realized recently I hate dating, whenever I'm on date with girls, I always feel like I'm wasting time because we can fuck like monkey or do something productive at home instead of talking about banal things. Any idea to make dating a more enjoyable experiences or way to reframe my mind, Japanese women are feminine but they are such a bore. Any input is appreciate.

If you're not having fun, you're doing it wrong. Japanese girls can be idiots, but they're feminine, cute, and take well to teasing. If you can't seem to get any fun out of your date (I suppose it does happen), then change the plan up. My favorite routine before moving to Kyoto was billiards → mexican bar → bar with private booths and games and a ridiculously tiny entrance → my place. Even if I didn't bang them that night, I never felt like I was wasting time.