Deciding whether to game or not to game based on the phenotype preferences of women
08-24-2013, 02:02 PM
A friend of mine (she is of Mediterranid appearance) has a very strong preference for one particular racial subtype – the Nordic one (tall stature, blond or light brown hair, light eyes). Virtually all her favourite movie stars, singers, etc. (Tom Felton, Jon Bon Jovi and many others) fit this description.
I really believe in the tenets of “game”, as it’s an excellent tool for self-improvement and could help you become more confident in your own abilities/encourage you to love yourself and also continue to appreciate the beauty of the opposite gender. However, on occasions a woman (or a man) may be too transfixed on a particular phenotype, so if you have a physical appearance that doesn’t fit the bill, then it may be wise to redirect your energies elsewhere.
1) In your experience, what percentage of women is attracted to only one particular look in a man (just one racial subtype)? For instance, do you know of many women who would only give a chance to a guy who looks Arabid, to take one example, and would completely refuse to date or have a one night stand with anyone who doesn’t fall within this racial spectrum?
2) Do you try to obtain third party information regarding a specific woman’s racial and/or sub-racial preferences (by asking her friends, looking into her dating history) before approaching her in order to minimize the likelihood of rejection? Even for an experienced player being turned down may be painful and figuring out the degree to which a woman is racially or sub-racially selective prior to the actual interaction (as difficult as that is) could be quite helpful and actually reduce the number of negative experiences. Sometimes you are rebuffed due to something unrelated to game, but nonetheless tend to be very hard on yourself in the aftermath of an unsuccessful encounter.
I really believe in the tenets of “game”, as it’s an excellent tool for self-improvement and could help you become more confident in your own abilities/encourage you to love yourself and also continue to appreciate the beauty of the opposite gender. However, on occasions a woman (or a man) may be too transfixed on a particular phenotype, so if you have a physical appearance that doesn’t fit the bill, then it may be wise to redirect your energies elsewhere.
1) In your experience, what percentage of women is attracted to only one particular look in a man (just one racial subtype)? For instance, do you know of many women who would only give a chance to a guy who looks Arabid, to take one example, and would completely refuse to date or have a one night stand with anyone who doesn’t fall within this racial spectrum?
2) Do you try to obtain third party information regarding a specific woman’s racial and/or sub-racial preferences (by asking her friends, looking into her dating history) before approaching her in order to minimize the likelihood of rejection? Even for an experienced player being turned down may be painful and figuring out the degree to which a woman is racially or sub-racially selective prior to the actual interaction (as difficult as that is) could be quite helpful and actually reduce the number of negative experiences. Sometimes you are rebuffed due to something unrelated to game, but nonetheless tend to be very hard on yourself in the aftermath of an unsuccessful encounter.