Quote: (11-14-2016 05:26 PM)RichieP Wrote:
For those of you with ADHD -
How do you experience it? What are you symptoms? What made you suspect it?
(Particularly interested in the attentional issues)
Cheers!
One word unproductivity. I plan my days as much as I can and force myself to respect my calendar, but at the end of every day I waste a considerable amount of time. For example, I will be studying finance my mind will start thinking about all the finance thing related… Warren Buffett… One thing will lead to another and I am on wikipedia looking up Heinze revenues. I can’t focus and it kills me. About concentration, I grew up and notice how people around can fully concentrate on what they are doing and literally shut down. I am unable do that.
This random train of thoughts bothers me also when discussing about something. I will go off topic often and start talking about non-related stuff. I will talk about anything I have on my mind even if it’s not related.It’s usually frustrating for the interlocutor when we are talking about serious matters. because I see people around me able to study for 2 hours straight and I will need all day to focus 1 hours. It’s horrible.
I also tend to hyperfocus on things for a little amount of time then drop them altogether. For instance, I will learn guitar. I will do it for 3 months and then stop it altogether because it start boring me. Same thing for salsa and many other activities I engaged in. I can’t push through the boredom phase, I usually find another thing that interests me more and I start learning that.
A list of my symptoms:
1) I have trouble keeping attention on tasks. I can’t really concentrate on an activity unless I am 100% into it.
2) I get bored easily.
3) I zone out when people talk to me. When my friends speak to me I just can’t concentrate on what they are saying. This can be frustrating for the interlocutor.
4) I can’t get shit done / I procrastinate a lot.
5) I was hyperactive growing up as a kid. I broke my leg and had several stitches, 6) I don’t know if it’s a symptom though.
7) I will not pay bills until the last date…
8) I lose stuff (I lost 2 coffee a month ago)
9) Crappy memory I forget things easily.
10) I fidget a lot with my feet
11) I got into 2 car accidents. One because I was using my phone...
12) I often blur out the answer to a question before answered.
What made me suspect it?
Two good friends of mine who don’t know each other told me that I had concentration problem recently. I was studying with my friend and he told me “it’s a shame you’re smart but you have concentration problems”. Two days later, I am talking to a friend of mine overseas and he mentions how I always had concentration problems.
Maybe ADHD is overdiagnosed in the West but I grew up overseas where people don't know about ADHD. I am sure an ADHD pill would have made many lives better, more student succeed at school and more people successful in life in general. I wish I knew about it before I would have probably been more successful but whatever better late than never. I have my appointment with the psychiatrist in a month to see what he thinks about this.