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Girl in club with another guy checking me out
08-05-2013, 04:06 PM
found this a weird experience the other day in the club. i was at the bar on the way to the dance floor. this super hot and sexy dressed chicks walks really slow by me. because it was full of people, i did not see that she hat her b/f or date right behind her. we still had a deep eye contact for many seconds which was extremely sexy and i also showed her my interest.
the rest of the night, whenever my eyes were making their round in the club. she would look at me, despite dancing dirty with her friend, despite kissing me. she would constantly look at me and smile at me. i thought she got turned on by the fact that I watched her now and then (i did not stare at her for hours of course). but that cannot be. because we had dirty eye contact before i even knew she was with a guy and before they were dancing and kissing.
what would you have done? i cannot go and talk to her while she is kssing/dancing ... but clearly, she was also interested ... the guy would not let her out of sight of course ...
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Girl in club with another guy checking me out
08-05-2013, 04:53 PM
i noticed experienced this once too. don't understand it, maybe a woman applying the "pre-selection" idea to men.
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Girl in club with another guy checking me out
08-05-2013, 05:02 PM
I've had this happen to me a few times, the one time the girl made it clear she was attracted (she nodded and winked at me) I've made her a signal to meet me by the restroom in a few minutes, she never came by..
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Girl in club with another guy checking me out
08-06-2013, 08:57 AM
Just another cocktease having her typical club session.
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Girl in club with another guy checking me out
08-06-2013, 09:11 PM
I have a few stories about this. A few years ago I was at a club with my roommate and it was pretty early so there weren't a lot of people yet. I spotted a girl with a guy by the dance floor and she was looking super bored. I caught her looking at me a couple times so I motioned for her to meet me by the bathroom and she did. I ran the 2 minute drill and got her number. At this point I thought I was pretty clever. Unfortunately, her man's friend who I had no idea about spotted us and told him. When we emerged from the bathroom area boyfriend's already waiting there and he's pissed. He puffs his chest out and starts yelling like he's ready to throw down at the bar. I think to myself this broad is a 7 at best so a. I can box this dude and my night ends before it even begins or b. I can diffuse the situation and hope I pull something that looks better without getting arrested. I chose neither because part of me wanted to see what he would do. Boyfriend's buddy clearly wasn't a fighter so he talked him down and they ended up buying me and my roommate a shot! In the end I never called her because the thrill wasn't there anymore but if I spot a girl giving me vibes my willingness to make a move goes up with how hot she is. Most of the time you can ghost in there undetected but if you do it enough you're bound to get busted. It's a high risk/high reward (not all the time) game so if you're skittish on dealing with potentially negative consequences, you should stick to readily available broads.
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Girl in club with another guy checking me out
08-06-2013, 09:28 PM
Attraction is not a choice.
A girl can be extremely happy, satisfied, and loyal to her man, but can still be attracted to other guys that exhibit x,y,z that she finds attractive.
If she was giving you constant looks it might just mean that that attraction was very strong.
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Girl in club with another guy checking me out
08-07-2013, 12:23 AM
Wait until either she or him go to the bathroom - approach and either get her number or give her yours. This has happened to me a few times. Once the girl even gave me the number of her boyfriend because she had some problem with her phone and he was right there - but this was in Europe.