[pimpc]

ok heres the low down. 2 summers ago me and this girl started talking to each other after both of our exes ended up hooking up. long story short, we would party everyweekend at our friends house and we just ended up hooking up with each other every time. we had a strong sexual connection, but she was shy at the time and wouldnt really put out, she told me i had to "work at it". anyway, that was about 2 years ago. since then i've talked to her on an off. most recently this summer. this summer i was back in town and i talked to her and wanted to have a little fun with her. anyway, the first nite i hang out with her she tells me that shes dating a guy that like 31, and shes 18. shes really not smart when it comes to guys, because shes hot as hell, and usually goes for scumbags. i told her that she should never be going out with this guy from the beginning. and she didnt listen at all, i gave her reasons.. but she had to find out for herself.

now 5 months later, she's not talking to the guy anymore, i didnt ask what happend, but she changed her number, so its definately something fuked up i would imagine. anyway now she calls me and is begging me to come to this little wayne concert with her. if i was living back home i would definatley go, but i'm 2 hours away at school, and i even think its during the week so it would be a huge inconvenience.

so i'm not sure if i should take her up on her offer or not. a big reason is because thruout the summer, she was leading me on, i would ask her to do something for the nite and she would say yes, then would never answer when it came time to hang out. this happend numerous times.

so heres how i feel right now, i feel like she wants my hog even moreso since i totally called her last relationship b/c i was looking out for her. i feel like she konws that, but i feel like i shouldn't give her the satisfaction of coming in to go to a concert with her just yet.

i really want some advice tho .. sorry for the long ass write up too

[pyroman_a7x]

Dude, I'd go for it. My current girlfriend did pretty much the same thing all summer long. We hooked up last month and it has been amazing. IDK if that is what you are looking for but I got blown off for two and a half months. Pretty much weekly. But then she called me and asked me to do something. I thought exactly the same thing you typed here but I decided to go for it. And like I said, it has been amazing!! I say go for it Pimp.

[twigman]

i' d tell her you got better things to do.

Find a girl in your town who is 10 minutes away and do something with her.

No way I would make that much investment for girl who could just blow me off.

[Roosh]

Make her come to you, otherwise you'll feel like an idiot if you travel there and she is on another guy.

[pimpc]

truth right there.. ive been in enough of those situations..thanks for pointin it out roosh b/c i wouldn't have realized on my own

and how should i respond to this facebook wall post she left me?
"come. please please"

[Trotter]

Blow her off and let her know you have better things to do. I suppose at the very least you should tell her to come to you since it's pretty clear she doesn't intend to honor her comittments with you going there. Right now I bet she's just looking for validation or is thinking she wants to fuck with someone else because she feels like she was fucked over by the previous dude (maybe).

In any event, I would tell her to shove off.

[twigman]

Come Please Please.

Its a manipulation she uses probably hundreds of times a year, probably pretty successfully with most guys, who she just uses and then avoids.

[duncanidaho]

(10-16-2008 05:31 PM)pimpc Wrote:  

i really want some advice tho...

Keep your pimp hand strong and don't go.

[jdh989]

aight bro
unless she knows you have nothing to do, say you cant go because you HAVE to do something else thats REALLY important, besides your job, because thats still kind blowing her off but tell her something that she would totally understand like a friends wedding or something, stay away from funerals or stuff like that. Then buy some tickets to some other concert that you know shell like, and tell her that you won them off the radio and that you wanted to make it up to her by bringing her. Bam! it eliminates the other dude factor, and makes her excited that you won something kindof for her, and its a date for 2.