[jimukr104]

"In America, I rarely see busted dudes with hot girls. It happens once every six month"

Is that really true? Traditionally men always got better looking chicks. Is that different for the younger generation?

[The Beast1]

(07-31-2013 02:46 PM)jimukr104 Wrote:  

"In America, I rarely see busted dudes with hot girls. It happens once every six month"

Is that really true? Traditionally men always got better looking chicks. Is that different for the younger generation?

Yeah, i've seen decent looking dudes hooking up and marrying fatter and fatter women.

Occassionally, I'll see the opposite and it makes me happy. However, there will always be exceptions to the rule.

[Merenguero]

I think Miami is an exception in the United States. There are tons of guys dating up and tons of guys dating down.

[Nascimento]

I'm in Brazil right now and its unbelievable how many attractive girls are dating busted dudes.

Some of these guys give off a vibe that seems needy too. They constantly grab their girl in public as if the girl is the best thing that has ever happened to them. Despite this, a lot of the girls seem happy with the guys. I walk by couples and rarely do the girls even acknowledge me through eye contact when I walk by them, where a lot of single girls (at least walking on their own) do.

Comparatively, in NA where I live in a midsized city near Toronto, guys that date hot girls are usually on par in looks. In college, I assume the guys have a great social standing. Other than that, he must have a lot of money (toronto case).

Rarely do you see a busted dude with a hot girl up there.

At the same time, rarely do you see any couple where the guy seems needy when with his girl in public and she isn't looking out for other guys.

This might be no surprise to those who've travelled plenty abroad, but it's my first time abroad with knowledge of game and now I see it with my own eyes.

And with the case that miami might be a spot where guys can date up, I believe that is due to the insane population of latinas (namely cubans and brazilians) living there.

[Travesty]

My cousin is a 6'4" ex-ocean lifeguard, was banging the hottest girl in his high school 10 years ago (Ukrainian genes). Now just got engaged to a lawyer that blew up from 5'4" 115lbs 7.0 .... to 160+ lbs no make up 4.5.

College roommate became an attorney, athletic outdoorsy guy, plays guitar etc... started dating a 7 when he was finishing law school. Still with her and she blew up from 5'4" 125lbs to now maybe 200lbs. She is literally bigger than him and he is built like a fire hydrant.

Best friend from grad school just got married last year to his high school sweetheart. Guy is extremely funny, caring, makes good money, life of the party. His wife in high school was a slim 7.0 now blown up to maybe 225lbs and runs him. At least they took a break at some point while dating and he banged a crazy 8.0 for awhile.


One of my other best friends from college and roommate has lived abroad in Italy now Brazil and is in a top MBA program in Rio. Got his GF their pregnant right before he was going to breakup because she was getting too fat. Now he just had his first kid and is chained to her and family. She was a slim, cute girl next door 7.0 when they started. Now she is 160+lbs, God knows probably more after the kid. This guy has done a lot of extreme climbing, well-traveled, knows culture and history, and has picked up a bit of Italian and speaks Portugese fluently now. So not an American case... but it follows suit.

I see case after case and it is striking what quality guys will settle for and the most depressing thing is as the girls let themselves go, the guys slowly give in and follow suit. It is awful.