[gandt]

I posted this in my thread on my trip to Russia. But this chick kept slapping me... HARD. So at one point i got fed up of her shit and yelled EXTREMELY LOUD at her "what the fuck do you think you're doing?"

I was probably an inch from her face while grabbing her wrist in the middle of a packed club.

She started crying, went off by herself for the rest of the night. As for the rest of the club... No one was shocked. I think it might be fairly common place to see that in Russia.

[Kieran]

That video got me so fucking angry. Probably because it could so easily be me as there's no way I could let a woman hit me and not hit back.

Those white knights react quick too, almost like it's an instinct in them.

[soup]

(08-09-2013 07:42 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Thinking about it more, if a girl slapped me in a bar the best thing to do would be to give her a titty twister

And this is the difference between manosphere and player thinking.

[pirate player]

This happened to me once while having sex with a fuck buddy, she was telling me that she was on her safe days and i could raw dog her, but i couldn't confirm it and said no, she kept insisting on it and i started rumbling some weird shit like i have never raw dogged before, i might get you pregnant.

Then it slipped out "you might be sick" baa m! she slapped me hard and said fuck you!.
I dont know why but i snapped and said "no fuck you! and this pussy is mine! " i started raw dogging her while she cried "no its not" and i was replaying "yes it is". it was crazy i fucked her until she came while saying "yesssss!".
Thankfully i come to my senses and pulled out and finished oh her tits.

[metalheadatheart]

I like to tell them they hit like a girl. They usually come back with, "I am a girl, duh!" So I say something like, "exactly. Nothing to worry about." Note that these are for playful "omg ur sucha jerk" slaps. Never had a girl try to seriously hurt me.

P.S. Hello to the forum. I've been lurking for awhile, and this is my first post.

[WestIndianArchie]

Da fuck?

If a broad raises her hand at me clearly I don't instill that healthy sense of fear in her that EVERY man should.

So I respond by leaving the club and going straight to my nearest 24 hour gym because my goal in life would be to look as scary and jacked as possible because right now I look like a pussy.

For it to happen 3x...

[Courage Reborn]

(08-09-2013 05:26 PM)scorpion Wrote:  

If a girl slaps you in a bar and you're holding a drink, immediately dump it on her head and walk away.

Thanks scorpion. I like this response best. Hopefully I'll never have to use it.

[CJ_W]

wow dude, got slapped 3 times. You gotta work on why you're attracting women like that to you.

Oh and that 3rd time, yeah you shouldn't had said something like that.

a lot of guys do this. . .they think Cocky and Funny means BE A DICK.

When it just means, chill and feel. as in chill in her presence, and feel how you feel, if you feel good, then good, if you don't then remember to chill. it comes naturally, a lot of guys just try to hard, and end up . . . "being a dick"tm.

So. . .stop trying so hard. . .

or go to sea//ee

(08-10-2013 07:28 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Da fuck?

If a broad raises her hand at me clearly I don't instill that healthy sense of fear in her that EVERY man should.

So I respond by leaving the club and going straight to my nearest 24 hour gym because my goal in life would be to look as scary and jacked as possible because right now I look like a pussy.

For it to happen 3x...

[CJ_W]

delete

[Leo]

I'm sorry to hear bro. I've never had a girl or woman slap me ever. I would like to think that this is because they have respect & fear of what I would do when I get pissed off, and something like slapping me will do that. I did slap a girl in private for disrespecting me - and she ended up respecting me more after that.

Btw, look at your avatar. Avatars are usually a visual manifestation of one's character. Your lion looks like a little child/boy pushover. It has this cheesy grin. I hope you don't interact with people with that same grin. I think it makes people want to slap that grin off your face. Ha.

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If a broad raises her hand at me clearly I don't instill that healthy sense of fear in her that EVERY man should.

This right here. Maybe work on showing more of an intolerance for bs: getting visibly angry or mad, a little violence..also when women sense (mental) weakness they pounce on it. Its instinctive.

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..but then I relax, and I say "you know what, don't worry about it. Just an accident".

You suppressed your natural reaction with what I think is beta social programming most American males are subjected to. Right then she knew she had you.

So, if she gives any lip, immediately deal with it right then & there. Tight game manifested. I think men need to have zero tolerance for women's bs. Letting them slide with this for decades is what's contributed to the situation we have in the US. I realize it's tough for us to do this with all the laws and white knights/cops. I think throwing the drink on her is a better move in public than punching her in the face.

[gandt]

If you haven't been slapped you probably haven't pushed conversational boundaries very far in your interactions.

That being said, if you frame and your speech are congruent with one another, slapping shouldn't be a common thing.

[Leo]

(08-11-2013 11:37 AM)gandt Wrote:  

If you haven't been slapped you probably haven't pushed conversational boundaries very far in your interactions.

That being said, if you frame and your speech are congruent with one another, slapping shouldn't be a common thing.

Perhaps. I might be missing out on some lays by not doing so. I prefer to push the attraction buttons and not the anger/hate buttons.

[Courage Reborn]

I'm not sure instilling a sense of "fear", in a chick, is the right approach.

I have never fucked a girl who was afraid of me. Quite the opposite, they say it was because they felt comfortable, safe, and secure.

The way I see it, getting angry can go a few different ways;
1. chick laughs at the fact that she has affected you emotionally. Loses all respect for you.
2. seeing a burst of anger/violence makes her wet.
3. gets scared, goes into flight mode. Calls bouncers/cops/white knights etc.

The only benefit I can imagine is #2. And not the type of girl I want for anything serious.

Doesn't seem worth it. Better to take the high road.

[Leo]

I make them feel comfortable, safe, and secure - as long as they're on my good side. It's the nice guy with the cheesy smile that gets them quesy & uncomfortable. That girl I slapped slept with me several times afterwards. If anything, she felt more safe & comfortable after I slapped her. Though I can see the difference since in my case, she went out of line and in your cases, they perceived that you went out of line.

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chick laughs at the fact that she has affected you emotionally. Loses all respect for you.

Depends on what you're emotional about. I think this whole "men shouldn't be emotional" is bs. I think that if a guy stands up for himself and shows self-respect, she will respect that much more than if a guy doesn't stand up for himself. I also think retaliation/response can be done with minimal emotion like when a boxer counter-punches. She slaps, you counter-slap. No emotion in your face, you're cool but you're communicating that you don't let people get away with that. Every ounce of you should believe that she transgressed upon you (crossed a hard line that you have) and at that moment of body language communication, every ounce of her should also believe that.

And you're right that these slaps don't happen out of the blue. There's something about your character that became evident in your interaction with her. Maybe you tolerated some verbal disrespect and she escalated on that. For me, my frame is that I hold people that I interact with to a certain standard of conduct. I usually communicate my zero tolerance for any bs by calmly but firmly calling people on it or just simply ignoring them or walking away.

Hope that helps.

[CJ_W]

(08-11-2013 11:37 AM)gandt Wrote:  

If you haven't been slapped you probably haven't pushed conversational boundaries very far in your interactions.

yeah. . .no.

especially not 3 times.

If you're getting slapped something is wrong with you i.e. you look/sound/feel(girls can vibe you out) like a bitch.

getting slapped is something huge, and if a woman does that to you. You have to take a good look at your self and ask: What kind of MAN do I have to be to where a woman feels its OK to slap me?

If you've been slapped THREE TIMES already, you need to stop gaming so hard and work on being a man.

But I kinda think that maybe you(and MANY other "game" guys) aren't at that level yet. You think you have to pound the pavement and struggle 24/7 365, and work work work work, endure endure endure to get women, which actually drives them away (hence you getting slapped) when it really isn't rocket science. Women are attracted to MEN. How hard can this all really be? right? Why not just look for the women that . . .Already like you?

oh and if you don't see hot women that like you then. . .

Well maybe. . .

that's a sign that you need to improve yourself.

i.e. wear better clothes(G-manifesto style), hit the gym (Captain power style) improve your cash flow etc etc

But don't listen to me, go ahead, keep getting slapped by women, it'll all be worth it once you find that woman that already liked you that you worked so hard to get (in certain circles that is called "luckin' up on some pussy")

But eventually you'll learn what I had the pleasure and luck to learn in my early 20's:

You don't have to go through a whole bunch of B.S. to get a women.
or:

The MORE B.S./struggle/hard work you put in a certain woman, the lower your returns will be.

But words don't really teach. . .experience does.

So don't listen to me, keep doing what you're doing until you are tired of getting slapped.

I can't believe someone on a red pill/man site is advocated getting slapped. . .I need to go chop down a fucking tree or something before that disease hits me too.

[wi30]

Not really on topic, but has anyone ever had a girl flinch really bad when making a sudden move completely unrelated to her? For example, I reach for my drink and she jumps back or something of that nature. I usually laugh and ask her if she's afraid of me. I generally make slow movements but when I do something relatively quickly girls always flinch. For the record I'm somewhat muscular. I've never seen this happen with a really skinny guy.

[Courage Reborn]

(08-11-2013 11:20 PM)CJ_W Wrote:  

(08-11-2013 11:37 AM)gandt Wrote:  

If you haven't been slapped you probably haven't pushed conversational boundaries very far in your interactions.

yeah. . .no.

especially not 3 times.

If you're getting slapped something is wrong with you i.e. you look/sound/feel(girls can vibe you out) like a bitch.

getting slapped is something huge, and if a woman does that to you. You have to take a good look at your self and ask: What kind of MAN do I have to be to where a woman feels its OK to slap me?

If you've been slapped THREE TIMES already, you need to stop gaming so hard and work on being a man.

But I kinda think that maybe you(and MANY other "game" guys) aren't at that level yet. You think you have to pound the pavement and struggle 24/7 365, and work work work work, endure endure endure to get women, which actually drives them away (hence you getting slapped) when it really isn't rocket science. Women are attracted to MEN. How hard can this all really be? right? Why not just look for the women that . . .Already like you?

oh and if you don't see hot women that like you then. . .

Well maybe. . .

that's a sign that you need to improve yourself.

i.e. wear better clothes(G-manifesto style), hit the gym (Captain power style) improve your cash flow etc etc

But don't listen to me, go ahead, keep getting slapped by women, it'll all be worth it once you find that woman that already liked you that you worked so hard to get (in certain circles that is called "luckin' up on some pussy")

But eventually you'll learn what I had the pleasure and luck to learn in my early 20's:

You don't have to go through a whole bunch of B.S. to get a women.
or:

The MORE B.S./struggle/hard work you put in a certain woman, the lower your returns will be.

But words don't really teach. . .experience does.

So don't listen to me, keep doing what you're doing until you are tired of getting slapped.

I can't believe someone on a red pill/man site is advocated getting slapped. . .I need to go chop down a fucking tree or something before that disease hits me too.

CJ,

You have made a lot of assumptions. None of them apply to me.

Your age is not listed, but this reads to me like you still have something to prove. Is it possible you haven't interacted with enough women?

After 15 years in the game, thousands of approaches, and hundreds of lays, some girls are going to do reckless shit...

Back on topic. How would you handle yourself in such a situation, if you found yourself in it?

[gandt]

(08-12-2013 01:12 AM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  

(08-11-2013 11:20 PM)CJ_W Wrote:  

(08-11-2013 11:37 AM)gandt Wrote:  

If you haven't been slapped you probably haven't pushed conversational boundaries very far in your interactions.

yeah. . .no.

especially not 3 times.

If you're getting slapped something is wrong with you i.e. you look/sound/feel(girls can vibe you out) like a bitch.

getting slapped is something huge, and if a woman does that to you. You have to take a good look at your self and ask: What kind of MAN do I have to be to where a woman feels its OK to slap me?

If you've been slapped THREE TIMES already, you need to stop gaming so hard and work on being a man.

But I kinda think that maybe you(and MANY other "game" guys) aren't at that level yet. You think you have to pound the pavement and struggle 24/7 365, and work work work work, endure endure endure to get women, which actually drives them away (hence you getting slapped) when it really isn't rocket science. Women are attracted to MEN. How hard can this all really be? right? Why not just look for the women that . . .Already like you?

oh and if you don't see hot women that like you then. . .

Well maybe. . .

that's a sign that you need to improve yourself.

i.e. wear better clothes(G-manifesto style), hit the gym (Captain power style) improve your cash flow etc etc

But don't listen to me, go ahead, keep getting slapped by women, it'll all be worth it once you find that woman that already liked you that you worked so hard to get (in certain circles that is called "luckin' up on some pussy")

But eventually you'll learn what I had the pleasure and luck to learn in my early 20's:

You don't have to go through a whole bunch of B.S. to get a women.
or:

The MORE B.S./struggle/hard work you put in a certain woman, the lower your returns will be.

But words don't really teach. . .experience does.

So don't listen to me, keep doing what you're doing until you are tired of getting slapped.

I can't believe someone on a red pill/man site is advocated getting slapped. . .I need to go chop down a fucking tree or something before that disease hits me too.

CJ,

You have made a lot of assumptions. None of them apply to me.

Your age is not listed, but this reads to me like you still have something to prove. Is it possible you haven't interacted with enough women?

After 15 years in the game, thousands of approaches, and hundreds of lays, some girls are going to do reckless shit...

Back on topic. How would you handle yourself in such a situation, if you found yourself in it?

Glad I'm not the only one who found his post full of blind rage. Based on your description of being a "man" your interactions sound boring AF and you come across as an uptight loser.

The whole "I can't believe I'm on a red/pill man site, getting blown by 3 supermodels at the same time" tone to your post also makes me suspicious.

If you look at my post that you referenced above, the very next sentence it says that if you are getting slapped continuously it probably has a lot to do with be incongruent. Basically sums up what you were trying to say.

Next time you try and go attacking read the whole post.