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Off-handed Death and Castration Threats from Sexual Partners
07-27-2013, 06:57 AM
This may seem strange, but I can't be unique in my experience.
I often experience women "light-heartedly" talk about murdering me, while we are in bed. Occasionally the threat is castration. It occurs while intimate before or after sex, and sounds like this:
Her: You know, I could easily kill you by smothering you in your sleep
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Her: I'd kill you if you cheated on me. Maybe cut your head off.
Me: (shocked, but trying to lighten it up) Man, I'd be so pissed with you!
Her: no you wouldn't. You'd be dead.
Now, generally this has happened with LTRs (basically harem members) who I more or less trusted. Also, these are not pyscho bitches. The personality type I attract are calm, low drama people. They are not drug or alcohol abusers, BPD, etc. Normal stable women.
I was shocked the first couple of times, but as I haven't felt physically in danger I'm getting used to it. But it's happened with 2 of my last 4 lays and 4-5 out of the last 20.
So what is going on here? My guess is it's a possessive reflex as somehow this is establishing sole ownership of me and my sperm. Which is something they didn't have as my women basically know I'm a player. And it occurs in a sexual context just after a good fucking and the haze of hormones breaks down the filters and this stuff just comes out. Very curious.
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07-31-2013, 02:43 AM
I've also had a girl that repeatedly off-handedly mentioned how I should be aware of the multitude of ways to stealthily kill someone, the most important being antifreeze in a drink, and that she would probably kill me if I cheated on her.
I can't say that I felt threatened at all, but I did remark that I was concerned about the future of our relationship because she might suffer from a mental illness and mistakenly believe that I was cheating on her, leading her to realize her homicidal impulses.
She spent the next few days apologizing.
That said, Balboa is on to something. Many women seem to derive some perverse pleasure from making idle threats like this, and there is definitely some sort of sexual power-play at work. Maybe it's related to you being significantly higher value than her.
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07-31-2013, 09:07 PM
One night in Vegas I pulled a crazy Australian chick off the casino floor of the Excalibur into my room. There was a UFC fight going on that night and we were talking about that. She said she could easily 'incapacitate' any man that threatened her.
After some flirtatious banter we put that theory to the test. I shot in on her, scooped her up to my shoulder, spanked her ass before slamming her down on the bed, mounted her, held her arms down and remarked 'first blood goes to me, don't you think?'
Sex was awesome.
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08-01-2013, 10:23 PM
Most girls who talk like that are only one shade from bat-shit crazy. Wouldn't take much to make them fly off the handle. My advice to guys who get "empty threats" like that...? Proceed with caution.
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08-01-2013, 10:42 PM
A girl you just banged and are not in any relationship with are saying, "I'd kill you if you cheated on me. Maybe cut your head off."
You need a better troll angle. Girls that guys just bang don't suddenly drop out the "cheat on me" line since there's no relationship.
Come on, man. There's enough to talk about between game, lifestyle, travel, and everything else without having to add a fiction section.
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08-04-2013, 02:32 AM
It's just a stupid way for her to tell you that she's really into you. You can either humor her or shut it down depending on how well you know her, how much you like her, how crazy she is, etc.
Humoring her: "You've been watching too many Lifetime movies", "You are NOT Jody Arias. Don't start thinking you're hard", "If you're gonna start talking like a crazy chick, I'm gonna need you to start fucking me like one"
Shutting it down: "WTF? Why would you even say some shit like that?", "Wow, nothing makes a man want to stick around more than acting like a total fucking psycho", "Yo, don't ever say any shit like that to me again"
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Off-handed Death and Castration Threats from Sexual Partners
08-04-2013, 04:37 AM
Reminds me of shit-tests like "how do I know you won't kill me if I go to your place for a drink"
Agree and amplify.
"How do I know you won't kill me"
"That's EXACTLY what I was going to do. Chop you up and put you in my fridge to cook for lunch tomorrow"
"You know, I could easily kill you by smothering you in your sleep"
"Ohh, you're tough!!!! My pillow is heavier than you can lift, let alone my dead body. Good luck getting rid of dead me. Fuck, why don't I just kill you know for being a bad little girl [flip her over -> spank spank spank]"
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08-05-2013, 10:48 AM
Quote: (08-01-2013 10:42 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
A girl you just banged and are not in any relationship with are saying, "I'd kill you if you cheated on me. Maybe cut your head off."
You need a better troll angle. Girls that guys just bang don't suddenly drop out the "cheat on me" line since there's no relationship.
Come on, man. There's enough to talk about between game, lifestyle, travel, and everything else without having to add a fiction section.
I've had a girl do this after a 3rd or 4th bang (1 month of banging). She was from SEA. I think she was semi-joking, but I got freaked out and stopped seeing her shortly after.
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08-05-2013, 10:56 AM
Asian girls do this all the time...after they are into you, not the first time. They will also threaten to cut off your dick and other crazy shit.