[Fredster]

http://www.usatoday.com/story/life/peopl...a/2523217/

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Sweetheart actress Emma Roberts was arrested in Canada on a domestic violence charge after fighting with her actor boyfriend and bloodying his nose.

What she was arested for. Really surprising she got arested considering that there is more feminism in Canada compared to America.

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When the cops showed up, they found Peters with a bloody nose and, supposedly, a bite mark.

The damage done

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But as it turned out, it all blew over. Roberts was released hours later because Peters, 26, did not want to press charges.

Last seen together at The Lone Ranger premier, the couple are now reported back together and working on American Horror Story, TMZ said. Roberts is due to appear in a forthcoming comedy, We're the Millers, with Jennifer Aniston.

Peters is such a beta that he did not fight for charge to not be dropped even though she clearly was at fault...cause you know he can't find anything better than a 7/10 even though he clearly has fame being the start of American Horror stories.

Atleast the courts should not have let the charges get dropped just because he did not press charges.

[sixsix]

The guy is fucking this girl:



Was this beta?

You fight a bit, you're young and crazy.
Maybe he cheated on her. Maybe just drugs, jealousy, whatever.

Why want to get the cops involved in your personal life?
Maybe let her wait for a couple of hours. Some anxiety.
I wouldn't press charges.

[Matt3B]

She wanted him to hit her back.

[Beyond Borders]

Hard to say without knowing him. Another case of trying to use alpha/beta dichotomies to come up with an answer to everything in life when it just isn't possible.

A little story about just one guy I know.

One of my best friends is this guy who no one in the world would call a beta and even if a guy twice his size did he'd start swinging, right there on the spot, because he's just that crazy. I've seen him actively try to fight crowds of people - scratch that, I've seen him actually fight crowds of people, multiple times. One time when we were partying he smacked a Hell's Angel in the face with his beer...hard. The guy he hit was not only a monster but we were surrounded by HAs when it happened - I honestly thought we were going to die that night.

This guy owns the dynamics in most rooms he walks into. One of the most gifted natural athletes I've ever met. Women who spend some time around him naturally want to fuck him even though he's kind of ignorant and not exactly the greatest looking guy on earth - they just like that he's so confident and bold and that a lot of men look up to him or are intimidated by him.

As far as women go, I've also seen this guy bang 7 chicks in 3 days in America on a roll. Many of them ugly, but not all. He does a lot of married chicks and his game is pretty in-your-face - grabbing random asses, etc. Has had many threesomes and never read a sentence of "game" literature.

Now to the interesting part.

He had this old lady that he was with for years and she would straight up unload on him when she got pissed. Native American chick and she's a psycho. Super jealous. I've seen black eyes she's given him and bite marks so hard they broke his skin. She fucked a ton of guys behind his back (though he often did the same to her) and he straight pined over her for years, buying her shit and dealing with the craziness.

"But I lover her, Man." Gimme a fucking break.

He also gets jealous of her and has attacked or fought quite a few of his good friends at one time or another because he thought they were making a move on his girl, even though many were not.

I personally think he's a major idiot when it comes to women - sometimes pathetically so. If he doesn't master this area of his life he'll end up in jail or dead over a woman. He's an extreme, emotional person.

But a beta? Not a chance in your life.

And as for pressing charges, that sequence of words isn't even in his vocabulary.

Not that I'm saying this guy from the story is even on the same level, but the point is that the world is simply not that black and white.

[PrimeTime32]

I personally think the fact that he didn't press charges was beta. But the fact that dude got his ass kicked by a girl that probably doesn't even weigh 120 lbs is beta. All he would of had to do is pin her down until she calmed down or something like that so it doesn't leave any marks.

[kbell]

You do realise that if he fought back in would be in prison for much longer than her.

[A War You Cannot Win]

I think she was just hoping he would sack up and initiate some kinky sex.

[Menace]

(07-17-2013 07:43 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

As far as women go, I've also seen this guy bang 7 chicks in 3 days in America on a roll. Many of them ugly, but not all. He does a lot of married chicks and his game is pretty in-your-face - grabbing random asses, etc. Has had many threesomes and never read a sentence of "game" literature.

Now to the interesting part.

He had this old lady that he was with for years and she would straight up unload on him when she got pissed. Native American chick and she's a psycho. Super jealous. I've seen black eyes she's given him and bite marks so hard they broke his skin. She fucked a ton of guys behind his back (though he often did the same to her) and he straight pined over her for years, buying her shit and dealing with the craziness.

"But I lover her, Man." Gimme a fucking break.

Not that I'm saying this guy from the story is even on the same level, but the point is that the world is simply not that black and white.

Exactly right. Charges are for when she steals your kid or your money, not for a bloody nose.

There are plenty of guys who are alpha as fuck, Marines, soldiers, body builders, who are complete pussies when it comes to women, or to certain women. This whole alpha/beta thing is a useful tool when you are trying to get your mind right, but things are not so simple.

I mean the whole concept of push/pull is just an application of alpha/beta, and no one truly thinks it's effective to always push the girl or to pull her in. The problem is an imbalance of alpha/beta, not beta actions on their own. If you fear too much about appearing beta, that means you ARE beta (not directed at OP).

[Therapsid]

(07-17-2013 09:17 AM)kbell Wrote:  

You do realise thatif he fought back in would be in prison for much longer than her.

Exactly. The guy may be beta, but he's got an acting career. I wouldn't have called the cops, but then again I'm not in his shoes.

Sorry guys, some things are more important than being alpha and dominant with your girl. Not landing yourself in prison or torpedoing a young acting career is one of them.

P.S. The dude was annoying in American Horror Story.

[worldwidetraveler]

(07-17-2013 08:16 AM)PrimeTime32 Wrote:  

I personally think the fact that he didn't press charges was beta. But the fact that dude got his ass kicked by a girl that probably doesn't even weigh 120 lbs is beta. All he would of had to do is pin her down until she calmed down or something like that so it doesn't leave any marks.

Have you ever pinned a woman down like that without leaving marks? If she is biting and punching him I don't think she will just lay there and not resist.

[PrimeTime32]

(07-17-2013 12:17 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

(07-17-2013 08:16 AM)PrimeTime32 Wrote:  

I personally think the fact that he didn't press charges was beta. But the fact that dude got his ass kicked by a girl that probably doesn't even weigh 120 lbs is beta. All he would of had to do is pin her down until she calmed down or something like that so it doesn't leave any marks.

Have you ever pinned a woman down like that without leaving marks? If she is biting and punching him I don't think she will just lay there and not resist.

Actually I have it's not that hard plus I'm a pretty big guy with a background in MMA

[RouteBackwards]

I've had quite a few women throw fists at me over us arguing.

Bitches be crazy.

[Hotwheels]

(07-17-2013 06:25 AM)sixsix Wrote:  

The most important question has not been asked.

Would you hit it?

Would smash.

[GameTheory]

(07-17-2013 06:25 AM)sixsix Wrote:  

The guy is fucking this girl:


[...]

oh deary dear dear, Emma shows signs of hitting the wall, look at that marsupial paunch she's sportin' !!!

[eradicator]

(07-17-2013 12:17 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

(07-17-2013 08:16 AM)PrimeTime32 Wrote:  

I personally think the fact that he didn't press charges was beta. But the fact that dude got his ass kicked by a girl that probably doesn't even weigh 120 lbs is beta. All he would of had to do is pin her down until she calmed down or something like that so it doesn't leave any marks.

Have you ever pinned a woman down like that without leaving marks? If she is biting and punching him I don't think she will just lay there and not resist.

if you have her pinned down and sitting on top of her and holding down both her wrists and laugh while she struggles then she will have a hard time doing damage. (btw, i do this totally playfully and not at all violently)

It is hard to say what her game was, maybe she was full on crazy and out of control and going to stab him or scratch his eyes out. I think she was just trying to get his attention with this stunt though.

[worldwidetraveler]

(07-17-2013 03:48 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(07-17-2013 12:17 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

(07-17-2013 08:16 AM)PrimeTime32 Wrote:  

I personally think the fact that he didn't press charges was beta. But the fact that dude got his ass kicked by a girl that probably doesn't even weigh 120 lbs is beta. All he would of had to do is pin her down until she calmed down or something like that so it doesn't leave any marks.

Have you ever pinned a woman down like that without leaving marks? If she is biting and punching him I don't think she will just lay there and not resist.

if you have her pinned down and sitting on top of her and holding down both her wrists and laugh while she struggles then she will have a hard time doing damage. (btw, i do this totally playfully and not at all violently)

It is hard to say what her game was, maybe she was full on crazy and out of control and going to stab him or scratch his eyes out. I think she was just trying to get his attention with this stunt though.

It isn't about her doing damage. It is about leaving marks on her while you restrain her so it doesn't look like you were beating on her.

Maybe I need to get into MMA. The few times I had to do this always left marks on her arms or wrists.

[MikeCF]

(07-17-2013 03:33 PM)PrimeTime32 Wrote:  

(07-17-2013 12:17 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

(07-17-2013 08:16 AM)PrimeTime32 Wrote:  

I personally think the fact that he didn't press charges was beta. But the fact that dude got his ass kicked by a girl that probably doesn't even weigh 120 lbs is beta. All he would of had to do is pin her down until she calmed down or something like that so it doesn't leave any marks.

Have you ever pinned a woman down like that without leaving marks? If she is biting and punching him I don't think she will just lay there and not resist.

Actually I have it's not that hard plus I'm a pretty big guy with a background in MMA

If you squeeze her wrists to pin her down, it's going to leave marks.

There's no need to play alpha, man. Most of the guys on the board are beyond the simplistic "Is he alpha or beta?" stuff. It's a false dichotomy.

Hell, I didn't even know who Emma Thomas was and had to Google her. I could be an "alpha" and say you're "beta" for following celebrity gossip.

But that really wouldn't make any sense, since reading celeb gossip isn't alpha or beta. It's just a diversion.

Incidentally, I've been the "victim" of domestic violence twice. I thought it was funny and would never call the cops.

In my view, calling the cops is beta. Be a man. Handle your own business.

[TheSlayer]

I saw this yesterday and read a couple of articles on this. Most of the comments were saying they should "work things out" and she should not have done this, and the tone was pretty reconciliatory. Had it been a case of just the guy beating her we all know the public would have been screaming for his head.

[TheSlayer]

@Mike, but was your girl able to hit you? In this case her bf had a bloody nose.

[MikeCF]

(07-17-2013 03:53 PM)TheSlayer Wrote:  

@Mike, but was your girl able to hit you? In this case her bf had a bloody nose.

Women are wild animals. You're bound to get bit now and then.

The police are for weak people who need protection. I don't need protected from some woman.

[Ingocnito]

She has one of those pre-calibrated crazy bitch smiles. Shitty part about pinning a girl down is 1 little bruise on her arm or wrist, and now the man gets hauled off to the stuffer.

What's more beta? Not fighting for the charge against her, or getting a bloody nose from this flat-chested princess in the first place and having it go viral?

[MikeCF]

(07-17-2013 03:58 PM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

She has one of those pre-calibrated crazy bitch smiles. Shitty part about pinning a girl down is 1 little bruise on her arm or wrist, and now the man gets hauled off to the stuffer.

What's more beta? Not fighting for the charge against her, or getting a bloody nose from this flat-chested princess in the first place and having it go viral?

I'd make her buy me a Rolex and a new car to "reconcile."

Involving the police is a losing game. The girl gets hurt but what do you gain?

Indeed, most women regret calling the police because a man often loses his job as a result of the DV charges. Now she's lost a bread winner/provider.

In life I am about finding out how to personally gain rather than wantonly inflicting punishment on people.

Some people need hurt, to be sure. But if you can turn a situation into one that benefits you, why not do that instead?

[w00t]

alpha/beta is always contextual and never universal. Thats why a guy can be total badass in one part of his life and still be a little bitch when it comes to women.

[Laner]

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Have you ever pinned a woman down like that without leaving marks? If she is biting and punching him I don't think she will just lay there and not resist.

Exactly. The bite marks likely came when he tried to restrain her (has happened to me). Bloody nose was due to her cat like reflexes in getting the first punch in. We all know how woman can do full 11/10 crazy in a blink of an eye.

Pressing charges on her? I cant imagine going through all that bullshit. I go out of my way to keep the law out of my private life. Inviting them in to sort out a busted nose and a few bite marks is not worth my time.

F*ck beta.

[worldwidetraveler]

(07-17-2013 04:01 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

(07-17-2013 03:58 PM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

She has one of those pre-calibrated crazy bitch smiles. Shitty part about pinning a girl down is 1 little bruise on her arm or wrist, and now the man gets hauled off to the stuffer.

What's more beta? Not fighting for the charge against her, or getting a bloody nose from this flat-chested princess in the first place and having it go viral?

I'd make her buy me a Rolex and a new car to "reconcile."

Involving the police is a losing game. The girl gets hurt but what do you gain?

Indeed, most women regret calling the police because a man often loses his job as a result of the DV charges. Now she's lost a bread winner/provider.

In life I am about finding out how to personally gain rather than wantonly inflicting punishment on people.

Some people need hurt, to be sure. But if you can turn a situation into one that benefits you, why not do that instead?

I doubt he called the cops. It was probably someone in the next hotel room that heard the fight and called them. He would be setting himself up to look bad if he called the cops. The press always loves these types of stories.