Have you ever transitioned from "just friends" with a girl who you've never had sex with into a sexual relationship?
How did you do it? What was the result?
How did you do it? What was the result?
Quote: (07-15-2013 02:57 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:
yes.
Was friends with a cool hot girl from work. i didn't have any female friends so i made an effort to hang out 'as friends'. She took me on a date she had with another guy, we went out to a bar and just danced and talked about her exes, then one night (3rd time we hung out as friends) she got drunk, grinded me on dfloor and i took her home to bang. Reloaded a few times afterwards.
Still in touch now. Still feel like true friends but with all the benefits.
Quote: (07-15-2013 03:24 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:
What type of "just friends" are we talking about? Im "just friends" with every girl I meet until I bang her.
Quote: (07-15-2013 07:30 AM)Ensam Wrote:
I'm wondering if it's more common with hot girls-I think they tend to pull from the B-team whenever they're single rather than go out and take home a random from a bar.
Quote: (07-15-2013 06:54 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:
Interesting responses...
Back when I had female friends who I wasn't also banging, I could never really transition into a lovers situation. They would object and string me along and espouse the value of the all-important friendship.
But I'm curious if any of you have taken a situation where a girl just flat out said "no" to a sexual situation and insisted on friends and just flipped the script on her and got her in bed?
I agree that it's a horrible waste of time and generally not worth it but I'm still curious if it can be done consistently and without too much *extra* effort on your part.
Quote:AneroidOcean Wrote:
The only conversion I've ever made from just friends into sex was when the girl had a deep-seated attraction to me from long ago or that I just didn't recognize as existing/circumstance hid.