Creepy is a word that gets thrown around a lot in the field. Girls tend to label anything they don't like as "Creepy".
Around here, we chalk it up to them being kind of stupid and constantly shit testing and shaming men.
However, there might actually be something more to their use of the word.
After watching this video that takes apart creepiness, we can see how girls might actually be getting creeped-out by bad game.
In the video, ambiguity is talked about as being one of the main components of creepiness. Translated into game terms, we can understand ambiguity as incongruence and weak intention.
Incongruence is actually beyond ambiguity and is more a dissonance. When things don't match up, it's going to create a sour feeling for the girl. This is why everything about you has to be congruent. There can't be any bumps in the road. You have to create a seamless experience that will sweep her off her feet.
Girls are very sensitive and animalistic in that they don't use their rational brain to make a lot of decisions and are very in-tune with vibes/subtext/non-verbal communication/etc. They are always going off their emotions. This is probably why the phrase "I feel that.." is replacing "I think that..." in the last few months.
If you don't have strong intentions, they will sense this. You really have to approach the game with strong intentions. If you don't, the girl will get creeped out by your ambiguity: "why is this guy talking to me?"
You don't want to come off as an "uncanny humanoid"
Guys who have taken the red pill and have decided to leave the flock of betas on a journey to the alpha world will come against much more friction than either the betas or the alphas. This is because he is an ambiguous state. He's a "Balpha" or a "Betpha".
The Balpha will come across as creepy to a girl because of his ambiguity. He doesn't belong to either tribe anymore; "The better the devil you know than the devil you don't know"
So, maybe girls really are getting "creeped" out.
Around here, we chalk it up to them being kind of stupid and constantly shit testing and shaming men.
However, there might actually be something more to their use of the word.
After watching this video that takes apart creepiness, we can see how girls might actually be getting creeped-out by bad game.
In the video, ambiguity is talked about as being one of the main components of creepiness. Translated into game terms, we can understand ambiguity as incongruence and weak intention.
Incongruence is actually beyond ambiguity and is more a dissonance. When things don't match up, it's going to create a sour feeling for the girl. This is why everything about you has to be congruent. There can't be any bumps in the road. You have to create a seamless experience that will sweep her off her feet.
Girls are very sensitive and animalistic in that they don't use their rational brain to make a lot of decisions and are very in-tune with vibes/subtext/non-verbal communication/etc. They are always going off their emotions. This is probably why the phrase "I feel that.." is replacing "I think that..." in the last few months.
If you don't have strong intentions, they will sense this. You really have to approach the game with strong intentions. If you don't, the girl will get creeped out by your ambiguity: "why is this guy talking to me?"
You don't want to come off as an "uncanny humanoid"
Guys who have taken the red pill and have decided to leave the flock of betas on a journey to the alpha world will come against much more friction than either the betas or the alphas. This is because he is an ambiguous state. He's a "Balpha" or a "Betpha".
The Balpha will come across as creepy to a girl because of his ambiguity. He doesn't belong to either tribe anymore; "The better the devil you know than the devil you don't know"
So, maybe girls really are getting "creeped" out.