[Kingsley Davis]

This chick is basically saying how annoying it is for her been so hot that men can't resist cat calling her. In New York it's cat calling/harassment,in Italy it's a scene from Roman Holiday and she's Audrey Hepburn.

[TheBlackNarwhal]

The way cat-calling works around here is usually the dude is with his friends when he does it, so he gets peer approval where he wouldn't have the balls to do it in the first place. I approve in peer pressure as a way to get my friends to go outside their comfort zone and approach women realistically, but it's just bad game overall with that "Hey booty-licious" shit. Maybe you'll get a laugh out of it at best.

Still, I know my ego would be inflated like a balloon if I got all day was sexual compliments from the opposite sex.

[Cr33pin]

I have been the victim of unwanted cat calls... its awful!!!
Every gay boy in the Philippines would yell "Hey Gwapo" at me in a girly voice.

Really it didnt bother me I found it humorous.

[Dillon]

Whenever a woman says something, its safe to assume the opposite is probably true.

Women who complain about rape, cat calls, workplace harassment etc are usually the ones least likely to be ever affected by it.

[Gmac]

Black people and red necks. That is all you need to know.

[Kona]

I support cat-calling and men who do it. I often cat call myself.

It feels good and it has gotten me laid. You guys should try it.

Aloha!

[Blaster]

(06-17-2013 12:19 PM)soup Wrote:  

(06-17-2013 10:29 AM)Blaster Wrote:  

(06-16-2013 11:36 PM)soup Wrote:  

I'm trying to understand cat calling in relation to game.

Is it just bad game? Does it ever work? What is the intent of guys who cat call?

(2) Ugly/low-class men who are both impulsive and have essentially nothing to lose. They see a smartly dressed chick on the street with great curvature. There is no amount of game in the universe that would give the man a shot with her, and her high-chinned arrogance and low-cut blouse push his buttons. The catcall in this instance is partly just a guy giving in to his urges because he literally does not give a fuck, and partly to put the bitch in her place for daring to strut her stuff in front of him.

I disagree with this anti-game sentiment. He's too ignorant of the game at this time, but he could get his shit together and learn how to approach her with the intent of actually fucking her instead of blowing off steam and making himself look like an idiot.

You may be right for some cases it's often more than just ignorance.

[Atilla]

Here is an outstanding Simple Pickup video on how when guys typically try to avoid being awkward when approaching by taking “low-risk” actions, it actually ends up backfiring and appears totally awkward in the eyes of a girl.

What appears low-risk to you may not only give you far lower odds, but also increase the chance of getting the reaction you were trying to avoid.

1) Avoiding awkwardness: see video above. Watch it again in a few days.

2) Getting laid: The sexual energy will increase when you take confident, socially risky actions. Examples of when she'll see you're just masking a fear of rejection are cat-calls, poorly-performed indirect openers, looking or smiling to get a signal to approach, and beta orbiting. All these attempts at eliminating either the chance of rejection or the pain of rejection will lead to a decrease in her perception of you as the sex god she’s been waiting for.

Doing any of the above fear-masking approaches may decrease your likelihood of getting outright rejected, but it will also decrease your likelihood of getting laid. When I think of the times I’ve powerfully and confidently romanced a girl like in the video examples, getting her and her friends to look at me as though I were some heaven-sent fearless seducer, I just can’t picture getting the same results had I used cat-calls, waited for permission through eye contact, “What’s your major?”, “What do you do?”, or “How’d you do on the exam?”

So the riskiest actions often do end up being the least risky. The only girls who don’t like this kind of confident approaching are probably the kinds you wouldn’t want to advance with anyway.

All my proudest conquests have come from throwing my ego into the shark tank. It has often initially felt nerve-racking, but once performed, I really don’t even end up caring if her response is negative because I know that by continuously performing ballsy “high-risk” approaches, I’ll get some damn good lays. My approaches are never perfect, and I still often do take the easy way out, but there are few things that leave me feeling happier and more excited to find more girls than approaching directly and powerfully.