Yes and No.
Yes you should ease off on the contact, but not because you're testing whether or not she's gonna call you.
Your not contacting her is a result of you actively seeking other bitches, working out, making money, bettering yourself.
Real talk, most of the time you can't reach a chick, it's cause she's at work, at school, on the phone with her homegirl/family, talking to another dude, shopping online, or doing something that fills her life. Your texts are merely 1 option to soak up her time and attention of many.
You don't take up too much time and space in her mind.
But right now the fact your cock socket is not instantly returning your communications is taking the majority of your mental share.
You're racking your brain trying to figure out a tactic that will get her to respond.
- Maybe if I don't text for 2 hours, or
- take 2wice the time to respond...
- maybe if I send some kind of soft ultimatum,
- try to make her jealous...
^This is beta shit, this is blue pill shit, this is petty.
We are men.
You can not let a chick control your mind like that. She's got you posting on internet forums looking for advice on how to get her to respond.
Your time would be better spent pumping out 100 push ups, looking @ Facebook stock and seeing if you can short it, reading Marcus Aurelius. Hell organizing your mp3's would be better than obsessing about this.
Now matter how fine this broad is, you've got to deeply believe that you are the prize here. Even if that's delusional, that's the mindset you need to take. Eventually you will understand the truth.
Otherwise these broads (young and old) will have you wrapped around their fingers without doing a thing, without you being a thought in their minds.
WIA
Quote: (06-16-2013 10:22 AM)YoungBlood Wrote:
I've been seeing this girl for a little over 2 months and she doesn't initiate a call or text.
If I call or text, she always responds back but she still times her shit. She sometimes takes exactly 30 mins to respond back.
(I'm all like wtf? I bang you raw and I have you cumming only to still play these little girl games?)
Anyway, should I stop contacting her for a couple of days to see if she'll hit me up?
That way, if she doesn't, I can next her.