[SirAntony]

This is my first posting here and looking for advise. I traveled for work to a conference and at a conference lunch I asked our waitress, a super hot blonde, to recommend places to go, got her number and invited to come.

We went out at night together with colleague of mine and her, first to a bar and later to other bar where we ate something, stay until 2am in the bar and leave her at her place. It was a lot of fun, but I did not make any approach other than touching the arms sometimes.

Text her today, to see if she wanted to go out and said that yes, however in the evening (around 5pm) I text again to arrange a place to meet and she replied that was she was tired from work and from going out late the day before. So told her that is cool, that we could check later, did not text again after that

She is extremely beautiful, and her appearance does not match on how approachable and nice she is.....

I am planning to contact her tomorrow (Friday) maybe to meet early between 3-6pm I am thinking as I think she might have plans at night, but want to propose to meet before, first to increase my chances to not being rejected because she already have plans, I am leaving the city on Saturday.

Overall description blonde, 22 years old, model, around 1.72cm (5',6") I think around 52kgs, super hot body....I am not sure how you put a number...but 8-9 seems like a logical number!

What you guys think, any ideas? What you guys would do?

Looking forward for your wisdom...cheers!

[Merenguero]

I'm not sure if you're serious, but due to some important facts being left out of your post, I will answer your question with some questions.

Why did your colleague go out with you and the girl? Did she also give your colleague her number? Did she seem at all interested in your colleague? Did she seem interested in you?

What kind of city are you in? Is it a major landlocked metropolis? Is it a smaller city by the beach? Is it a suburban landlocked area?

If you can please provide answers to these questions, I should be able to advise you, that is if you are not trolling.

[Sebastian]

So what did you do on first night?? you didn't have a chance to go into her house?

what are you gonna do 3~6pm? I say meet for a drink and close the deal.

[eradicator]

The best advice is to game her the way you would any other girl and stop putting that pussy on a pedestal.

[SirAntony]

(06-06-2013 06:37 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

I'm not sure if you're serious, but due to some important facts being left out of your post, I will answer your question with some questions.

Why did your colleague go out with you and the girl? Did she also give your colleague her number? Did she seem at all interested in your colleague? Did she seem interested in you?

What kind of city are you in? Is it a major landlocked metropolis? Is it a smaller city by the beach? Is it a suburban landlocked area?

If you can please provide answers to these questions, I should be able to advise you, that is if you are not trolling.

I asked the number and all that, however, my colleague was with me in the table when we got the info. I brought him as we are alone in the city and thought was ok. She did not seem interested in my friend, but also was not particularly interested in me either, however, we broke the ice well and had a good conversation. When we said goodbye, she also told me.."so, see you tomorrow" in a way that was you know little bit good with two kisses in the chick, etc....We are in a major city in central Europe.

[SirAntony]

(06-06-2013 06:39 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  

So what did you do on first night?? you didn't have a chance to go into her house?

what are you gonna do 3~6pm? I say meet for a drink and close the deal.

The first night we went to a bar and got couple of drinks until the bar closed at midnight , so we went out and look for a place to eat something, we contiune with some drinking...we left her after at her house and we said good bye in the taxi...

Yes, that is my plan, invite her for a drink and check how it goes from there..I will let you know the outcome...

[SirAntony]

(06-06-2013 08:21 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

The best advice is to game her the way you would any other girl and stop putting that pussy on a pedestal.

you are right...jajaja..simple and direct advise...will keep in mind...thanks.

[Que enspastic]

treat her like a normal chick. if you were already dating 9s she wouldn't be too special would she? looks are the base requirement, behaviour and personality is where she earns your respect.

[little wing]

Also 5'6 is 168 cm.
But yeah, like the other guys said.
Treat her like a 6 you don't want to go out with, it will make her crazy trust me

[SirAntony]

Thank you all for your advice. Things did not work out all that well, as she said that was busy during the day and did have plans for the night already. She asked me to meet saturday, but I will be traveling back and at night F#$!#$ a little bit my ukranian girlfriend, so not that bad..

...I guess lessons learned...yes, i was too impressed with her looks, As some of you said, next time I should get into my mind that she is a regular girl. Also, I should not have brought my friend.

I am thinking I will continue a little bit in touch now and then, and try again when I come back next month!

This forum is very good...later!

BTW, yes, she is 5'8" as mentioned in her model profile..bad with conversions.

[Que enspastic]

i personally think the girls taller than 5'6 say 5'9-5'10 get put on a higher pedastal due to perception of greater female choosiness (don't want dudes shorter than them), they're closer to model height (models are perceived as the gold standard) and longer legs.

[SirAntony]

(06-07-2013 12:32 PM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

i personally think the girls taller than 5'6 say 5'9-5'10 get put on a higher pedastal due to perception of greater female choosiness (don't want dudes shorter than them), they're closer to model height (models are perceived as the gold standard) and longer legs.

I think that is true, I am short 5'7" and she with high heels is already 5-7cms taller,and is way too sexy to have a tall(er) hot girl with me. You said the right thing, we just have to think that is just another regular girl and in bed heights don't count anymore....do you guys have any stories dating taller girls that want to share?

[little wing]

When I was 15 I was around 5'10.
I dated a gorgeous 6' blonde and banged her 3 years older 6'1 sister a year later.
I'm around 6'

[iknowexactly]

escalate, evaluate, then either ejaculate or evacuate.

Everything else is a waste of time

(Not trying to be cryptic or glib, escalation involves flirtatious conversation, isolation, and calibration, but the bottom line is she almost certainly knows if she'll fuck you already, it's just a question of having the guts to find out what her answer is.)