Reading The G Manifesto's post about when to use texting versus calling, like most things he says, I just can't disagree with. However, I do have a day job at the moment so I spent a lot of time where I can't be calling from my phone, so texting is a good way to keep leads hot, and I can respond to them here and there throughout my work day. I do get pretty busy though, so my texting is VERY sporadic.
I keep my texting as a lighter version of what I am in person. Some humor is hard to convey, so mini-conversations are what I aim for. I try to keep my texts closer to DHVs with some comfort thrown in. The latest girl Ayla that I
write about somewhere in this post (if you want the backstory):
I prefer to use proper punctuation and grammar, but for the sake of time and somewhat for the psychological effect, I do try to keep messages shorter and less "proper." Here's an example below, although I probably use correct punctuation and comfort a lot more than normal with her since I know her through an old family friend:
<AO> Hola
<Ayla> Hola! Como estas Senor AO?
<AO> Bien. Just finished up lunch with my mom, brother and a friend
<Ayla> blah blah cool that you're with your familia
<AO> How are you feeling?
<Ayla> Great actually! No hangover or anything, about to hit the gym
<Ayla> Did you drink much last night? [before I met up with her and made out with her]
<AO> Not much, a few at the gig before coming out
<Ayla> Ah so you're just naturally touchy feely then
[shit test as I'd had my tongue down her throat and pulled her hair and smacked her ass right in front of everyone at the bar...fuck it, it wasn't a bar where anyone knows me and is far from where I live]
<AO> I'm not shy
NEXT DAY:
<Ayla> Hey! How was your day?
<AO> Blah blah working, should be off by whatever time, then going spearfishing the whole weekend blah blah
<AO> You?
<Ayla> [Bunch of bullshit about wanting to go out on the ocean]
<Ayla> My day was great - good day at work and now I'm doing some cooking
<AO> Macaroni n cheese?
<Ayla> Hah no, I cook real food
<Ayla> I'm making tofu avocado lettuce wraps
<AO> You lost me at tofu
<Ayla> Haha. I'm a vegetarian
[vomit]
<AO> Yeah, you told me it'd been six months [she'd admitted to me she had only had her vibrator for the last 6 months after I had my tongue down her throat]
<Ayla> Uh no I didn't. Wait are we still talking about food? Lol
<Ayla> I wasn't expecting to have a make out session with you the other night, that was pretty bold of you
<Ayla> Random questions
<AO> [Ignore questions] Bold? You wanted me to
<Ayla> Who me?? Nah
We've been bullshitting a bit like this, she's asked me out twice to get drinks or do something else with her but I've been busy. Her buying temperature is still high enough, but I've been sucking with this particular one because I don't think she's quite in the shape I prefer. We'll see.
This girl I was very direct with and she hated/loved it. Called her out at every turn so she was totally smitten. I don't think most guys treat a girl like that with such a cute smile and nice rack like I did. Usually I'm a bit nicer, but I think I'm slowly succumbing to the dark triad.
Also, I'm not sure if I got this one from G Manifesto or someone else, but every once in a while I ask for a girl's phone number and I don't even pull out my phone, I just tell her I'll remember. Gets em every time. Girls freak out when you can memorize their number (or at least in my case, memorize it long enough to get around the corner to type it into my phone or write it down). Try it sometime, the area code you're going to remember automatically so you just have to remember 7 digits for a short period of time.