[Maniero]

Hey everyone, newbie here. I stumbled on this place from Roissy's, and its a lot to digest, but I don't deny the power of this stuff. Watching "naturals" do it for years, reading about being able to learn the same thought processes and actions is an inspiration to get off my ass and change my situation, which is as follows:

I always had long-term girlfriends from middle school all the way through college. About two years ago I finally had enough with a fickle girl I was seeing that would want to be friends for six months, then would want to date. I plowed her a few times, but evenually had enough and cut it off completely. For about two years after that, I had a couple notches, but not of the highest quality.

I started getting fed up with not getting enough girls. Now being in my late 20s (I'm 28), I'm starting to hit that prime that I don't want to miss out on. I started hitting the gym and eating better. I dropped about 35 lbs and felt great. I'm still a bigger guy and could lose another 20 lbs(205lbs, 5'9") but I'm decent looking. Got introduced to a coworker's friend and dated this girl for about 4 months until she got too clingy and attached. Was probably the best looking girl I dated (a 7, could have been an 8 if she lost 20 lbs). Broke it off with her before she went total psycho on me.

Anyways, so now I'm back single. I'm re-reading Mystery Method and Bang to get back in the right frame of mind. However, I'm still a little bitch and never approach at bars. I never approach during the day. I always rely on my social circle to meet new people, but that's starting to dry up with possibilities.

Other than needed to continue to improve myself physically, everything else about me is good to go. I make a good salary. I'm naturally funny and outgoing. I have a huge circle of friends. I own a jetski and a slip at the local marina. I drive a nice car.

I'm obviously not hideous, or else I would be having problems getting GFs period. But I want to both improve the quality of girls I get with, and also increase the quantity.

Any advice for me? I feel like I'm so close to being able to get some quality women, but I'm missing something important.

[Lumiere]

approach

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Approach. You have all. A nice lifestyle, lots of friends and activities!
Travel abroad: Get in touch with other cultures and girls can lead you to other experiences that you can talk about or use for your inner game. I mean for experiences eat the food, go find locals instead to die for a Starbucks and hang out with other hostel gringos.
Start a new course. Quality women keep looking for higher education and you can improve your conections
I my opinion, Mistery and Roosh is just the tip of the iceberg. you must find what suits you, your own game, otherwise the effort will be pointless.
Cya.

[Dash Global]

The key to swooping is you have to create opportunities (approaching/interaction) then you have to capitalize or try to capitalize on everyone of those opportunities. This is under the assumption you have alittle game and style and know how to properly kino escalate.

Here is an example from last night: I was at a latino dance club with a friend. I was the only white guy in the entire place. Im still not great with doing alot of cold approaches and I normally wait for girls to open me or give me strong IOI's before i approach. Anyways i position myself halfway between the dance floor and bar, this place isnt big. A cute chick from Honduras walks by and grabs my hand and pulls me onto the dance floor. Im getting a good vibe and try to go in for a kis but she pulls away. Im like fuck, and continue dancing. We dance and she tells me im getting her horny and that she needs to stop. I try and get her number there but she mumbles something and says she needs to go to the restroom. In the past after getting rejected from the kiss and her not giving me her number i would have gave up, but i made it a priority to get her out on the dance floor again and number close her. Well i ended up doing just that. Then after we left i texted her and she asked me if i wanted to fuck her and i told her to come over to my place. That wouldnt had happen if i didnt capitalize on the opportunity that presented itself. I was also persistent. So the keys i gave you which are simple but alot of people overlook and dont put into practice got me laid last night, but it wouldnt if i didnt do those key things.

Hope some of that helps.