[Mrs. Chocolate]

It's party night! But did you...

1) Had you hair done? - No, it is not a 300 dollars haircut but have you been going to the barbershop lately? do you mom cut your hair?
2) Had a good care of your skin? No one needs to know that you have acne or those black dots all over. Having good meals and using the right soap may look better in the end
3) Beard/Mustache - clean? shaved? Nothing against it, but do you take a good look or just let it grow and laughs when some nachos are hidden after the meal?
4) OMG you are hairy - It's alright, but if botters you why not wax it? If the girls are brave enough (and it hurts to us too, okay? Some of us DO have hair in the butt)
5) Are wearing new underwear? No? You should! Should I say why?
6) Condoms. Needless to say.
7) Outfit: NO, you won't use the ten years ago jeans with the overwashed black shirt. Think further and I know you can do better.
8) Perfum: There is another thread about the importance of the smell, if you don't know or haven't read take a look.
9) Feet odor and shoes: Take a good care of it. Dry our feet twice put cotton socks (also new, like the item #5)
10) Breath: a bad breath can blow your game of course - bad breath can come from bad food habits, stress or lack of hygiene (I suppose it not the case)

To sum up: I made this thread because even though you have something wonderful to say, girls may not pay attention on it if you don't follow this basic list. Plus, this is nothing to do with my personal man preferences, no matter your style - hippie, yuppie, hip hop there is a boderline between sloppy and style / overgrooming and healty care.
Share your ideas!

[oldnemesis]

This is kinda basic stuff. However personally I have a rule - once a month I go out without any preparation besides taking a shower, brushing my teeth and grabbing some clean (but not matching and old) clothes. I feel very reluctant going out like that, which to me means it's a good thing to do as a lot of my approaches are based just on looks. Somehow I found out being more social, and generally more successful on those nights - maybe of expecting a challenge and being ready for it.

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4) OMG you are hairy - It's alright, but if botters you why not wax it? If the girls are brave enough (and it hurts to us too, okay? Some of us DO have hair in the butt)

Why wax? I never get it. Some men are hairy, some are not. Some women actually like hairy men, and most of women seem to be ok with that.

[OGNorCal707]

3) Beard/Mustache - clean? shaved? Nothing against it, but do you take a good look or just let it grow and laughs when some nachos are hidden after the meal?

HAHAHAHA

4) OMG you are hairy - It's alright, but if botters you why not wax it? If the girls are brave enough (and it hurts to us too, okay? Some of us DO have hair in the butt)

Hence the origin of the term "Brazilian wax" here in the U.S. Nice to hear you B-girls are keeping those bundhas clean. As far as men waxing off body hair, Roosh would probably be the wise sage on this matter, hahaha, but anyways yeah I'm a pretty hairy guy, but I don't know about waxing off body hair, just seems a little too metro-sexual to me. That said, if I knew it would significantly increase my chances of attracting women, maybe I would consider doing it, but that's not exactly something one can know with certainty.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Here in BR there are places for male waxing - You don't need to look like a porn star, it is just a clean up where you want to. Most of the men do in the chest and back, but don't go any further and it is alright.
I had an ex who wasn't hairy at all but shaved around the "playground" because his intership was teach kids at pool. Only to get a better look, and when you wax the area becomes more sensitive when estimulated.
In the case of girls, there are a lot of "haircuts" ahahahaha - Heart, Hitler's mustache/ Charles Chaplin, Squared, Triangle, Arrow...
Most of my B' girls are not into too much hair, like a carpet. Makes you gasp when you don't want to. HAHAHAHAHAHA (sorry), although you get used to.

[speakeasy]

You'd be surprised how often people skip 10. They may brush their teeth in the morning, but they don't do it before they go out. You can tell. Once they start to drink, their breath turns rank. Even if your breath wasn't that bad, once your start drinking alcohol, it makes your breath smell bad if you didn't brush ahead of time. Drinking dry wines are the worst for breath. I hate talking to a girl at a bar then feeling like I need to take a step back because her mouth smells sour.

I just make it a habit that every time I'm going out to meet people, and especially if I know I may be having a drink, I brush and most importantly, scrub my tongue and roof of my mouth vigorously with toothpaste and brush. Your tongue should be a deep pinkish color and not be coated white. If your tongue looks coated white, you're looking at a bunch of food particles, crud and bacteria. You will have bad breath very soon if you don't already. After your tongue(and don't forgot roof of mouth) is scrubbed clean, you just feel the difference. Your mouth just tastes clean, you cup your hand and smell your breath it's really fresh and you have the peace of mind knowing that nobody you meet that night is going to think you have bad breath, even after a couple drinks.

I don't know why scrubbing your tongue/roof of mouth clean isn't a basic hygiene habit for everyone. It's not, believe me I smell enough foul mouths out there.

[speakeasy]

(07-24-2010 08:00 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

3) Beard/Mustache - clean? shaved? Nothing against it, but do you take a good look or just let it grow and laughs when some nachos are hidden after the meal?

HAHAHAHA

4) OMG you are hairy - It's alright, but if botters you why not wax it? If the girls are brave enough (and it hurts to us too, okay? Some of us DO have hair in the butt)

Hence the origin of the term "Brazilian wax" here in the U.S. Nice to hear you B-girls are keeping those bundhas clean. As far as men waxing off body hair, Roosh would probably be the wise sage on this matter, hahaha, but anyways yeah I'm a pretty hairy guy, but I don't know about waxing off body hair, just seems a little too metro-sexual to me. That said, if I knew it would significantly increase my chances of attracting women, maybe I would consider doing it, but that's not exactly something one can know with certainty.

Men shouldn't shave anything. At most just trim stuff that gets a bit too wild. That should be it.

[MiXX]

I've actually had women look at my shaven areas around my shaft and go crazy - in a gooood way! I have zero body hair, and it's a bitch to sustain...but I've never had any woman say they do not like it - quite the opposite, they go ballistic when they are going down on me!

[Mrs. Chocolate]

(07-25-2010 10:55 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(07-24-2010 08:00 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

3) Beard/Mustache - clean? shaved? Nothing against it, but do you take a good look or just let it grow and laughs when some nachos are hidden after the meal?

HAHAHAHA

4) OMG you are hairy - It's alright, but if botters you why not wax it? If the girls are brave enough (and it hurts to us too, okay? Some of us DO have hair in the butt)

Hence the origin of the term "Brazilian wax" here in the U.S. Nice to hear you B-girls are keeping those bundhas clean. As far as men waxing off body hair, Roosh would probably be the wise sage on this matter, hahaha, but anyways yeah I'm a pretty hairy guy, but I don't know about waxing off body hair, just seems a little too metro-sexual to me. That said, if I knew it would significantly increase my chances of attracting women, maybe I would consider doing it, but that's not exactly something one can know with certainty.

Men shouldn't shave anything. At most just trim stuff that gets a bit too wild. That should be it.

SHould men look like cavermen? hahahah

Mixx: Good to know!

[hydrogonian]

keeping the goods shaved is a pain, its just rough terrain to shave. And occasionally itchy. but its great. How would you feel if you had to go down on a huge bush?

Keeping your breath fresh can be tricky because a lot of that stuff comes from your gut. Therefore, brushing won't always even cut it if your diet is bad. Simple sugars, in general, will make your breath bad. Everything from dairy to alcohol. If you have that white coat on your tongue, try cutting down on the sugar.

[AlphaQup2nite]

My asian heritage makes shaving pretty much unnecessary, since i grow fine amounts of body hair, and it is piratical impossible for me to grow a beard or mustache in anything less than a year. I shave maybe once every 4 days. The only clean up i do is pubes clean up, as you cant ask a chick to if you dont do it yourself.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

(07-25-2010 09:43 PM)AlphaQup2nite Wrote:  

My asian heritage makes shaving pretty much unnecessary, since i grow fine amounts of body hair, and it is piratical impossible for me to grow a beard or mustache in anything less than a year. I shave maybe once every 4 days. The only clean up i do is pubes clean up, as you cant ask a chick to if you dont do it yourself.

Amen, brotha! HOw to expect from a girl to be "clean" if you are not?

[Vacancier Permanent]

Chocolatinha,
I agree that being clean shaven down there is a major thing to point out and to take care of both for visual effect as well for more sensibility and more pleasure.
Btw, one thing that drives me crazy about Brasileiras is specially when they have those killer tan and bikini lines and are proud to show them off. Specially the Cariocas, a little bit less the Paulistanas.

[speakeasy]

(07-26-2010 11:35 AM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  

(07-25-2010 09:43 PM)AlphaQup2nite Wrote:  

My asian heritage makes shaving pretty much unnecessary, since i grow fine amounts of body hair, and it is piratical impossible for me to grow a beard or mustache in anything less than a year. I shave maybe once every 4 days. The only clean up i do is pubes clean up, as you cant ask a chick to if you dont do it yourself.

Amen, brotha! HOw to expect from a girl to be "clean" if you are not?

This makes no sense. Most of us guys have hairy legs and some hair on chest and bellies too. If we shave our pubes, it's going to look like a bald spot on our groin while hair is everywhere else. You know how weird that would look? So unless you're going to shave your belly, ass, legs and chest, what's the point of a guy shaving his pubes? And when I say I shave, I'm talking about clean shaven completely off, not just a bit of trimming. Any guy that shaves his whole body must be gay. And if you're not gay there better be a good reason for it, like being a competitive body builder or swimmer.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

Speakeasy: The example that I used about an ex, he shaved because his job was in a pool with kids.
Anyway, I think that just a bit of trimming may achieve a better look. To me, a hairy men is the one that the hair in the back continues from his arm, chest and pubic area becoming one thing, like a carpet. When he puts a polo shirt you can see the hair trying get out. Less than this is okay.
VP: I know what you mean, is just we don't go to beach as often for obvious reasons. But we like to get tan and "fry" a bit during holidays. Even a chubby girl refuses to use grandma bikinis. I can't understand why Americans wear those terrible bath suits. they are too big and cover everything.
I remember once when my friends and I, in the time wearing a "engana-mamãe", were killed with the eyes by some chubby Americans in the pool of the hotel. They thought that we were all sluts due the bikini size. No need to say that they were wearing big speedos, as if they were in Olympics. Ew.

Gee, I had no clue that the item #4 would create such a fuzz. I thought that you would talk about proper clothes and the like.

[Mrs. Chocolate]

BTW, this is a engana-mamãe

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_20BaOwusrGo/S0...+mamae.jpg