I see value in both of these opinions:
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I'd like to solicit opinions on how you handle this with a girl you're dating.
Myself I let guys approach/spit game. If the girl really needs help I'll come over but in most cases she can turn him down or let him know she's taken all by herself. The girl I'm dating right now has a lot of guy friends (male roommate part of that group) and I'm not threatened by any of them and I know she's perfectly capable of handling most guys coming up.
The only time I'll really go intervene is if I think the girl really needs help. This happens a decent bit with female friends of mine when I go out with them, but I prefer to lay back a lot more than I would've in the past. I don't want to get into the "is this beta?" conversation too much, but I do think that a guy that has a girl truly into him and is alpha enough shouldn't need to intervene or "show that he's his girl" unless absolutely necessary. I find it a little too supplicating or posturing depending on the situation.
Even when I do help my girl friends out when it's needed I usually am not a dick about it unless the guy deserves it. It's just not necessary most of the time. Besides, when I'm out I like to socialize with the whole group or other people besides my date. Otherwise why not just stay home.
Quote: (05-17-2013 02:43 PM)Sebastian Wrote:
I approach some chick and her guy comes over. I don't get offended if she grabbs her guy. that's women's behavior.
I find it funny when a guy comes over, put arms around her and say 'how are you doing' with a signal from his eyes 'this is mine, fuck off'
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Quote: (05-17-2013 02:55 PM)Timoteo Wrote:
I think most men would come over if a strange guy was making conversation with his girl for more than a couple of minutes. If he didn't, we'd probably say the guy was a bitch. Men know other men. Men know when they're with an attractive woman. They know and understand that other men will look, and not knowing if she's with someone, may step to her and spit a little. Frankly, it doesn't take much to let another guy know she's taken. You can step over, put your hand on her in a certain way, and walk away again and your message will be delivered. If your girl stays engaged with the guy for much longer after that, maybe you have a problem with HER, not the guy.
I'd like to solicit opinions on how you handle this with a girl you're dating.
Myself I let guys approach/spit game. If the girl really needs help I'll come over but in most cases she can turn him down or let him know she's taken all by herself. The girl I'm dating right now has a lot of guy friends (male roommate part of that group) and I'm not threatened by any of them and I know she's perfectly capable of handling most guys coming up.
The only time I'll really go intervene is if I think the girl really needs help. This happens a decent bit with female friends of mine when I go out with them, but I prefer to lay back a lot more than I would've in the past. I don't want to get into the "is this beta?" conversation too much, but I do think that a guy that has a girl truly into him and is alpha enough shouldn't need to intervene or "show that he's his girl" unless absolutely necessary. I find it a little too supplicating or posturing depending on the situation.
Even when I do help my girl friends out when it's needed I usually am not a dick about it unless the guy deserves it. It's just not necessary most of the time. Besides, when I'm out I like to socialize with the whole group or other people besides my date. Otherwise why not just stay home.
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