This has been my goal for the past year. I can already get consistent notches with mediocre girls but have been trying to get into willowy models.
From where I am right now, I believe that there are probably many different approaches to get the finer girls. I welcome those approaches in this thread. This first post is based on my experience with trying to push into higher quality.
Disclaimer: I'm not banging models left and right yet. But, my good bangs are much more attractive than what they used to be.
You have to learn the rules of the game in order to play.
To bang any type of girl, you have to have a very strong understanding of where they are coming from. I see game as just a way of learning to talk to women. All these different types of girls speak different languages, so to speak. I've noticed that game needs to be translated. You just use fattie speak on a model, and visa versa.
I believe that you can't enjoy the subtle differences in good booze, a genre of music, or food if you don't understand it's language. For example, a lot of jazz used to just sound the same to me: "Jazz". It wasn't until I started listening to it extensively that I was really able to appreciate what was happening and be able to discern the good from the bad etc.
I've had this is experience with game in general. I used to see girls as these mystical creatures, and couldn't really get the subtle differences in quality. Sure, I could distinguish between general hot and not, but I would often round up and give a lot of girls much more value than they actually had because, in a lot of ways, I bought into what society told me about women.
This is why you can't just expect to get with higher quality girls if you limit yourself to 5-7s. Unless you understand what the 8-9s are trying to say, you are taking a shot in the dark.
So, how is it possible to learn the different languages?
It starts with immersion and observation.
To get into Jazz, I listened to it non-stop. It's now at a point where I like a lot of tracks that I used to not like just because I've listened to them so much and they've become a part of my nostalgia. But, it wasn't until I actually tried to learn how to play jazz that I really got into it. Same thing with art: I didn't really get Michelangelo's art until I went to Florence and actually tried drawing his sculptures.
So, you can stand around and look at pretty girls all day, but if you are not interacting with them, you will never really get them.
Put yourself in a position where you are surrounded by them. Do not do this with the intention of macking on them, but just an observer. Be the beta, get in their friendzone. Do this with a lot of models. Watch how they operate. Hang out with them. Build your understanding of them to a point where if you had to take an SAT on fine girls, you'd score 1600 (or whatever the top score is now). In the meantime, bang lesser quality girls to get your rocks off and relieve your libido*
Get a job that puts you in a position of having to deal with them directly- maybe a photographers assistant, or anything that will get you close to the fashion, film/acting, stripper world. Become a bus boy at a high-end club. Just make sure that you are in a position where you can at least watch, and possibly interact with them. Build "friendships"**
In my case, I started collaborating on music with one. I realize now that one is not enough, and am making a greater effort to organize my life so that I will be around more of them.
Start hanging out with these girls. AS A FRIEND. Don't try to put any moves on them. You want them to feel safe around you. You can use them as pivots to get into high-end clubs.
By surrounding yourself with beautiful women, you are increasing your own level of comfort and pre-selection to a point where other girls of that quality are going to see you with these girls and start to, at the very least, wonder about who you are. Things are going to start happening in a kind of organic way. There will be no rejection because rejection is not built into the equation; if anything, you will be the one doing the rejecting.
This is just a general, starting approach. The exact details are going to vary based on which path you decide to take.
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Also, you can start making money off of them as well (which makes sense because this approach is a huge time investment) I can't find it right now, but McQueen did an excellent post on craigslist promoter/model game.
*btw, I think this mindset will help you seem aloof to both types of girls, because your focus isn't on directly on them, but on something you see as more valuable, and you don't care about any one particular woman.
** There is no such thing a true friendship between a man and a woman.
From where I am right now, I believe that there are probably many different approaches to get the finer girls. I welcome those approaches in this thread. This first post is based on my experience with trying to push into higher quality.
Disclaimer: I'm not banging models left and right yet. But, my good bangs are much more attractive than what they used to be.
You have to learn the rules of the game in order to play.
To bang any type of girl, you have to have a very strong understanding of where they are coming from. I see game as just a way of learning to talk to women. All these different types of girls speak different languages, so to speak. I've noticed that game needs to be translated. You just use fattie speak on a model, and visa versa.
I believe that you can't enjoy the subtle differences in good booze, a genre of music, or food if you don't understand it's language. For example, a lot of jazz used to just sound the same to me: "Jazz". It wasn't until I started listening to it extensively that I was really able to appreciate what was happening and be able to discern the good from the bad etc.
I've had this is experience with game in general. I used to see girls as these mystical creatures, and couldn't really get the subtle differences in quality. Sure, I could distinguish between general hot and not, but I would often round up and give a lot of girls much more value than they actually had because, in a lot of ways, I bought into what society told me about women.
This is why you can't just expect to get with higher quality girls if you limit yourself to 5-7s. Unless you understand what the 8-9s are trying to say, you are taking a shot in the dark.
So, how is it possible to learn the different languages?
It starts with immersion and observation.
To get into Jazz, I listened to it non-stop. It's now at a point where I like a lot of tracks that I used to not like just because I've listened to them so much and they've become a part of my nostalgia. But, it wasn't until I actually tried to learn how to play jazz that I really got into it. Same thing with art: I didn't really get Michelangelo's art until I went to Florence and actually tried drawing his sculptures.
So, you can stand around and look at pretty girls all day, but if you are not interacting with them, you will never really get them.
Put yourself in a position where you are surrounded by them. Do not do this with the intention of macking on them, but just an observer. Be the beta, get in their friendzone. Do this with a lot of models. Watch how they operate. Hang out with them. Build your understanding of them to a point where if you had to take an SAT on fine girls, you'd score 1600 (or whatever the top score is now). In the meantime, bang lesser quality girls to get your rocks off and relieve your libido*
Get a job that puts you in a position of having to deal with them directly- maybe a photographers assistant, or anything that will get you close to the fashion, film/acting, stripper world. Become a bus boy at a high-end club. Just make sure that you are in a position where you can at least watch, and possibly interact with them. Build "friendships"**
In my case, I started collaborating on music with one. I realize now that one is not enough, and am making a greater effort to organize my life so that I will be around more of them.
Start hanging out with these girls. AS A FRIEND. Don't try to put any moves on them. You want them to feel safe around you. You can use them as pivots to get into high-end clubs.
By surrounding yourself with beautiful women, you are increasing your own level of comfort and pre-selection to a point where other girls of that quality are going to see you with these girls and start to, at the very least, wonder about who you are. Things are going to start happening in a kind of organic way. There will be no rejection because rejection is not built into the equation; if anything, you will be the one doing the rejecting.
This is just a general, starting approach. The exact details are going to vary based on which path you decide to take.
----------
Also, you can start making money off of them as well (which makes sense because this approach is a huge time investment) I can't find it right now, but McQueen did an excellent post on craigslist promoter/model game.
*btw, I think this mindset will help you seem aloof to both types of girls, because your focus isn't on directly on them, but on something you see as more valuable, and you don't care about any one particular woman.
** There is no such thing a true friendship between a man and a woman.
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