[BlackJoker]

Hi playas, I am new in the forum but I searched and didnt find any topics discussing this subject.

My question is if there is a way of dealing with attention whores? For example: I have 1 or 2 girls that i failed to bang, and they know that because at one point I just didnt care and told them. The obvious next step is to go for the next girl, which i did. But these girls continue to text me and seek my attention. Is there a way to bang them after all this or am I just wasting my time giving them the attention they want?

Thanks in advance fellow playas!

[aphelion]

Welcome to the forum.

If they're attention whoring you they probably are a little intrigued. Game on.

Addendum: if they're attention whoring you like 'hey can you help me move my couch' then pass.

[BlackJoker]

ahah thanks man. No they're not asking any kind of favours, just the classic " hey why havent you talked to me in a while?"

[RCron]

(05-01-2013 02:50 PM)aphelion Wrote:  

Welcome to the forum.

If they're attention whoring you they probably are a little intrigued. Game on.

Addendum: if they're attention whoring you like 'hey can you help me move my couch' then pass.

Obviously you don't want to be their beta servant but if they're asking you to come over to "help" them that's usually a green light to bone town.

[Jaylow]

her: hey why havent you talked to me in a while
me: i didnt think i was your friend
her: what?? of course you are
me: friends see each other in person
her: bs excuse about being busy
me: i would suggest a time/place to see her within a day or 2


If she says no then I would ignore all her texts for a week or two.

Quote:

I have 1 or 2 girls that i failed to bang, and they know that because at one point I just didnt care and told them.

Stay aloof, dont spell out your intentions and don't highlight a failure. You never know if they are going to want you somewhere down the road. Now it makes it super awkward to see them in person because you told them what your intentions are. Even if you want to fuck them and your actions show this. For most guys in the newbie phase of game verbalizing something like this is a mistake.

[BlackJoker]

(05-01-2013 03:25 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  

her: hey why havent you talked to me in a while
me: i didnt think i was your friend
her: what?? of course you are
me: friends see each other in person
her: bs excuse about being busy
me: i would suggest a time/place to see her within a day or 2


If she says no then I would ignore all her texts for a week or two.

Quote:

I have 1 or 2 girls that i failed to bang, and they know that because at one point I just didnt care and told them.

Stay aloof, dont spell out your intentions and don't highlight a failure. Now it makes it super awkward to see them in person because you told them what your intentions are. Even if you want to fuck them and your actions show this, for most guys, especially in the newbie phase of game, verbalizing this is a mistake.

I told her because she admited that i was hot and wouldnt mind having sex with me... but yes, i TOTALY agree with you in 99% of the time

[Jaylow]

Quote:

I told her because she admited that i was hot and wouldnt mind having sex with me... but yes, i TOTALY agree with you in 99% of the time

her: your hot and I want to have sex with you

if it was 1am id answer within 5 minutes

me: get the fuck over here <---- this might be a mistake jumping on this so quick, someone feel free to correct me. Its hard to say without the entire flow of conversation.

if it was during the day i wouldnt respond for a decent period of time depending on previous flow of conversation, I certainly wouldnt instant text back

me: when are you free this week

I dont understand why you would respond to this with something like "i was trying to have sex with you before" ?

[BlackJoker]

because it wasn.t a recent girl, i've already known her for a few months... but yes I can understand your point.. thats why I'm here , to learn

[Parlay44]

I'm going to paraphrase Mystery here ...

Think of it like you're dangling a string in front of a cat. As long as you're waving it around ...it's trying to grab it. You have its attention.

Once you let it have the string it doesn't want it anymore.

Basically you only keep feeding into her attention whoring if she's letting you escalate physically with her. Once she starts denying play ...you take away the attention and give it to another girl.

[WestIndianArchie]

I want to chalk this up to young girl issues, but bitches in their 30's do this shit.

I believe that
1) all chicks want dick, and they want it all the time but

2) there's an internal struggle between a chicks unconscious mind that has pre-selected your cock as a possibility and a chick's hamster that is trying to defend her "honor" from unworthy cock. (her logical brain might only be engaged during school exams)

3) This need for sex is ever present and in every society

4) But you often need to unlock a lot of shit to get her hamster and her "hind brain" to act together. Maybe this is the essence of game, I dunno.
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Attention Whore - "Hey, haven't heard from you"

Most guys in the game, think they can get the lay off of text/twitter/facebook post by playing her game. I used to think this. Real spit, I can bullshit with the best of em. I can tell stories, jokes, make insightful statements, cold reads - keep a bitch engaged in texting with me for hours on end. It just rarely turned to lays cause I wasn't trying to engineer it.

AW - "hey"
U - "Sup"
AW - "Just checking you out"

^this is the worst part of it. She ends the interaction with a statement, not with a story, not with a question - but clearly she wants an interaction but she's not willing to give you anything to work with.

MUCH LIKE REAL LIFE.

Even writing this shit out is pissing me the fuck off. We do all this god damn work, and even for good pussy/good sex, the the high/the effect wears the fuck off, or is mitigated by how awful these human beings are. I digress.

She gets your attention and now wants you to entertain her.

She wants you to invent some shit, get her little one line responses and lols, and then stop chatting and go to sleep, break out the vibe, hit her real man for the 2:30 am booty call.

She gets something, you get nothing that you want.

At the minimum I want
1) intel on how other dudes have managed to fuck her ("sounds like your ex" - she fills in the details, I re-tailor my game because I know she likes a particular brand of asshole)

2) intel on her disgusting sexual habits - cause I'm sure kindergarten school teachers snort cum through their nostrils and teach the ABC's with butt plugs. If nothing at all, my game gets better with a hard dick.

3) R-X rated pics - I actually prefer a chick to send me her in ad hoc/spur of the moment heel pics than nudes. The illusion is often so much better than the reality. But nudes are awesome if you want to get your Hunter Moore on at a later date. Nothing like a little blackmail to put the pep in your step.

4) the invitation - either she comes to me, or opens the door for me to come to her.

Just like at a club or bar mitzvah - any interaction that you normally have on a woman's terms, you've got to playfully turn around so that she's qualifying to you. This is not a battle of wits. This is not tat for tits.

Despite current trends in game, IMO, you don't take your ball and go home cause a chick doesn't lay down flat for you. I don't agree with the "this bitch must be emotionally damaged if she doesn't respond to my vulnerable efforts"

If nothing at all, I find that breaking a bitch provides for a more monumental first fuck. A little more grudge in your stroke. Clearly I'm a misogynist, so perhaps you should skip my reply.

But the onset is where you blow her mindset up, how she views you, views herself, and *you* put it back together.

This isn't easy at happy hour, and very difficult over text. Still doable.

Throughout the game, you've got to be willing to lose. Too many dudes keep this bitches entertained cause they think this lottery ticket of a bitches phone # is gonna turn into Powerballing.

You can't be afraid to lose a bitch.

What I use now?

The "messy" accusation.

You're trying to put the broad on tilt, so you can put her on the hilt of your sword. Nothing like some poker?

h - "hey"
u - "sup"
h - "nada"
u - where you at
h - home
u - who you wit
h - by myself

^So right now, you've got her at home, maybe on the couch, but prolly in bed, in a t-shirt, prolly a little nekkid. It's been my experience that broads in their natural habitat like to be naked or wearing as little as possible.

If she hits you up in the middle of the day, you're busy. (i'm with my main bitch right now)

If she hits you up when she can't get to a sex location, you're busy. (my booty call's coming through, I'll get at you later)

But a broad that gets at you about 8:45 pm-2:00 am - she's a target.

Do not put ANY energy into a bitch that you can't fuck. None whatsoever. If you want to argue with a chick, do so for your entertainment not hers. Good opportunity to practice your "bemused alpha" steez.

back to the program.

So you pretend you've heard some gossip about her, that shows her in kind of a scandalous slutty light, and then you get her to qualify, interrogate, and transition

U - "did you go to that thing?"
H - Yeah
U - I betcha you got kinda fucked up
H - I was only a LITTLE TIPSY
u - Not what I heard
h - SHUT UP!
U - I heard that "*insert some scandalous shit*
H - "that's not true"
U - You sometimes give off that kinda vibe

Moment of truth. This is where you employ that girly/gossipy/vague/ambiguous shit - which will either turn her off, or get her going.

Keep up with this, and then you hit her with

u - "I'm trying to picture what a liar looks like..what are you wearing"

Do you see where this goes?
- you've qualified a bitch - she's at home and solo
- you've gotten her worked up
- you've gotten her to defend herself, qualify herself to you

Now you start with the compliance, now you start to get her to do things and tell you things of a different nature

Depending on what you accused her of, you can start to get playful with what you said.

And from there,
- you get her to admit that she likes you,
- send you a pic, and not the one she sends everyone
- that she's wet,
- that no we shouldn't
- that you shouldn't come over
- that she can't let you in
- that you can only stay for a little bit
- that she doesn't need a massage
- that you can't put the whole thing in
...
- then you do the debrief and see if you can discern some shit from her actions.
"like why we ain't fuck before this..."
"Oh you thought I was a player?"
"so why did you fuck me now?"
"you like players now? dirty bitch..."

Keep in mind, this works when you are able to grab a chick by the throat in a few moments, and you're sure she won't get pulled away, and you can prime her for the pumping.

But if a chick is being pulled in different directions and can't get absorbed by your words (just like the club) - this can all be for naught.

Keep your eyes on the prize. Pimp MLK JR

WIA

[gandt]

(05-01-2013 05:44 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

I want to chalk this up to young girl issues, but bitches in their 30's do this shit.

I believe that
1) all chicks want dick, and they want it all the time but

2) there's an internal struggle between a chicks unconscious mind that has pre-selected your cock as a possibility and a chick's hamster that is trying to defend her "honor" from unworthy cock. (her logical brain might only be engaged during school exams)

3) This need for sex is ever present and in every society

4) But you often need to unlock a lot of shit to get her hamster and her "hind brain" to act together. Maybe this is the essence of game, I dunno.
____________________________________________________________

Attention Whore - "Hey, haven't heard from you"

Most guys in the game, think they can get the lay off of text/twitter/facebook post by playing her game. I used to think this. Real spit, I can bullshit with the best of em. I can tell stories, jokes, make insightful statements, cold reads - keep a bitch engaged in texting with me for hours on end. It just rarely turned to lays cause I wasn't trying to engineer it.

AW - "hey"
U - "Sup"
AW - "Just checking you out"

^this is the worst part of it. She ends the interaction with a statement, not with a story, not with a question - but clearly she wants an interaction but she's not willing to give you anything to work with.

MUCH LIKE REAL LIFE.

Even writing this shit out is pissing me the fuck off. We do all this god damn work, and even for good pussy/good sex, the the high/the effect wears the fuck off, or is mitigated by how awful these human beings are. I digress.

She gets your attention and now wants you to entertain her.

She wants you to invent some shit, get her little one line responses and lols, and then stop chatting and go to sleep, break out the vibe, hit her real man for the 2:30 am booty call.

She gets something, you get nothing that you want.

At the minimum I want
1) intel on how other dudes have managed to fuck her ("sounds like your ex" - she fills in the details, I re-tailor my game because I know she likes a particular brand of asshole)

2) intel on her disgusting sexual habits - cause I'm sure kindergarten school teachers snort cum through their nostrils and teach the ABC's with butt plugs. If nothing at all, my game gets better with a hard dick.

3) R-X rated pics - I actually prefer a chick to send me her in ad hoc/spur of the moment heel pics than nudes. The illusion is often so much better than the reality. But nudes are awesome if you want to get your Hunter Moore on at a later date. Nothing like a little blackmail to put the pep in your step.

4) the invitation - either she comes to me, or opens the door for me to come to her.

Just like at a club or bar mitzvah - any interaction that you normally have on a woman's terms, you've got to playfully turn around so that she's qualifying to you. This is not a battle of wits. This is not tat for tits.

Despite current trends in game, IMO, you don't take your ball and go home cause a chick doesn't lay down flat for you. I don't agree with the "this bitch must be emotionally damaged if she doesn't respond to my vulnerable efforts"

If nothing at all, I find that breaking a bitch provides for a more monumental first fuck. A little more grudge in your stroke. Clearly I'm a misogynist, so perhaps you should skip my reply.

But the onset is where you blow her mindset up, how she views you, views herself, and *you* put it back together.

This isn't easy at happy hour, and very difficult over text. Still doable.

Throughout the game, you've got to be willing to lose. Too many dudes keep this bitches entertained cause they think this lottery ticket of a bitches phone # is gonna turn into Powerballing.

You can't be afraid to lose a bitch.

What I use now?

The "messy" accusation.

You're trying to put the broad on tilt, so you can put her on the hilt of your sword. Nothing like some poker?

h - "hey"
u - "sup"
h - "nada"
u - where you at
h - home
u - who you wit
h - by myself

^So right now, you've got her at home, maybe on the couch, but prolly in bed, in a t-shirt, prolly a little nekkid. It's been my experience that broads in their natural habitat like to be naked or wearing as little as possible.

If she hits you up in the middle of the day, you're busy. (i'm with my main bitch right now)

If she hits you up when she can't get to a sex location, you're busy. (my booty call's coming through, I'll get at you later)

But a broad that gets at you about 8:45 pm-2:00 am - she's a target.

Do not put ANY energy into a bitch that you can't fuck. None whatsoever. If you want to argue with a chick, do so for your entertainment not hers. Good opportunity to practice your "bemused alpha" steez.

back to the program.

So you pretend you've heard some gossip about her, that shows her in kind of a scandalous slutty light, and then you get her to qualify, interrogate, and transition

U - "did you go to that thing?"
H - Yeah
U - I betcha you got kinda fucked up
H - I was only a LITTLE TIPSY
u - Not what I heard
h - SHUT UP!
U - I heard that "*insert some scandalous shit*
H - "that's not true"
U - You sometimes give off that kinda vibe

Moment of truth. This is where you employ that girly/gossipy/vague/ambiguous shit - which will either turn her off, or get her going.

Keep up with this, and then you hit her with

u - "I'm trying to picture what a liar looks like..what are you wearing"

Do you see where this goes?
- you've qualified a bitch - she's at home and solo
- you've gotten her worked up
- you've gotten her to defend herself, qualify herself to you

Now you start with the compliance, now you start to get her to do things and tell you things of a different nature

Depending on what you accused her of, you can start to get playful with what you said.

And from there,
- you get her to admit that she likes you,
- send you a pic, and not the one she sends everyone
- that she's wet,
- that no we shouldn't
- that you shouldn't come over
- that she can't let you in
- that you can only stay for a little bit
- that she doesn't need a massage
- that you can't put the whole thing in
...
- then you do the debrief and see if you can discern some shit from her actions.
"like why we ain't fuck before this..."
"Oh you thought I was a player?"
"so why did you fuck me now?"
"you like players now? dirty bitch..."

Keep in mind, this works when you are able to grab a chick by the throat in a few moments, and you're sure she won't get pulled away, and you can prime her for the pumping.

But if a chick is being pulled in different directions and can't get absorbed by your words (just like the club) - this can all be for naught.

Keep your eyes on the prize. Pimp MLK JR

WIA

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one of the most stringent game posts, gold