Alright, I know that text messaging vs. phone call has already been discussed/debated on here, and I've read through some older posts that I did a search for on this forum. However, it is still not clear to me, if one is necessarily better than the other, and really just may depend on the girls preference.
Now I'll admit that sometimes I'm a bit neurotic, over-analytical, and anal about stuff, but I'm not trying to sweat this issue too hard, just trying to figure out my best course of action. Recently, I've been relying on text messaging girls, and was able to set up dates with my last two chicks through text, but a very strong connection/attraction was already established. As I mentioned in another post I went on a phone number collecting spree this weekend, got 6 numbers, and I'm currently 0 for 1 (I texted the hottest one a HB 9.5 half Japanese/white 30 year old who already has a boyfriend).
I know in "Bang" Roosh strongly discourages texting, but on an older post on this forum, suggested that texting seems to be the "future" or something to that affect, and it sounds like he has a text messaging "guide" due to come out in the near future. Today I talked to a good female friend who at one point really sweated my nuts, but is only average looking, she said always call the girl, because it makes you seem waay more confident. I also had a long conversation with a friend who lives in SF, who is a real natural and one of the best players that I know, he said that he prefers text because it's more "chill" and he doesn't like having to "explain" who he is to a girl that he met when drunk at a bar/club. So I'm getting different ideas, I think I'm going to just end up texting these girls tonight, which might be a bitch move, but I'm still not great on the phone.
To wrap this up, I'd love a critique from some of the more experienced guys on the forum, I normally don't "chit chat" on text, and kind of get straight to the point, with something like this:
"Hey Sarah, this is OGNorCal, how's it going? I liked talking to you at the bar the other night, you seem really cool, we should get together and hang out. I'm pretty free the next couple of days, and would be down to meet up for a drink."
Any thoughts or critiques would be nice, again I know it may sound like I'm being neurotic and over-analytical and I probably am, just trying to refine my game, as my number closing percentage is seriously like at 90% these days. But as most of us have said and agreed upon, numbers don't mean shit, if there is no follow up action!
Now I'll admit that sometimes I'm a bit neurotic, over-analytical, and anal about stuff, but I'm not trying to sweat this issue too hard, just trying to figure out my best course of action. Recently, I've been relying on text messaging girls, and was able to set up dates with my last two chicks through text, but a very strong connection/attraction was already established. As I mentioned in another post I went on a phone number collecting spree this weekend, got 6 numbers, and I'm currently 0 for 1 (I texted the hottest one a HB 9.5 half Japanese/white 30 year old who already has a boyfriend).
I know in "Bang" Roosh strongly discourages texting, but on an older post on this forum, suggested that texting seems to be the "future" or something to that affect, and it sounds like he has a text messaging "guide" due to come out in the near future. Today I talked to a good female friend who at one point really sweated my nuts, but is only average looking, she said always call the girl, because it makes you seem waay more confident. I also had a long conversation with a friend who lives in SF, who is a real natural and one of the best players that I know, he said that he prefers text because it's more "chill" and he doesn't like having to "explain" who he is to a girl that he met when drunk at a bar/club. So I'm getting different ideas, I think I'm going to just end up texting these girls tonight, which might be a bitch move, but I'm still not great on the phone.
To wrap this up, I'd love a critique from some of the more experienced guys on the forum, I normally don't "chit chat" on text, and kind of get straight to the point, with something like this:
"Hey Sarah, this is OGNorCal, how's it going? I liked talking to you at the bar the other night, you seem really cool, we should get together and hang out. I'm pretty free the next couple of days, and would be down to meet up for a drink."
Any thoughts or critiques would be nice, again I know it may sound like I'm being neurotic and over-analytical and I probably am, just trying to refine my game, as my number closing percentage is seriously like at 90% these days. But as most of us have said and agreed upon, numbers don't mean shit, if there is no follow up action!
