[Lex S.]

So here's the story - A few months back I met an 8 at a bar and brought her home and banged it out. First time I've ever banged a girl within the same night, and was amazed it was with a girl so attractive. But she's from another city and was away until this week. I saw her on Saturday and she was really cold. She left me alone with her equally attractive friend most of the night, but would then re-appear, bringing me beer and shots (Must've spent $20-30 on me that night, while I spent nothing).

So on Wednesday I got in touch over Facebook about meeting up Thursday. She quickly gave me her number and told me to text her. I did, and we chatted back and forth, and she invited me out with her and her female friend again. I texted her for details (Place, time), and her texts got slower and slower, until there was silence. I texted her back once asking "Yes or no?" to the prospect of meeting up, then just texted a nonsense phrase to catch her off-guard. Nothing. I went to bed.

Then I woke up this morning to a text from her. "I'm sorry, I left my phone in my room last night, I suck ". I waited about 3 hours and texted back "Minus 10 points." This sounded like such a bullshit excuse - We all know 20-something girls are glued to their phones. I was anticipating never hearing from her again, but the fact that she texted with an excuse was a surprise.

So, I first meet her and within 2 hours I'm fucking her so hard she forgets how to speak, and I had a finger up her ass. Cut to now and she's acting hot and cold, and I can't get a read on her. Just as soon as I'm ready to throw in the towel she grabs me again with something. She's only here until Saturday, so I'm debating whether or not to be persistent to try and get that last-minute pull, or to just forget about her. If she texts back I'm also considering turning the tables and telling HER to call ME at a specific time to see if she responds.

So, thoughts on how to proceed? Thoughts on what she's doing?

[Menace]

Should be in noob forum. You already smashed. She's being difficult and you're thinking too much. Next. You need to be looking for excuses to GET RID of girls, not to keep them.

[Lex S.]

(03-01-2013 02:16 PM)Menace Wrote:  

You need to be looking for excuses to GET RID of girls, not to keep them.

Solid advice. I usually try and keep a rotation going, and I've gotten rid of girls for less than what the girl in my OP did. It's just so easy to turn back into a whimpering beta around a pretty girl (Who's in a whole other league than most girls I'm with). The differences in attitude between, say, a 6 and an 8 is astounding, and requires a lot more confidence and a Zen-like approach.

You live and learn. If I come across another 8 I'll hopefully have the tools to be able to deal with her better.

[Lex S.]

Sometimes I'll never understand chicks. I stopped texting her after this thread, and she went back to her home city. But since she's been back she's been chatty as hell. She's been commenting on things I post on Facebook, and she just sent me a text trying to be silly and play on some inside jokes we had. I've seen this happen with girls before - They're bitchy when you're near, but fond when you're far away. I'm leaving the ball in her court in case she ever wants to meet again, but for now there are local girls to be worrying about.

[Matt3B]

Classic case of NEXT.

Mate, she's a slag. She was probably getting railed by some other guy which is why it took her until the next day to text you back and her good looks are getting you too attached. Give her radio silence and if she hits you up again when she's next in town, so be it. But you're gonna get hurt if you keep thinking and chasing her.

You're right, these chicks are glued to the phone and you know why? They have a myriad of options. Go find a better girl.