[NYC_HipsterDouchebag]

Hey everyone! So this is a continuation of my efforts/data earned and learned with girls I’ve interacted/met over on Ok Cupid. If you’re just reading now here’s a summary of my January efforts http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-20211.html

So going into February was a grind, every week I had to start from scratch and run huge amounts of numbers to score dates on the weekend. For example I had 7 dates planned for this weekend in which only 2 didn’t flake. I’ll get into flaking in a moment, but what I want to talk about the energy required to accomplish this. Basically doing what Jlaix calls a “Beast Blast” http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhUGdC_RzYQ

@2:48 “Beasting is the foundation of all of this shit, you gotta constantly be copping, you gotta constantly be getting new girls. Now you can also be doing what I call a beast cycle. It’s like I’ll go out hard for maybe two weeks, going out to clubs, hitting up internet, hittin up daygame, like all around we just go beast I call it a beast blast. It’s like a 30 day challenge thing but I can’t do it because I’m an old man I get tired. So like I’ll go for a week maybe 2 weeks every day, and maybe just a little every day it doesn’t matter it doesn’t have to be these marathon sessions like I would say at a bootcamp but at the same time a little every day. Now during that time what’s happening? During that time I’m getting laid, and during that time we’re also getting numbers. So it’s like a big funnel, it’s like a big sales funnel. Like up the top here is like your cold approaches, and some blow out, like they can blow out at any stage of this funnel. And then boom I fuck a couple from that, you know same night pulls. Then it’ll go to the phone/text thing the ones that I didn’t fuck, some will blow out there. They’ll be unresponsive or they’ll just stop responding somewhere down the line. So boom they’ll be blowing out there. Then I have the dates, I’ll go out on the dates with those girls and some will blow out there. Like some won’t fuck, some will have to go on a day 3. Now at that point if they’ve blown out there, I just have the girls that I’ve had sex with from that process. And then they’re still in the funnel because until you’ve fucked them basically 3 times I don’t really feel like its concrete. They can still change their mind or whatever so after you’ve done 3 sessions they’re locked down. And then they become a cherish, or a fuck buddy or whatever you call it. So the beast blast will take 2 weeks and the sussing out or shaking kind of sifting out the others you know the numbers, the dates, the day twos, the sex and all that will take about maybe another 4 weeks. So basically you’ll have a net gain of maybe like 2.5 fuck buddies.”

So my beast blasts would be every night Sunday through Wednesday online around 9PM when all the girls are on OKC until I filled up my inbox, so like 400 openers. Get numbers, text, set up date, trade pics. Now this is my funnel for the weekend and they could blow out at any point. Here is my data for the month of February (keep in mind I took a week off to spend valentines day weekend with my girlfriend, it was funny though getting texts from the graveyard of my phone)

Profile Visits: 350 per week

Numbers: 44

Dates: 8

Bangs: 2 (got my Polish Flag and accomplished my 2013 goal)

Lessons learned: I’m really happy with getting my Polish flag she was really amazing, I need to focus on the positives before I descend into darkness. Never ever ever go to them, it’s neutral ground or nothing. I made the mistake of thinking there was an exception to this rule when I accepted an invitation to an apartment party. There are no exceptions. Social circle game is powerful shit, I met two friend groups while on dates with girls and immediately was hit on by at least two girls I was introduced to. While the dates treated me like garbage because we had met online, their friends were nice and open because they thought I was a friend of a friend. I should have ditched the dates for their friends. Dirty texting doesn’t work, what does is setting up a date and then the next day sending them a muscle/nude selfie as a DHV. Some girls won’t respond, so the dates get killed early. Others will and start to give you shit and then you get to be cocky/asshole and flirt and open up the sex talk door with them a bit. Don’t go on coffee shop dates, you need to get them drunk. If she has somewhere to be after the meet up don’t bother, you need to spend all night with her. No make out = no second date. Most common flake excuse is the “I’m sick” text during the day when you have plans for that night. I stopped sending confirmation texts a while ago and expect them to flake.

Predictions: I’m going to stop pursuing girls who are out of college and my age with jobs, surprisingly 24 is too old. I’m going as young as possible, high school and college. I have success with 18 year old girls and girls who don’t work. As spring approaches I’m predicting a summer of lots of sex in public. The formula that works is split a bottle of liquor, wander around Washington Sq Park and have sex in the handicapped portapotty.

Thanks so much for reading and I can’t wait to report again soon!

[MrXY]

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Never ever ever go to them, it’s neutral ground or nothing. I made the mistake of thinking there was an exception to this rule when I accepted an invitation to an apartment party. There are no exceptions.

This is a common refrain in online dating discussions, but in my experience it just isn't true. My geographical situation is such that I often drive from 30 min to 90 min to meet an online girl. They know where I live and that I am making this trip to see them . The game theorists would say this is a DLV because I am putting out the effort to chase her and thus lowering my status relative to her. But I have found that all that really matters is what happens once you are face to face with the girl. If you game her and dominate her and create attraction there, you will easily overcome any DLV of coming to see her.
Your problem here was you went to a party, not that you went to her. I never meet a girl when any of her friends or acquaintances are present. I agree that does give her far too much power and status relative to you and creates a terrible social dynamic for you-her friends will test, interrogate and cockblock you.

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Social circle game is powerful shit, I met two friend groups while on dates with girls and immediately was hit on by at least two girls I was introduced to. While the dates treated me like garbage because we had met online, their friends were nice and open because they thought I was a friend of a friend. I should have ditched the dates for their friends.

Again dealing with friends while with online dates almost always goes badly. Trying to ditch a girl for her friend the same night almost never works.

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Dirty texting doesn’t work

Agreed

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what does is setting up a date and then the next day sending them a muscle/nude selfie as a DHV. Some girls won’t respond, so the dates get killed early. Others will and start to give you shit and then you get to be cocky/asshole and flirt and open up the sex talk door with them a bit.

I don't send nudes-I think it turns off girls you otherwise could have banged. Muscle shots are ok most times if the girl initiates sending pics

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Don’t go on coffee shop dates, you need to get them drunk.

100% agreed

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If she has somewhere to be after the meet up don’t bother, you need to spend all night with her.

Ideally this is what you want- a free evening with her to go for the SNL. Sometimes I will set up a drink meeting though just to get a foot in the door when she or I am just too busy and have something later. I sometimes do a drink date and then a full date later with another girl

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No make out = no second date.

100% agreed. If she won't makeout with you on the first date she is either not attracted to you or just frigid and in both cases you don't want to invest any more time with her

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Most common flake excuse is the “I’m sick” text during the day when you have plans for that night.

True

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I stopped sending confirmation texts a while ago and expect them to flake.

I always expect them to flake but I do send a confirmation test in the early afternoon the day of the date

[soup]

Keep plowing.

The opening pic is misleading for an OKC thread.

[WesternCancer]

400 messages DAYUUUUUUMMMMMMM. I don't even think there are that many girls in my area. Good writeup though.

I agree with the younger girls, at least in my area if they're not heinously ugly they're on there for a supplement of vitamin D. A lot of chicks have under "you should message me if" "you want to hook up"

Except they flake hella, (soup that pixie cut chick flaked I think I got too excited and instead of accepting her time suggesting a new one way earlier)

[soup]

I get 400 sent messages built up fast as well. It's not hard if you are messaging many girls at once. I stopped because I think OKC was putting a clamp on rapid messaging.