What would you guys do if you were in my situation?
I'm in my 30s and:
1. Knocked up a girl (from Eastern Europe) and we have a 2.5 year old kid together. We live in Eastern Europe. I am financially well-off and can live anywhere I want.
2. The girl is loyal but definitely not someone I would have picked as a long-term partner if it wasn't for the kid. In fact, I find my life largely joyless these days except for the joy that having a kid brings of course
3. We are not married -- but I've felt obligated to be the good dad by supporting the girl and the kid for the past several years
4. Still have lots of women after me -- including most recently a STUNNING 20 year old blonde -- who I hooked up with and am tempted to close the deal with this week. Some women know about my personal situation, others do not. I usually don't mention it right away.
5. Breaking up would mean lots of bad things, largely becoming an absent dad as I cannot see myself in this particular city for much longer if it wasn't for the kid.
It seems the only options left for me are:
1. Get mistresses and somehow endure a somewhat joyless relationship until the kid gets older
2. Realize I'm getting older, have a few secret flings here and there, then try to make it work out with what I have & keep the family together
3. Break-up once the kid is older and endure until then
4. Break-up now (my least favorite option for a variety of personal reasons)
I'm in my 30s and:
1. Knocked up a girl (from Eastern Europe) and we have a 2.5 year old kid together. We live in Eastern Europe. I am financially well-off and can live anywhere I want.
2. The girl is loyal but definitely not someone I would have picked as a long-term partner if it wasn't for the kid. In fact, I find my life largely joyless these days except for the joy that having a kid brings of course
3. We are not married -- but I've felt obligated to be the good dad by supporting the girl and the kid for the past several years
4. Still have lots of women after me -- including most recently a STUNNING 20 year old blonde -- who I hooked up with and am tempted to close the deal with this week. Some women know about my personal situation, others do not. I usually don't mention it right away.
5. Breaking up would mean lots of bad things, largely becoming an absent dad as I cannot see myself in this particular city for much longer if it wasn't for the kid.
It seems the only options left for me are:
1. Get mistresses and somehow endure a somewhat joyless relationship until the kid gets older
2. Realize I'm getting older, have a few secret flings here and there, then try to make it work out with what I have & keep the family together
3. Break-up once the kid is older and endure until then
4. Break-up now (my least favorite option for a variety of personal reasons)