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girl wants me to text her to know that I am thinking about her
02-24-2013, 12:18 AM
She said she doesn't like that we dont talk enough becuase I always make her iniatiate contact. She said she likes me but wants me to text her sometimes so she knows that I am thinking about her.
Should I just ignore and proceed business as usual?
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02-24-2013, 12:46 AM
Ignore, make her hamster wheel spin.
If you respond directly to her text, the ball will be in her court.
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girl wants me to text her to know that I am thinking about her
02-24-2013, 12:57 AM
text her non sequitor shit every 2-4 days and carry on a light texting conversation with a few back and forths.
e.g. "do libras and scorpios get along?"
e.g. "whatup"
e.g. "need an oil change. zoooomm"
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02-24-2013, 01:09 AM
Nothing wrong with letting her remain as the one to initiate contact. Definitely don't wear some kind of SMS leash for her. The more she invests her time and effort toward chasing you now, the more likely she will be to put effort into it in the future.
So yup, ignore and proceed business as usual. It keeps her interested, so it's the best play in the long run.
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02-24-2013, 04:00 AM
IMO be consistent whatever you do. If you weren't texting/calling her before then don't change that just because she doesn't feel it. I think she's testing your character. Checking your personal boundaries. I'd answer "texting/calling never been my thing. You know that already".
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02-24-2013, 05:09 PM
I saw a little cat today, it looked like you.
giving girls pet names can help you get around this. we use hamster a lot as there's a lot of fucked up hamster pictures out there, you can send one of these once a week
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02-24-2013, 05:13 PM
Great point Tuth. Its easy to forget that too much aloofness will drive a girl away. Theres only so much chasing a girl will do before she gives up on you.
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02-26-2013, 05:10 AM
Bojangles is right about pet names. I have em for all my harem girls and yes I have reused and sometimes use the same pet names for 2-3 girls in order for me not to get confused lol.
I see this as a shit-test. In my experience with this it was a test. The moment I've failed they withdrew. Food for thought. Let em chase and stop caring if she DOES STOP.
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02-26-2013, 08:09 PM
Learn to have the mentality that she can be as good as gone tomorrow and you will never be afraid to lose her.
Don't play by her rules. Let her initiate contact with you but at the same time put in effort on your part as well. Just don't do it as much as her and you'll have leverage in the relationship.
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03-11-2013, 07:44 AM
Ok last night she she text me this
Her: Baby (then folllowed by my first middle and last name)
Me: Are you feeling any better? (she is sick)
Her: Not really but I miss you
Me: I miss you = I need a back massage! haha
Her: No it means I really miss you
Me: I miss you way way way more! (I was trying to be sarcastic)
Her: Whats it gonna take to be your girlfriend? (the other night when we hung out her friend had made a joke about FBO. I didn't know what it meant but apparently it means Facebook Official)
Me: Are you talking like FBO? Haha becuase I prefer Myspace
Her: I'm talking FBO, I deactivited myspace yesterday
Me: Did you really just decactivate your myspace?
She didn't respond back
Any tips on how to keep this girl on rotation without going Facebook official. Maybe I should just tell her that I dont really log on anymore but she can do whatever she wants to hers.????
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03-11-2013, 09:20 AM
what the fuck is going on there...she wants an LTR