I don't agree with you, because from what you say it looks like we are the ones who have to show maturity all the time, even when they don't.
I may not give a thing about get in a girl's pants since, as you rightly say, there are tons of other chiks out there, but I don't accept to be treated unfarirly without respect. Hence, I treat her with no respect, using the appropriate words to describe how much she sucks. I don't think this is immaturity, but just a way to make her understand that if you give shit you might sometime happen to receive shit in exchange.
I can understand by myself when a girl is not into me, and in that case I don't feel the need to have a kind of "revenge" trying to offend her.
But when a girl is *really* unrespectful like for example, as it happened to me, makes me wait at home for a whole evening keeping texting me she was gonna come (I had prepared dinner) and then doesn't show up, and then when the day after I complain she tells me rudely "but why you stayed all the evening sitting around at home?", well, okay, I understand she gamed me, but I think I'm allowed to have the feeling of punching her in the face, which I can't do for obvious rerasons, so I try to be more smooth, and go with some peculiar offence (in that case I called her "retarded ass" which for some reason was very appropriate to her, indeed she stayed mad about it for several months; if I was such an immature loser, I don't think she would have given a fuck about it)
The point here is not to get mad at a girl who is not into you, but at someone who treats you with disrispect only because you are being, maybe a bit naifly, nice to her. If you withdraw from the thing without saying a word, in my instance you look like still more a loser. You look like the random guy who tries his luck with all the bangable girls around, and don't care much about his own dignity as long as he keeps having hope to have his dick wet.
If I know I was a bit creepy, I can accept a girl starts ignoring me. But if I know a I was well behaved, I don't accept being treated meanly, so I'll make her feel bad as I did.
Believe me, you get a lot of satisfactin doing that, if you do it properly.
Quote: (02-23-2013 08:51 AM)Ruxman Wrote:
Very fine line indeed, if u call her names you're living up to the immaturity which she was already suspicious of.