[starmaze]

I dont know if it would work in Europe but i think i will give it a try in the near future. The crucial thing here is an authoriative tone. He does not ask for their phone number , he actually TELL them to put it in his phone. It seems girls respond to confidence and authority. Sure it can be expected that most of these phone numbers will turn to flakes. But most of numbers i get turns to flakes as well, inspite the fact I invest in long converstaions. If you have to go through many flakes anyhow, maybe its the simplest way to go?

[Tengen]

Numbers ain't shit.

I approached 10 girls yesterday, got four numbers. 40% Sounds good?

Text three of the girls today, after five hours only one has replied.

Unless you give them a compelling reason, these days it's too easy for these bitches to straight out ignore you.

How many guys do you think they've given out their number to in the last week?

[RouteBackwards]

(02-20-2013 05:51 AM)Tengen Wrote:  

Numbers ain't shit.

I approached 10 girls yesterday, got four numbers. 40% Sounds good?

Text three of the girls today, after five hours only one has replied.

Unless you give them a compelling reason, these days it's too easy for these bitches to straight out ignore you.

How many guys do you think they've given out their number to in the last week?

Exactly sir.

I remember feeling like numbers were a pinnacle of achievement, and I would boast to my buddies how I got this super hot girls number. Did I bang her? No.

Numbers are a stepping point, but once you sift through all the numbers you have collected over a week, out of five chances are only one will actually go anywhere.

Numbers are all a numbers game sirs.

[starmaze]

I know that numbers dont mean anything. I wrote this. But what i found is that how long you spent talking to girl is not an indication of "flakeiness". I use to have night long interactions with heavy make out with a girl and she never pick up her phone when i call her next day. On the other hand , I had those one minute number exchanges that resulted in dates. So there is no rule. So what i mean is those quick numbers are not much more flakey than others.

[Nomad77]

It all comes down to what is going on in her life at the moment and how she views you. For example, this has happened to me numerous times. I get a girls number, try to contact her, nothing. Put her in rotation, keep contacting her once per month, then suddenly a month, two month, even more later she starts responding. Has anything changed about me? Nope. Usually, they were seeing someone and now there are not. It's that simple.

I just let them know, in no uncertain terms, that I find them attractive and that I don't fuck around. If she contacts me she knows what's going down. Society teaches women that they can be flaky and inconsistent, that's its their right. The best way to combat this is to be the opposite: consistent. I use to try being flaky in return, just to punish them but you can't beat them at their own game. A girl can always out wait and out flake you.

[starmaze]

yes, that are definietly important factors. As to putting numbers in rotation, usually i am not patinet enough and i delete her number quickly. I used to try to reinitiate the contacts with girls that flaked me several times but it didint work.

[Nomad77]

I am seeing a girl now that I met on Halloween, that was like three months ago right. The key is not to take anything personally. I will literally keep contacting a girl until she tells me to fuck off! (Now, I don't contact them every day, more like once a month.) And yes, it does happen, one did recently. And how did I respond? Sure, not a problem with a smile

[Menace]

Basically there needs to be an app for this. Something that will

1) manage the phone #'s
2) send out pre-determined text messages at pre-determined intervals
3) tries to set up a date

e.g.

You: hey <xyz> [randomly select from pool of user-specified contact messages]
Her: i'm blah blah
You: cool, i'm doing <abc> join me at <pqr> [randomly select from pool of user-specified outing messages]
Her: xxx

The app does not need to do recognize what she said, it doesn't even matter what she said, only that she responded. If she send a reply to that the app can collate all those messages and let you know who's interested; if she doesn't reply, the app will touch back with her say 2-3 weeks later (user specified).

You can also set a pre-determined deletion point so that the contact is removed after x number of failed contacts.

[starmaze]

(02-20-2013 10:39 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

I am seeing a girl now that I met on Halloween, that was like three months ago right. The key is not to take anything personally. I will literally keep contacting a girl until she tells me to fuck off! (Now, I don't contact them every day, more like once a month.) And yes, it does happen, one did recently. And how did I respond? Sure, not a problem with a smile

There are flakes and flakes. This is fine when girl is still responding even if she " is busy" or whatever it makes she cannot meet up. I meant kind of flake when she never texts back or pick up her phone.

[WestIndianArchie]

You can rack up phone #'s easy.

But unless you put in the work prior to the phone #, it's just gambling.

With quality game, a phone # is an effect, but not the goal.

WIA

[Jaylow]

(02-20-2013 10:39 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

I am seeing a girl now that I met on Halloween, that was like three months ago right. The key is not to take anything personally. I will literally keep contacting a girl until she tells me to fuck off! (Now, I don't contact them every day, more like once a month.) And yes, it does happen, one did recently. And how did I respond? Sure, not a problem with a smile

What if you txt her twice and you get the "who is this?" line twice followed by an excuse after you tell her who you are? Or no text back at all? Do you give up or still keep trying in another month?

If you attempt to contact someone the 2nd or more times who deleted your number do you give the standard "whats up" or do you say something like "hey its (name), we should get together soon" etc to skip the guessing game again?

[Nomad77]

If they ask who is this I just tell them. Basically if I ever get like a negative vibe from them I deleted them. Quite a few I also have on facebook and sort of do the the same thing. I don't have any hard rules and its' not like I want to be a nuisance to anyone.

[Wreckingball]

(02-20-2013 03:14 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  

(02-20-2013 10:39 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

I am seeing a girl now that I met on Halloween, that was like three months ago right. The key is not to take anything personally. I will literally keep contacting a girl until she tells me to fuck off! (Now, I don't contact them every day, more like once a month.) And yes, it does happen, one did recently. And how did I respond? Sure, not a problem with a smile

What if you txt her twice and you get the "who is this?" line twice followed by an excuse after you tell her who you are? Or no text back at all? Do you give up or still keep trying in another month?

If you attempt to contact someone the 2nd or more times who deleted your number do you give the standard "whats up" or do you say something like "hey its (name), we should get together soon" etc to skip the guessing game again?

check roosh text game.
use a restart text after a week or two or whatever you want:
"Hey, how are you doing, did you survive the weekend/halloween/etc?"