Quote: (05-20-2010 03:42 PM)youngmobileglobal Wrote:
Lately I have been running a lot of direct game on expat girls in Beijing. My main demographic has been Euro and Russian/Ukrainian girls, as I am immediately turned off by an American accent.
It has been very effective. They respond very well and, if their friends are in earshot, will either leave me alone with her or physically move her into a position where it is easier for her to talk to me.
I generally am not good at games of subtlety and like to handle things directly to save time and not deal with any nonsense.
I'd like to know if anyone else generally games direct and if they can relate with this. Based on my experience, I have not seen any cockblocking when I am doing direct. The girl's friends will actively support me hitting on her while male cockblocks will immediately flee the scene.
Haha...your going to get incredible results with this in Asia. Like mindlblowing results that will make you feel, literally, like the world of asian women is yours for the taking. Thats my prediction. And with some practice, your going to get bolder, more confident, and get even better results than you are seeing now. It will be a positive feedback cycle, and you'll be approaching ten women a day, or more, before you know it, and not giving a shit about rejection. Then your results will go up even more.
All women crave dominant direct behavior from men, done well, but asian women rarely get to experience it, and when they do its usually not done in an attractive way. In my experience, beta behavior is much more prevalent amongst native asian men than it is in the west. For some reason, it seems to be a product of the culture. But I could be off on this, as I dont speak an Asian language to really be able to know what I'm talking about.
Women in the west are more used to direct game, and while they respond to direct game very well because they still dont get it enough, they have a certain amount of immunity to it, especially when a guy isn't doing it exactly right. For those of you who have been to South America, those cultures are an example of the other end of the direct / dominant spectrum, where if your going direct, it better be very on-point to really be effective beyond any other approach. Unless your 'gaming' hookers.
Asian women won't reject such directness, because its just so exciting and new for them. Its what they want, deep down. If you get too direct, it may shock them because they aren't used to it, but your going to stimulate a large amount of attraction in them. If you get a weird reaction, just stick around, and I predict that most chinese women who you approach direct will come around in a short period of time. Like you stated, it may not even take that long. The only thing that I can think of that may scare a few off is being 'asshole / disrespectful direct' and even that would probably net you more than a few, its just not necessary or my style.
I miss Asia.