I went to a fundraiser tonight. SOme charity to help in the 3rd world. What struck me is the amount of women there. What I did was go up to the guy running the door and asked him about the charity and what it did, exchanged some interest in what he did, and I honestly appreciated him for his work on this project. No bullshit there - these guys are doing some good stuff. Then all night, as he was friends with some of the major groups there, I basically used him as an in to groups; I met some very nice women.
I'm not sure this is ethical, but socially it worked well.
If I had just done the cold walk up to women it would have not been a quarter as effective I think.
It just got me thinking - the 'function' is such a cool place to be in - its select and adds value as you walk in the door. Its like a bar, without the overtone of brutish vibe of bar. You already have something in common with girls there. Seems like a huge improvement over the Saturday night scene downtown!
I'm not sure this is ethical, but socially it worked well.
If I had just done the cold walk up to women it would have not been a quarter as effective I think.
It just got me thinking - the 'function' is such a cool place to be in - its select and adds value as you walk in the door. Its like a bar, without the overtone of brutish vibe of bar. You already have something in common with girls there. Seems like a huge improvement over the Saturday night scene downtown!
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