[Amateur]

I watched a movie with this girl and was escalating but there were constant interruptions such as her roommate coming in and out and some of her friends on the floor popping in now and then. I finally decided it was time to throw in the towel and try again another night.

It would be better for me to be at her place because I want to spare her the "walk of shame" in the morning as my apartment is off-campus. Also, she would be more comfortable at her place and less defensive. I can't figure a way around this.

[Matt3B]

Why would you give a fuck about her doing the walk of shame?

[alphanov]

even with distractions, escalate until the point of kissing and your hand rubbing her crotch. At that point if she shows little to no resistance, don't say much, just lock the door and fuck. If there's no lock or distractions are absolutely too high, keep your arm around her till the end of movie, and then state (dont ask) that you'll accompany her home. Keep the physical contact during the trip and fuck her in her place.

[polymath]

You want her to do the walk of shame. It means she came over to your place, a physical sign of her investment in you. Where a girl's actions take her, her mind will follow.

I used to date a chick who would come across town from her college to mine just to have sex and hang out with me. Of the girls I've dated, she was easily the most giving. I think the logistics had something to do with that.

She will be more cloistered in her place, and you will be less in command of the space. Get her to yours. The simple trip over will get her head in a place where she's open to new things.

Plus, no interruptions.

[Jules D. McMillan]

What's there to figure out? The answer's pretty obvious. If she's at your place that means she's there for a reason. So, simply lock the door and go to work.

[scorpion]

(02-01-2013 04:41 AM)Amateur Wrote:  

I want to spare her the "walk of shame" in the morning as my apartment is off-campus. Also, she would be more comfortable at her place and less defensive.

That's so cute you have such consideration for her feelings. Sounds like you two will be best friends.

[GenJx]

want to save her the walk of shame? living up to your screen name with that move

[InsurgentMax]

(02-01-2013 02:57 PM)GenJx Wrote:  

want to save her the walk of shame? living up to your screen name with that move

Hahaha you guys are cold!

Anyway, what about the old "sock on the door" trick. It's pretty universally respected. I've never dormed because I went to a commuter school but I've banged a lot of dumb state school sluts and the sock on the door never failed. Except a couple of times when drunken roomies stumbled in but they usually passed out none the wiser.

[Duke Castile]

The whole reason the walk of shame occurs is because you escalate things to a point that she doesn't even consider it. You are setting yourself up for failure by over thinking things.

Go for it now. Fuck her insecurities! Make it fun, make it a game how you're touching her under the blanket when her roomies pop in.

You get her hot enough and that's going to be the last thing on her mind.

[Amateur]

GenJx, good one hahah. I want to spare her the the walk of shame because I don't want her to have regrets about coming over (she's a freshman). I'm trying to make her a a regular fuck buddy.

Scorpion, you're right. I need to check myself and stop caring so much about these girl's feelings. I need to slap the beta out of me.

What do you guys think about going to her place again tonight and trying again? I like Fisto's idea about making it a game touching her under the blanket while her roommate keeps showing up. By the way, there's a wall that separates her side of the room.

[Ovid]

Is it easier to go to hers, or to get her to yours? She won't give a rip about the 'walk of shame.' If she's into you, she's just going to be thinking about the pipe you laid. Any shame gets rationalized away. From the sound of it, with her roomies, if you go to her place you will 100% not be getting laid.

[CJVM]

so many mixed thoughts on this, when I did pickup I had more success with going to her place and getting lucky as opposed to making her come to my place

then again i lived about 15 minutes away from campus

[Duke Castile]

Here's another thing to think about, ALL of these chicks that are halfway attractive are hooking up with someone, don't let her fool you into thinking she's some innocent virgin.

[NatusPrimus]

(02-01-2013 06:19 PM)Amateur Wrote:  

What do you guys think about going to her place again tonight and trying again? I like Fisto's idea about making it a game touching her under the blanket while her roommate keeps showing up. By the way, there's a wall that separates her side of the room.

When going for the "touch game under the blanket," make sure you do not go too far and get her off, or you won't get to nail it later (speaking from experience). If she gives you all green lights, then she'll make sure her roomies don't interrupt (unless the idea of putting on a show turns her on lol). Either that, or invite her to your place where it's more private, which she just might be hoping for anyway. Getting her as a fuck bud will all depend on how well you do the first time...even if no repeats, you still got laid!