Heya ! I love how you guys talk about me like I'm not a member of this forum. Douche bags
There's no "misunderstanding" unfortunately. He's jacked one of my articles ... and then put my tag line "London's finest daygame artist" (while substituting the world Berlin) on his facebook- very original... and is attempting to pass himself off as a daygame expert! (Which he's not!)
In case there's any doubts whatsoever, here's the post he put up on Munich Lair:
Pimping in the Foreign!
by Ginger on 27.04.2010, 05:58
Hallo guys!
Wie geht's?
I wrote this post, with easy tips to improve your game in Buenos Aires, a while ago.
It also applies to other cities and for World-Traveler Seducers.
I hope you enjoy it!
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All right guys! You made it to Buenos Aires! Let me guess. After a delicious and generous portion of carne, you’ll be heading to the nightclubs to pursue the one thing that truly brought you to this region: the ladies!
“It should be easy,” you boast to your buddies, “they love foreigners around these parts. Should be a piece of cake.” Right?
Wrong!
While there are many fantastic reasons to frequent Buenos Aires, an easy pull is not one of them.
The first thing you notice is that the women seemed to give more obvious signs that they are interested. Lots of eye contact, smiling, hair adjusting.
They DIE for attention!
This world-famous Dating Coach (And that for sure you guys read or heard about), whom his name we are not going to say. Came to me and told me:
“I met really interesting ladies here in Buenos Aires since I arrived (3 days) I’d gotten 5 phone numbers from 5 girls today.”
He sat down and texted all of them while I was making some Coffee for the two of us. Minutes later 3 out of those 5 girls already have replied, he yells at me saying “This is going to be EASY!”
That very night, I went to a beautiful city called “Mar del Plata” (500km away from Buenos Aires city) to enjoy some relaxation in the beach during the winter with this lovely girl.
A week later I came back and I got together with my fellow Dating Coach friend (I dislike using the word PUA) for having some drink is this amazing bar in Palermo Hollywood called “Sugar”
After I told him about my nice week in the beach, he asked me:
Do you remember last week, before you go when I texted those 5 girls and within 20 minutes all of them replied?
I said yes, already knowing what he was going to tell me after.
Guess how many of those girls I’d actually met up with? He asked me.
I replied, “You tell me!”
“Just one out of five.” He sentenced.
He follows with “And I’ll tell you what. All those girls seemed interested when I’d gotten their numbers. Otherwise, I wouldn’t have asked!”
“They loved me!” He moaned. “I know they loved me! What happened?” He asked with exclamation.
I just had short reply to that, and with a smile in my face I told him “Welcome to Buenos Aires!” This was not the first nor the last time I had to said those words…
He wanted to get to the bottom of this, so he asked me if I was interested in helping him doing his research, so in the next following weeks we went out there and did what we do best. We had many interactions with many beautiful Argentinean girls.
After executing this research firsthand, I can postulate as to why they may be some of the hardest girls to hook up with.
My guess: They’re women. And women, are flakes! One minute they want this, the next they want the opposite. End of article!
My real guess: Argentine men are SO aggressive, that it’s actually made the women ultra passive because all they’ve ever had do to be approached repeatedly is leave the house. The result: They LOVE to flirt, and they’re good at it. They’ve certainly had enough experience! But when it comes to getting together for that promised date, it’s like chasing a dream.
So, I thought to myself: Maybe it would be useful to write up a little article for my foreign friends or to every other man who goes to Buenos Aires to get some “Argentinian Meat” with my top 5 tips to counter this flakiness of epic proportion.
Tip #1: Avoid the classic/boring pickup lines
Here are a few examples of typically lame lines:
Example 1: “Hey. I’m a banker. Here’s my card, give me a call sometime. (Wink)”
Trying to impress her with your money/status/car? Not working buddy, no way.
Example 2: “Wow, you’re so pretty. Are you a model?”
Uggggh. Do I have to explain why that’s bad?
Example 3: “Hi you’re cute. Can I get your number?”
This isn’t as bad, but it isn’t good. Going for the number straight away implies that all she has to do in order to get you interested is be good looking. Women really want to be appreciated for something other than their looks. They know they’re hot. Try talking to them for a few minutes and find a GOOD reason to want to meet them again.
Tip #2: Avoid nightclubs
First of all: When it comes to picking up local girls in nightclubs and bars, you’ll be at a major disadvantage. It’s loud, it’s harder to talk and you’ll struggle unless you’re fortunate enough to be fluent in Spanish. In fact, being a Spanish speaker may get you the same treatment the locals get on their approach: the cold shoulder!
But fear not! The best place to meet some gorgeous ladies is: anywhere else. That’s right, ANYwhere outside of the nightclub. In day-to-day situations, it is much easier to play the tourist card. “Perdón ¿Dónde está una casa de cambio?” you might ask, or “Un buen restaurante” or even “Una lavandería.”
And after this intro, just continue on with the conversation. You could act a bit confused and then sputter out “¿Hablas ingles?” And if they do speak English, be sure to compliment her on it. “Tu ingles es muy bueno. ¿Porqué?” Of course, if they don’t speak a word you can try, “¿Porqué no hablas ingles?” But after that, you’re on your own!
Some hot spots to meet locals: restaurants, the markets (San Telmo on a Sunday), Tango class, Yoga class, just about anywhere you can imagine. Just don’t be afraid to make the first move. They certainly aren’t going to.
Tip #3: In Buenos Aires, making plans straight away is your best bet
Why get her number to try and see her later when you can take her out RIGHT there? Instant dates are a great way to avoid the struggle to get a girl to return your calls. Only if it’s absolutely impossible to hang out right then, I’ll make plans to meet up another time. But always be sure to, make concrete plans!
His favorite play was: He ask girls if they’re trying to improve their English and once they say they are trying to do just that (so far, every one has said so), He suggest an exchange program. A coffee in a cool spot then them chat half an hour in Spanish, followed by half an hour of English. Everybody goes home a winner (or maybe, you’ll even go home winners together!).
Tip #4. Omitting some information sometimes it’s better.
I learned an excellent lesson from this one girl I had been seeing in the past. 24, local, works out, lived in the US for years. We went out and had an amazing 7-hour date. I mean, 7 hours. You’d think, for SURE there would be a second date, right?
Wrong!
I didn’t hear from her for 2 weeks! I sent her one of my famous anti-flake texts, which eventually got a reply and another date.
On date 2, I found out the reason she avoided me. Are you ready for it?
She didn’t want to get emotionally attached to someone who was leaving the country. I was moving to Los Angeles, California for almost a year in the following weeks.
In the end, she got attached, but the lesson here is this:
Just as some girls like the idea of hooking up with world travelers (hey, no strings!), some girls will be put off of the idea. I recommend just feeling out the type of girl you’re dealing with before you reveal you migratory status.
Is she a party girl? Or does she seem a bit more reserved? If it’s the latter, you may opt for my friend’s advice (for foreigners).
“Never tell ‘em you don’t live here. You just moved here. YOU JUST MOVED HERE! That’s your story. Stick to it!”
Even though it may not make sense, women often don’t want to admit to themselves (or even to their friends) that they are having free, no strings sex.
Now, I’m not saying you should lie to get girls into bed, but maybe stretch the truth. A little. Tell her you’re thinking about moving here (hey, we can all THINK about moving here… right? right!). This should go down well for either type of girl (party animal, and non party animal) because they’ll read into it what they want to read into it. See? (Yes, I am pure evil. Thank you very much).
Tip #5: Follow up right away!
If you DO just get their number (and you don’t make plans) make sure to follow up right away! This is a good tip for guys around the world, but especially for the fast pace of Buenos Aires. You may think your 5-minute chat at the bus stop was one to remember, but if you wait a couple of days FORGET about it! You’re history, buddy. So don’t be a wuss. Call her that night (or the next day at the latest)!
Often, I’ll text women 2 minutes after I’ve walked away from them with something playful, such as “hey, miss me yet?” It keeps the conversation going while it’s still fresh in her mind, so there’s never an awkward moment where she has to decide whether or not she should pick up the phone when you call!
I wish you a nice stay if you are already in Buenos Aires, and I wish you come to Buenos Aires if you haven’t been here yet.
And with no more to add, I said goodbye and
“Bienvenido a Buenos Aires”
Ginger.
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Now, take a look at this article I wrote for this website this summer while in Buenos Aires:
http://landingpadba.com/tips-on-how-to-a...nos-aires/
Look familiar? He took the whole thing and just added a little fantasy bit at the start. Ooh I guess I'm the world famous dating coach! I'm flattered.
Apparently he's used some of my other stuff and shifted some words around - I haven't bothered looking at the evidence because I've got better shit to do with my time!
So yesterday he emails me apologizing and asking me to take my post down...... which i MIGHT have done..... but now he comes and tries to bash me on here. Pretty dumb.
Ya'll can do whatever you like, I've said all I have to say in my blog post.
I'm not even mad or anything.... people just do what they are compelled to do..... it is what it is.
It would take a whoooooooole lot of apologizing at this point... but hey, if he comes out and just admits he was an idiot and apologizes for a)stealing my articles and b)bashing me on here without merit and c) makes it clear he understands why what he did was wrong- I could possibly forgive him and alter the post explaining he's done right....
He's just a kid after all....and everyone deserves a 2nd chance.
Up to you Ginger - what's it gonna be?
Sasha.