Hi - because its all I can do right now, given my current life and this dead city, I am meeting girls in supermarkets and cafes, malls etc (not bars). I generally get a back-forth conversation of around 3 or 4 sentences. eg. to a cashier in a department store playing awful music. I class her as an 8 because she is wearing no make up and is in some store uniform and she looks very cute. SHe has an eastern european accent. So thats very appealing to me for some reason.
me: 'Do you choose the music here?"
her: "no way... " laughs
me: "I was going to say..."
her: "we definitely don't, try listening to I Apologise like infinity times a day... awful".
me: "Really I thought you picked it between yourselves and played it over and over again because you liked it "
her: "Noooo..." laughing.
I was getting some good teasing happening, but I just don't know where to take these things. I felt a connection, but couldn't advance. The number close seemed to dorky without more rapport. Do I just need to go deeper ? "Wheres your accent from"?. ANyway thoughts on process here guys, I'm a bit lost. She was a cashier - not much time as there are other people waiting. I went back again, and bought a packet of gum (' I am waiting for my ride'), and then was too shy to open again. She probably gets hit on all time and I need to go in a bit deeper into some kind of show of value?
Ah, a bit painful. It was nice to make her laugh but I don't want to play the entertainer.
me: 'Do you choose the music here?"
her: "no way... " laughs
me: "I was going to say..."
her: "we definitely don't, try listening to I Apologise like infinity times a day... awful".
me: "Really I thought you picked it between yourselves and played it over and over again because you liked it "
her: "Noooo..." laughing.
I was getting some good teasing happening, but I just don't know where to take these things. I felt a connection, but couldn't advance. The number close seemed to dorky without more rapport. Do I just need to go deeper ? "Wheres your accent from"?. ANyway thoughts on process here guys, I'm a bit lost. She was a cashier - not much time as there are other people waiting. I went back again, and bought a packet of gum (' I am waiting for my ride'), and then was too shy to open again. She probably gets hit on all time and I need to go in a bit deeper into some kind of show of value?
Ah, a bit painful. It was nice to make her laugh but I don't want to play the entertainer.
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