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Swaying a stubborn bi girl
01-09-2013, 11:01 AM
A girl I've been chatting to on facebook is adamant she will not bang a guy.
She's come out of a hetrosexual relationship and has been hooking up with girls and says she wants nothing to do with guys, but continues chatting and liking my photos and saying she thinks I'm 'sexy', BUT she likes girls now.
I've not met her before and just suggested going to the beach on the weekend and she asked why I am bothering if I'm not going to get anything out of it.
I played cool and said 'I asked you to the beach not bed, don't worry about it' and then got a hamster of replies saying sorry, she's just cautious of guys wanting to hook up with her for threesome etc, and then sent me her phone number and 'Up to u but I've told u how I've felt and I hope that u respect that'
I didn't reply.
Sway-able?
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Swaying a stubborn bi girl
01-09-2013, 11:49 AM
Quote: (01-09-2013 11:01 AM)hctim Wrote:
A girl I've been chatting to on facebook is adamant she will not bang a guy.
She's come out of a hetrosexual relationship and has been hooking up with girls and says she wants nothing to do with guys, but continues chatting and liking my photos and saying she thinks I'm 'sexy', BUT she likes girls now.
I've not met her before and just suggested going to the beach on the weekend and she asked why I am bothering if I'm not going to get anything out of it.
I played cool and said 'I asked you to the beach not bed, don't worry about it' and then got a hamster of replies saying sorry, she's just cautious of guys wanting to hook up with her for threesome etc, and then sent me her phone number and 'Up to u but I've told u how I've felt and I hope that u respect that'
I didn't reply.
Sway-able?
Sway-able, but why are you on fb?
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Swaying a stubborn bi girl
01-10-2013, 03:30 AM
The biggest challenge when gaming a girl is to get her in front of you...
One thing you'll notice after banging a bunch of women is how big they talk, yet when in person they aren't 1/10th as brave.
Just get her in front of you, with logistics in your favor. An early evening meet up for dessert, then venue change to a lounge (a very low-key spot + have her facing away from the door = less distractions for her) 2 to 3 drinks and walk back to your place to show her some really interesting things you have (preferably drooped a few hints during the date). Escalate as needed.
On the way back to your flat tell her you aren't having sex because you have an early start in the morning + tell her she can only come in for a few minutes.
Ignore what she says, pay attention to what she does.
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Swaying a stubborn bi girl
01-10-2013, 07:58 AM
Not facing the door is a really good point! I tend to always face the entrance myself, and get distracted. Is that a good thing if they catch you checking out people entering?
That was my plan to meet up with her, she obviously liked me even though her apparent lesbianism. But every thing I threw at her was met by a bitch defence.
I like the bluff of no sex too.
Logistics may be out on this one, the beach is halfway. I haven't replied to her yet, got some other plans that may trump her.