[whatsup]

Okay, so. Last Friday went out with a group and took home a girl. Banged her that night and again in the morning. Saturday night we met up, she came home again, same result. Both the nights we were drunk, though naturally in the morning not. She put up no resistance any of the times, totally wanted it.

Texted on and off throughout the week, she came over alone on Thursday night, thought it would be easy. Moved in two times, each time made out for a minute but then she backed off...I was a little thrown off. This was the first time she wasn't drunk. Third time I finally closed the deal, though.

Went out this past Friday night in a group, same as the first Friday -- banged that night and next morning. Again, she was drunk that night.

So today (Sunday) I invite her over after she texted me. I was hoping to get another sober bang in...we hung out for a while, then I moved in and again, twice just made out for a minute before she backed off. Then she said she needed to go hang out with her sister, who she hasn't gotten to see for a while.

So what's going on? I'd like to turn this into a regular hookup, but it looks like she's putting up resistance when we're not out and drinking. I might have waited too long today, cause I think she really did need to go (which I didn't know ahead of time, otherwise I would have initiated sooner), but I also didn't want to just go for it as soon as she walked in the door. I figure if she's putting up resistance (like Thursday night) she doesn't want to act slutty, even though whenever we go out it's no big deal.

How can I spin the late night alcohol-induced hookup into a regular, sober thing?

[UgSlayer]

No girl wants to feel like a booty-call. That doesn't mean that you can't make her a regular booty-call.

Maybe she can sense that you're expecting sex, or putting all the value of the interaction on the sex. I'm not saying this to act as some kind of advocate to her, but in this scenario, she holds all the power. She can come over and cock-tease you and then leave. If you keep doing this, she might just stop coming over in general. Next time she halts the action, just act like it doesn't bother you and do something else. Turn on the tv and head toward the fridge.

She won't know what to do and be a bit frazzled. Just become a bit more aloof and a bit less needy for the sex (which is tough when you've got a girl alone and making out with her).