[solo]

I have found myself doing some approaches on my way to dates in recent months. It is staggering how often I get a number or something else out of it.

I often like to prepare myself well in time for the date and it's as if I realize I have a spare moment and might as well "play the lottery".

It is like a bonus, since you already have a date with a girl who has agreed to meet you and therefore has some level of attraction for you, you don't really care so much if you get another number. Also, since you are on your way to a date you will normally have higher energy levels and spirits which I think helps.

[thegmanifesto]

(12-18-2012 11:23 PM)solo Wrote:  

I have found myself doing some approaches on my way to dates in recent months. It is staggering how often I get a number or something else out of it.

I often like to prepare myself well in time for the date and it's as if I realize I have a spare moment and might as well "play the lottery".

It is like a bonus, since you already have a date with a girl who has agreed to meet you and therefore has some level of attraction for you, you don't really care so much if you get another number. Also, since you are on your way to a date you will normally have higher energy levels and spirits which I think helps.

Yeah, this is totally true.

It is like "playing with the house's money".

You have more confidence (ie you straight up don't give a f*ck) because you already have something lined up.

The true trick is to get yourself in a state of mind like this when you don't have something lined up.

This is where "Act as If" comes into play.

The Game is 90% mental and 10% physical, oh my brothers.

Just like Boxing.

[20Nation]

I think this is a good idea, but I am always worried about being seen by my new date "like if I'm close to where we will meet". I already give off somewhat of a player vibe, and when girls think I'm a player they always make it more difficult on me. What do you do if you are getting a number on your way to a date, and the girl you are supposed to meet drives by on her way to the date? It's hard for me to gamble with it since going on a date means I'm pretty much getting sex, it is hard for me to take a risk for nothing.

That being said, I've never really put myself in that situation so I don't know. I'm just curious how I should react.

[solo]

(12-19-2012 01:26 AM)20Nation Wrote:  

I think this is a good idea, but I am always worried about being seen by my new date "like if I'm close to where we will meet". I already give off somewhat of a player vibe, and when girls think I'm a player they always make it more difficult on me. What do you do if you are getting a number on your way to a date, and the girl you are supposed to meet drives by on her way to the date? It's hard for me to gamble with it since going on a date means I'm pretty much getting sex, it is hard for me to take a risk for nothing.

That being said, I've never really put myself in that situation so I don't know. I'm just curious how I should react.

I think the odds of that occurring are low to begin with, at least if you live in a big city. But I would say, if you get caught, use it to your advantage. If she starts accusing me I would probably say something like "listen I was the one who took a chance and approached you, I'm the one who pays on the date but there is no guarantee I will get anything out of it. I consider myself single for now and it's a bit early for me to make a commitment before I know you well don't you think? If you have a problem with me speaking to other girls maybe you should put out really fast (obviously the last part should be said wih a bit of humor)".

If going on a date means you're pretty much guranteed to get sex Im sure Im not the only one who would like to hear you elaborate a little on how you do that.

(12-18-2012 11:53 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

You have more confidence (ie you straight up don't give a f*ck) because you already have something lined up.

That post right there is gold by the way.