Hey guys, I know it's been posted countless times that adding girls on facebook comes off as needy and that people go as far as suggesting to get rid of it altogether, and I'm not saying this is bad advice but sometimes I feel like playing aloof and not adding on facebook isn't paying all its dividends. Are there situations when friend requesting could be useful? Even though beta it's for the notch knahmean.
Here are two examples:
First girl short blondie banging body and probs a virgin stumbled into me while drunk at a club a while ago. Kept giving me fuck me eyes. I lost no time, number closed but didn't make out because my crew was bitching around saying they wanted to leave (horrifyingly beta by my part to give in that easily and poor wingmanship, even friend spirit, by them). I'll chalk that up to still trying to better myself and making mistakes. I didn't have the chance to get back at her in useful time so basically her digits went straight to the dustbin.
Second one, another short blondie vixen with nice plump derriere I met at a skiing event. She looked like a total attention whore. My team jumped in on her got rejected in a matter of minutes. I danced by myself in a corner playing super aloof, she came closer, asked me what was up, chatted for a bit, took pics and started dancing beside me. I try grinding up on her to no avail, she keeps teasing me then bounces.
In both these instances, I can't deny it, there has been terrible game on my part but undeniable attraction. I didn't facebook add the first one because I was sure she was going to (her social circle is somewhat connected to mine and she knew me before we met). She didn't. As for the second one, the goddamn drama queen got added by my friends was tagged in a pic where she was feeling me up but won't add me. One of the guys is somewhat of a natural, he is wasting no time and got her digits and asked me if i wanted to come along because they're meeting up in groups but that's impossible since right now I'm back in my hometown for winter break.
Now in both cases I'm highly doubtful I'll get anything out of these two and I have already moved on (even though I feel really attracted to the first one plus she's a virgin... oneitis anyone?).
But I'm wondering, is following all the game precepts to the letter somehow hurting my game?
And
Could I have gotten anything from friend requesting any of the two?
Here are two examples:
First girl short blondie banging body and probs a virgin stumbled into me while drunk at a club a while ago. Kept giving me fuck me eyes. I lost no time, number closed but didn't make out because my crew was bitching around saying they wanted to leave (horrifyingly beta by my part to give in that easily and poor wingmanship, even friend spirit, by them). I'll chalk that up to still trying to better myself and making mistakes. I didn't have the chance to get back at her in useful time so basically her digits went straight to the dustbin.
Second one, another short blondie vixen with nice plump derriere I met at a skiing event. She looked like a total attention whore. My team jumped in on her got rejected in a matter of minutes. I danced by myself in a corner playing super aloof, she came closer, asked me what was up, chatted for a bit, took pics and started dancing beside me. I try grinding up on her to no avail, she keeps teasing me then bounces.
In both these instances, I can't deny it, there has been terrible game on my part but undeniable attraction. I didn't facebook add the first one because I was sure she was going to (her social circle is somewhat connected to mine and she knew me before we met). She didn't. As for the second one, the goddamn drama queen got added by my friends was tagged in a pic where she was feeling me up but won't add me. One of the guys is somewhat of a natural, he is wasting no time and got her digits and asked me if i wanted to come along because they're meeting up in groups but that's impossible since right now I'm back in my hometown for winter break.
Now in both cases I'm highly doubtful I'll get anything out of these two and I have already moved on (even though I feel really attracted to the first one plus she's a virgin... oneitis anyone?).
But I'm wondering, is following all the game precepts to the letter somehow hurting my game?
And
Could I have gotten anything from friend requesting any of the two?
